Is it cheating?

sportync · 07-08-2003, 09:37 AM

I would definately have to agree with most of those who have replied to this thread.....if it's behind your partner's back, then it's cheating, plain and simple. Gender doesn't really have anything to do with it. If his wife caught him doing his goat, it would still be cheating. If it involves someone other than your partner and is done without their support and approval, then it's cheating. If it's done with their knowledge, but not their approval, then it's still cheating. Sportync

Flori_DAMAN · 07-09-2003, 03:18 PM

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Originally posted by sportync
I would definately have to agree with most of those who have replied to this thread.....if it's behind your partner's back, then it's cheating, plain and simple. Gender doesn't really have anything to do with it. If his wife caught him doing his goat, it would still be cheating. If it involves someone other than your partner and is done without their support and approval, then it's cheating. If it's done with their knowledge, but not their approval, then it's still cheating. Sportync

Is it cheating to masturbate about goats?

John

wrnakedru · 07-09-2003, 03:27 PM

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Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
Is it cheating to masturbate about goats?

John

Only if the old goat complains!

Flori_DAMAN · 07-09-2003, 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by wrnakedru
Only if the old goat complains!

How would he know....I mean she of course

windsor4fun2 · 07-09-2003, 05:18 PM

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How would he know....I mean she of course

From the look in your eye of course.

Jesse

Flori_DAMAN · 07-09-2003, 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by windsor4fun2
From the look in your eye of course.

Jesse

baah

CABob · 07-09-2003, 09:02 PM

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Originally posted by wrnakedru
Only if the old goat complains!

OK, that's really funny! You even made this old goat laugh his ass off.

wrnakedru · 07-09-2003, 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
How would he know....I mean she of course

How? Silly! The "kids" told on you!

Dionysis · 07-17-2003, 10:33 PM

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Originally posted by bear_n_bunny
Thanks for chiming in, as I am not a bisexual male in a traditional marriage I wasn't sure I was seeing the whole picture. But as someone on thread here said, take the gender out of the formula and it's cheating. However, I feel for bisexual men and women who don't feel safe telling thier spouse; don't want to risk the marriage for what would amount to getting something their spouse can't give them. Still, I'd rather do without than do with dishonesty.

-- Bunny

Umm but thats not true. I'm pretty sure thats why a strap-on was invented.

Dionysis · 07-17-2003, 10:41 PM

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Originally posted by bear_n_bunny
Thanks for chiming in, as I am not a bisexual male in a traditional marriage I wasn't sure I was seeing the whole picture. But as someone on thread here said, take the gender out of the formula and it's cheating. However, I feel for bisexual men and women who don't feel safe telling thier spouse; don't want to risk the marriage for what would amount to getting something their spouse can't give them. Still, I'd rather do without than do with dishonesty.

-- Bunny

Umm but thats not true. I'm pretty sure thats why a strap-on was invented.

Flori_DAMAN · 07-17-2003, 11:29 PM

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Originally posted by Dionysis
Umm but thats not true. I'm pretty sure thats why a strap-on was invented.

People don't choose to be bi. Saying that strap ons were invented for cheating bi people is like saying that dildos were invented for when hubby is in the army.

Bi people may not care for strap ons number one. Maybe they actually like PEOPLE of the SAME sex sometimes. Now, I am not bi, but if I could be I WOULD. If it were choice I definately would choose BI, because Id have twice as much fun.

No, strap ons were invented for fun, not marital counseling alternatives......poking fun here.

John

CABob · 07-18-2003, 01:28 AM

Wait! How did the topic change from cheating to the pro and cons of strap-ons?

People, stop the madness!

Lies are garbage.
If you tell each other to many, the relationship stinks.

Couple_DFW · 07-21-2003, 10:23 PM

[quote]Originally posted by bear_n_bunny
[b]I recently had the opportunity to chat with some couples where the men were bisexual. The discuss lead to the fact that both men felt that in nonlifestyle relationships (aka traditional marriage), that it wasn't cheating to have sex with another man since the wife couldn't satisfy that need. They also felt that bisexual women having sex with another womain wasn't cheating either. However, if the men had sex with another woman, it was cheating.

-- Bunny, who still hopes to figure out the male mind one day.

Regardless of the gender....if one partner doesn't know about it..... we both agree that it is cheating.

And....good luck Bunny on that challenge of the male mind. Let me know if you even get close!!

P

jen · 07-22-2003, 12:17 AM

if you find yourself asking.....is this cheating... then most likely it sets off flags inside you and will end up feeling like cheating even if you've convinced yourself that it isn't.

Or something

Michcouple · 07-22-2003, 08:44 AM

If it's behind your partners back then it's cheating

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07-08-2003, 09:37 AM	#31 (permalink)
sportync Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 232 Location: eastern north carolina	I would definately have to agree with most of those who have replied to this thread.....if it's behind your partner's back, then it's cheating, plain and simple. Gender doesn't really have anything to do with it. If his wife caught him doing his goat, it would still be cheating. If it involves someone other than your partner and is done without their support and approval, then it's cheating. If it's done with their knowledge, but not their approval, then it's still cheating. Sportync __________________ this ain't no dress rehearsal

07-18-2003, 01:28 AM	#42 (permalink)
CABob Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71 Location: CA, Bay Area Status: Swingle Man	I like strap-ons Wait! How did the topic change from cheating to the pro and cons of strap-ons? People, stop the madness! Lies are garbage. If you tell each other to many, the relationship stinks. __________________ Every so often, I try to masturbate a large word into conversation, even if I'm not really sure what it means.

07-21-2003, 10:23 PM	#43 (permalink)
Couple_DFW Active Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 133 Location: DFW, TX Status: Married Fun Couple	Re: Is it cheating? [quote]Originally posted by bear_n_bunny [b]I recently had the opportunity to chat with some couples where the men were bisexual. The discuss lead to the fact that both men felt that in nonlifestyle relationships (aka traditional marriage), that it wasn't cheating to have sex with another man since the wife couldn't satisfy that need. They also felt that bisexual women having sex with another womain wasn't cheating either. However, if the men had sex with another woman, it was cheating. -- Bunny, who still hopes to figure out the male mind one day. Regardless of the gender....if one partner doesn't know about it..... we both agree that it is cheating. And....good luck Bunny on that challenge of the male mind. Let me know if you even get close!! P __________________ If you're not living on the edge, then you are taking up too much space. P...is she D...is he

07-22-2003, 12:17 AM	#44 (permalink)
jen Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,118 Location: above a rainbow Status: un dolce uno	Maybe if you find yourself asking.....is this cheating... then most likely it sets off flags inside you and will end up feeling like cheating even if you've convinced yourself that it isn't. Or something __________________ April in Tulsa - it's fun for everyone!

07-22-2003, 08:44 AM	#45 (permalink)
Michcouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 845 Location: Michigan Status: couple	Yes If it's behind your partners back then it's cheating

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