Redefining Fidelity

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by OhioCouple
Jc,

Have you been using my handy dandy CPT?

Lori

PS: Everyone, it is an inside joke....I've done some VERY passionate things by using my translator program....

hummm I bet if I would have done this it would have become something like this... "I cannot use the vacuum cleaner because I have not yet change the color of the flowers".... or this "I can't go outside my bathroom because the golden fish is still inside".

Don't worry I am not still completly crazy although sometimes I am wondering...

I shall explain to everyone a bit more about our private joke... ooops Lori I hope you will pardon me to break "our secrete"

Lori wanted to show me the ability of her handy computer (CPT)to translate english into french and as the result was pretty funny I gave her the following advice.... when You use a "robot" for a translation go "back and forth" with this and ask a translation back to the original language you want to translate... doing so after several "back and forth" translations You will be surprised by the result You can get...

To translate a language in another language we still need the help of a human intervention (and it's good wirth this) so be always cautious when You send an email to a foreign friend if you do not speak the language... automatic translations can be worse than no translation at all

Hugs and kisses to you Lori and kisses for others females too of course

JC

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love

Now what about intimacy ? when you are emailing to a friend - even if the purpose is not sexual - it is always emotional and intimate. As you know I don't hidde what I do to my lover and I am sur you don't hidde what you email to Gene but each time You send a email without showing it first to your hubby then You are in the same situation that I am.

I am not pretending that I am making love online with a female but I am talking about any topic freely .....

While I agree that anytime you are talking to people privately via email or even on this board it is intimate in nature, from discussing child rearing to building cars and even topics that are sexual in nature. The difference to me is that it is "discussion" and not one that is oriented towards self sexual pleasure. (If that makes sense.)

Perhaps this will explain it better. There have several times that I have talked with members of this board, be it either the male or female half about sexually related issues that can be explicit sometimes. This has been done through either instant messaging or e-mails. The difference is that it was a discussion and not one that would be similar to this:

"Hey Baby, what are you wearing"? and then go on to converse and have sex of the mind in which one becomes sexually aroused. I do not get aroused by reading or discussing on this board (well with the exception of that one thread that Alura started about fantasies.. ) or by discussing sexual topics via email or instant messaging.

If one is aroused by doing so, via personal communication, that is what would constitute cheating in my eyes, if your spouse wasn't aware of it.

Lori

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love
You will be surprised by the result You can get...

Of course I'm not upset that you revealed our "little secret"..

In one of our first exchanges of correspondence (privately) which began because of some carnage that was happening in that sssshhhhh....."war" thread. I thought I would try to be impressive by using the Google language translator program and wrote a paragraph in english and had it automatically translated into french. (I didn't know about going back and forth at the time)

JC usually signs all of his posts with something like hugs or hugs and kisses, so I did the same in my translated addition. I don't recall what all I had written in that paragraph now, but the simple fact of the matter is that I came across as I was passsionate for him. Thank goodness he was a good sport about it. He politely informed me that he was in a long term relationship and that Uneed_Love2 wouldn't allow him to be so passionate with other women!

In essence, I tried to cyber mail with JC (and I didn't know it) and he turned me down! LMAO!!!

We have come a long way since then and I've learned to not Google anymore.... !!!

Lori ~ The rejected one....