Single, but still Married

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Originally Posted by n2ez

just read the classic swinger profile/ads the ones I read anyway mostly stipulate No Married men have never seen one No Married Women, and yours may well be the exception and that is somewhat honest of you...

I think you are still missing the point that several including Chicup, (who's post I agree with) have been trying to make to you n2ez. The reason you don't see, "No married women" in adds is simply because it is not needed, not because it would be more accepted. We have been contacted be dozens of cheating married males in the past but never once by a cheating married woman. And like Chicup all the cheating married women we have met were always part of a, "couple but not married to each other". Yet a lot, maybe even most, of the single guys we meet at the clubs are actually cheating husbands. So, when or if cheating wives become more of a problem in swinging I am sure you will start seeing a, "no cheating women" statement in add profiles.

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Originally Posted by n2ez

I do find some ads funny to almost always it list "No Married Men" have yet to see one with "No Married Women" this would lead one to think Married Women are exempt from the rule?

Actually I see 'No Cheaters' almost as often as 'No Married Men'. And as Alura said we don't see 'No Space Aliens' either!! There just isn't an abundance of solo married women contacting people. Our profile does not say 'no married men' or 'no singles' and we were swamped with messages from single men - mostly married and 'running solo'. However we didn't get even one message from a solo married woman. We also got messages from couples that happened to mention that 'the wife won't be joining me' or 'I'll be traveling by myself'. To me - that is a drama situation waiting to happen.

Sarah