Cheating

[DBL D]

Well, I apologize Southern Lady,

What happens with me is that I read the first post and then sometimes scan down through the threads then make my mark.

Your question was "how many men have started their swinging careers without their wife?"

We have not done that...been together for the whole thang!

Male D

[duwannaball]

Sorry to get off the question again, but this subject does that a bit. This could be broken off but Is it me, or does it seem real that according studies about cheeting that 60% of married women say it's accepted for men to cheet. I dont know about the folks here, but that seems kinda high to me.

Butch-

[jcbicouple]

Originally Posted by Southern Lady

I hope you all don't think that I think swinging is cheating , what I was talking about was the Husbands on AFF that have contacted me and told me that the wife does not know. Now that's cheating!! I totally agree with what you said that if you have to hide or lie you are cheating. My hubby and I have always been very open with each other and now that we are new to swinging he has been right by my side. I guess that's why we have married 14 years, 15 in March.

Sorry we didn't answer your question. We didn't think that you meant that swinging was cheating. We'll try again:
We started this together. It would be interesting to find out how many of the people that started this by cheating have had it actually work. We would think very few, since a huge part of swinging (at least for us) is trust.

[DBL D]

I'd sorta like to know that myself.

Male D