Wife emailing me asking whats up?

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by misterbates

We get a response to our ad on Swing Lifestyle...let call them Cple1...male 1/2 of Cple1 wants to get with us We exchange pics and a few e-mails when he tell us that he'll have to get together without mrs Cpl1..because she's against male bi stuff and says noway to his bi play!!!and he really wants to be bi....so we say sorry we dont get into that situation..write us back when she agrees....well 6 months or so later we get response from single dude..call him sngle1....sngle1 has a cert on his profile ..we read ..it's a glowing report from Cple1...and he has given them a wonderful reveiw also....well..to make a long story short..we open the letter and lo and behold the pic(of sngle1) that is attached is the same pic that the male from Cple1 sent us a few months earlier!!!!!..stupid idiot gave himself two wonderful certs!!!!..needless to say we called him on it and haven't heard from him since....

Make sure to report that guy to the folks at Swing Lifestyle.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by softjade

Thanks for the support everyone. I received another email yesterday from someone else, asking me how did I know this girl and was I a friend of hers and am I "messen with her in a way I shouldn't be". I have no idea who any of these people are and it is getting me in the worst of moods.

I refuse to respond to anymore email. I am just going to delete my ads and everything. I really don't need this drama in my life. I know it may be an over-reaction, but this sort of stuff just really freaks me out.

Don't let this woman scare you away from swinging altogether. Most likely she is getting her friends into the act because she is hurt.

I never have understood why it is that when women find that their husbands are going behind their backs that they blame the other woman instead of the person who deserves the blame. In this case you didn't do anything.

You should email this woman and give her a direct link to the profile her husband posted and let her know that whatever is going on between her and her husband you have nothing to do with it and then block any further incoming email from them. You should also report him to the admin of the site his ad is on and let them know what happened (But not until after his wife has had time to see the ad).