Did you have to talk your wife into swinging?

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by ricndi032903
But since you've all made it clear that you do not want the non swingers and ones that find it difficult to understand why someone would venture into this when they have everything they need at home, I bid you a fine fairwell, I wish you all luck, hope you don't end in divorce court, or death row, I've learned all I care too, and your physical way of living isn't for me, my moral and conscience are way above your's, so you're right you are way out of my leage, I will have the life & dreams of having a happy, healthy, faithful marriage with one man, not 20. so clap you hands in joy. Good bye, and Hope you all have a Happy Holiday.

I guess we missed the point in the other thread.

And Mrs. O....

"For husbands or men"

...maybe she meant "For husbands or 'real' men." Just a thought...- EBF

[Lorrie]

Originally posted by EternallySingle
Husbands are not men. After they get married women own their manhood. They are still allowed at all the club meetings and special functions, but they don't have to pay dues anymore. We feel they've gone through the final rite of passage and we look to them as our leaders and for advice on what to do and not to do concerning women, finances, career, etc. Unfortunately, we sometimes listen to the husbands who tell us what we want to hear instead of the ones who tell us the truth, whatever that is at the moment.

Your posts are brilliant and witty; something I rarely see on the Internet. I enjoy reading them.

[VegasLee]

Originally posted by ricndi032903
ok guys, be honest......

How many of the husbands or men on this site actually
had to "talk" their wives or women in to this lifestyle???

And how many had the respect to say; "ok she doesn't want it, I can live with that" and just let the idea stay a fantacy.

I feel that if I had to "talk her into it" then she would be doing it for me and not for herself or us and I would never be comfortable with that type of relationship.

[Maus-Katz]

No convincing required here!

[cpl4playmass]

No arm twisting here!

We talked about it in fantasies and haven't looked back!

[Greg & Sheryl]

Both of us were already in the Lifestyle when we met, and both of us were still in the Lifestyle when we became a couple several years later. It was simply understood that we would continue to do this, so we never even discussed it!