Help Letting Go and Taking the Plunge

[LFM2]

What a great post!!

I'm so thrilled that you and your husband could connect in a way that seems to be privy to us swingers. It's makes sharing fantasies and desires nonthreatening.

I can imagine what you were feeling when you asked your spouse to read your letter. Talk about putting your feelings out there on the line. Like bbarnsworth said, you must have a wonderful marriage!!

I also have to agree with the above statements about the co-workers. Just my 2 cents.

[iapr]

Ooops, I missed the part about the coworkers. I agree with the others, stay away from traditional friends, neighbors, coworkers etc etc. That can only lead to problems even though it may seem like a good idea at the time.

It sounds like you two have great potential to be honest and healthy swingers so keep your activities confined to actual swingers who know what it's all about and don't go dragging vanillas into it.

[rayna]

I've been silent for months now, but I wanted to tell you that We did finally take the plunge and it was very very nice! But it certainly didn't happen the way we thought it would. When we last posted, we thought we were ready to dive in. We went to a club, met some very interesting people, selected a delicious looking man, and arranged for a Friday night meeting. And it started out great - we met, had a drink and chatted, danced, touched a bit, talked about what we liked and were looking forward to. Then we just kind of freaked out. One funny look from my hubby, my nervousness, fear about how the other was feeling, shyness - it just all built up. In the end, I said no, apologizing profusely but admitting I wasn't ready. After we left, I was so upset and frustrated that I cried all the way home.

So we decided to put things on hold for a while. We still talked about it, but as something we would do someday. We went to that off-premises club again, and it was very stimulating, but in a remote sort of way. And that is where is stayed until recently.

The parents gave us a chance to have a ski and spa weekend away in March. After leaving the kids, we enjoyed a drive up north and had a great afternoon skiing. Halfway through, we met one of hubby's college roommates on the lift who was up for the day. I knew Jeff and we always got along, teasing and joking. We did a few more runs and then went to the lodge for some hot chocolate, and then we moved on to scotches. After a few of those, while Jeff went to the bathroom, hubby said he was concerned about Jeff driving back. So I looked him right in the eye and suggested may he should stay over. We both knew what that meant, and it was instant agreement. So hubby ordered another round, and when Jeff came back, told him he couldn't have his unless he agreed to stay over. Jeff said he didn't want to spend the money and hubby immediately said we have plenty of room, stay with us. Jeff looked at me and I said sure, no problem, as casually as I could muster while my heart raced. Jeff took his glass and took a nice sip and smiled at us and said "Cool".

We had a casual dinner, and went back to the room very tipsy and joking. I was very excited, and I knew hubby was too. We settled into the room with a couple of sodas and hubby turned on the TV and started browsing the movies. After a minute, he went into the adult section, and he and Jeff started trading quips about the descriptions. Jeff kept glancing at me, seeing if I was okay with this, and I just smiled back at him. Then they came to one about wife-sharing. Hubby said "This looks interesting", and Jeff went "Ooooh" and looked me in the eye. "Sounds nice to me", I replied, looking right back at Jeff, smiling. Hubby went "Mmmmm" and started the movie.

We settled into one of the king-size beds with me in the middle. As the movie men felt up the wife, so did hubby and then Jeff. As the husband exposed her breasts, so did hubby - Jeff liked that. Then as the visitor kissed her nipples, so did Jeff. Following the movie, hubby took off my jeans, Jeff touched me and took off my panties and touched me some more. I had a fabulous orgasm, and then said "Okay boys, it's time for some cocks." They were undressed in seconds and we did it all. I sucked Jeff a little while, then put his cock in me while I sucked hubby. I got both loads of cum in a few minutes. I took Jeff in my ass while hubby did my pussy, I sucked them some more, and traded them off, fucking one while stroking the other, then switching back and forth. It was very nice! I had several orgasms, got lots and lots of sperm (I love sperm!), it was intense, it was slow and sensuous....

We slept some, but fucked some more in the middle of the night - I loved Jeff in the my ass, hubby in my pussy, all their hands on me, and my hubby whispering "You are so sexy, Rayna!" We had a nice jacuzzi session in the morning, had breakfast with those knowing grins and looks, and then split since no one had the energy to ski!

Jeff lives about 40 miles from us, and we've gotten together another time at our house (kids at other parents' house). And hubby and I have agreed that we are delighted. Our passion is awesome, and we are really tender and caring with each other. And we've agreed to get back with that delicious man from January in a couple of weeks.

So we did take the plunge. We didn't get there how we imagined - we couldn't just jump in or manufacture the event. But when the opportunity presented itself, we were ready. And it ended up being just as exciting as we dreamt. So if you're thinking about, talking about it, dreaming about it, maybe our story can help you take the plunge and be as happy about it as us!

Thank you everyone for your support early on. We certainly plan to stay on the Swingers Board and stay in touch!

Rayna

[LFM2]

Rayna, I'm so glad you have a great story to share!! I appreciate the updates as I'm sure others do too. Thanks!

[bbarnsworth]

Absolutely awesome! Glad you had such a fabulous time! What an evolution from crying all the way home to knowing grins in the jacuzzi! Fan-damn-tastic!

[Additude]

What a great story.....

Dibbs on movie rights

Very touching, very exciting and thank you very much for sharing.