Telling my wife I want to see her with another man

[Concupiscence]

I’m not really interested in other women either but I can be an opportunist at times – a brown eyed brunet with a rounded ass who love soft petting and ear nibbles….damn… Back to your subject. I think a man who ask his wife to take another man to bed is a man who loves his wife, loves to see her enjoy herself, has implicit faith and trust in her. He wants to see her in ecstasy as well as show her off. If I could tell your wife anything it would be that you obviously love her.

Mr. Concupiscent

[OnHArry]

I don't want to be a kill joy BUT; when I read your posts it seems like YOU are really into this, and maybe that tends to warp your veiw of her and what she really thinks. Are you sure there is a twinkle in her eye, and are you sure it means what you think it means.

You both have to be on the same page, and it is possible she mentions that one guy in particular only because the fantasy seems to appeal to you. I would strongly suggest that you are dead certain she is wanting this as much as you, and you should be prepared to hear in the end NO.

The worse possible thing that could happen is she may really like it, and you may find that the fantasy is not what you hoped for, except then the genie is out of the bottle, and there is no putting it back.

Go slow talk, talk, talk and talk some more and make damned sure she is really willing and not just humouring you. Also as mentioned above get her to look here, including this thread you started.

It could end up ruining your marriage do you want that, or are you sure it would survive.

[Concupiscence]

Looking back through all of your previous post I have noticed that you are well meaning in your comments but your posts never seem positive or inspiring. Despite what you may think, I believe it’s only fair that the woman knows how her man feels and there is nothing “warped” in that.

Mr. C.