How soon to bring up swinging with a new girlfriend?

Brian · 12-08-2001, 03:11 PM

Yeah, the bi thing isnt really a big deal, Ive gotten oral on a guy before and have actually rode one before. I figure if were all in bed together than anything goes.
But Im figuring I wont be there the first time she does this for us.
I just hope I can hold back from asking her to do it, it would be so easy to ask her. I asked her if she knew a guy who was well hung she could do and she said she did and asked if I wanted her to call him. Then when she called this morning her first question was "should I call Randy",,,ohh shes got me so hot!!!

LIZA · 12-08-2001, 04:18 PM

Well I think Brian has his problem solved. But I think in GENERAL unless swinging is a deal-breaker and you won't consider a relationship with anyone who won't, it is best to see where yoyur relationship is going before you start bringing up the possibility of extra partners. But for some, swinging IS a deal-breaker

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12-08-2001, 03:11 PM	#16 (permalink)
Brian Active Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 22 Location: Michigan	Yeah, the bi thing isnt really a big deal, Ive gotten oral on a guy before and have actually rode one before. I figure if were all in bed together than anything goes. But Im figuring I wont be there the first time she does this for us. I just hope I can hold back from asking her to do it, it would be so easy to ask her. I asked her if she knew a guy who was well hung she could do and she said she did and asked if I wanted her to call him. Then when she called this morning her first question was "should I call Randy",,,ohh shes got me so hot!!!

12-08-2001, 04:18 PM	#17 (permalink)
LIZA Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 426 Location: ORANGE COUNTY, CA Status: Married Fem.	Well I think Brian has his problem solved. But I think in GENERAL unless swinging is a deal-breaker and you won't consider a relationship with anyone who won't, it is best to see where yoyur relationship is going before you start bringing up the possibility of extra partners. But for some, swinging IS a deal-breaker