Laying it on the line.... bringing up the subject to my wife

[JandL]

Originally Posted by Hellboy

My first reaction to that comment is that with us, there is already complete trust. But upon deeper pondering, its not a deeper trust, but more of a horizontal move, I suppose. From being in the conversation first hand, it was never about not being satisfied and wanting to be with other people. But to share something that you might think would offend your partner does create another form of trust. And its a morality issue with us. She trusts our relationship enough, its just the 'wrongness' of it. Which time will tell if that changes. We'll see, but I'm not overly concerned. We just had great sex again and I am happy. Except the cinnamon Good Head stuff burns a little on her. Hey, she bought it, not my fault!

You're not alone. My wife too sees the "wrongness" of it. And although she is somewhat attracted to it, she is still keeping the idea at a distance.

And I, like you, am having a hard time being patient and just kind of letting it go.

I still check this site everyday, and read stuff online about it. Which probably just makes it all the harder. Oh well. Good things come to those who wait, right?

Hang in there.

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by JandL

Good things come to those who wait, right?

They do indeed! Five years we talked and now we really are making up for lost time.

(Still grinning after last night's playtime.....)

CB