What is considered too personal?

bill&sabrina · 07-15-2003, 12:40 AM

I have been accused of not holding anything in my marriage sacred, and this will probably generate similar responses. To me nothing is to personal to do with someone we are playing with. Things are only personal when me and my wife are doing them. When I do the same exact things with someone else it is having fun with someone that isn't my wife; nothing more or less. I believe that if you are goind to swing you should let it all hang out. That doesn't include not practicing safe sex though. To me if you are going to do anything sexual with someone other than your spouse or comitted partner you should go all the way. I respect the fact that not everyone is like me, but I don't understand it.
Bill

windsor4fun2 · 07-15-2003, 11:56 AM

I have to second Bill's view that the level of intimacy an action has can depend on who your doing it with. The level of emotional intimacy you have with a person can't help but be a factor in the intimacy level of a physical act your sharing with that person.

Jesse

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07-15-2003, 12:40 AM	#16 (permalink)
bill&sabrina Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 294 Location: Kentucky	I have been accused of not holding anything in my marriage sacred, and this will probably generate similar responses. To me nothing is to personal to do with someone we are playing with. Things are only personal when me and my wife are doing them. When I do the same exact things with someone else it is having fun with someone that isn't my wife; nothing more or less. I believe that if you are goind to swing you should let it all hang out. That doesn't include not practicing safe sex though. To me if you are going to do anything sexual with someone other than your spouse or comitted partner you should go all the way. I respect the fact that not everyone is like me, but I don't understand it. Bill

07-15-2003, 11:56 AM	#17 (permalink)
windsor4fun2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 371 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: M half of Couple	I have to second Bill's view that the level of intimacy an action has can depend on who your doing it with. The level of emotional intimacy you have with a person can't help but be a factor in the intimacy level of a physical act your sharing with that person. Jesse