How soon do you reveal your boundaries?

indy2some · 10-11-2005, 02:18 PM

Its funny that the first "swing" party we went to handed out different colored bracelets to indicate your swinging preferences. Althought at the time I'm not sure we even knew our preferences. It did, however, make matching up with people you had just met easier and avoided some awkward questions. In restrospect, I think it was probably a pretty good idea. We never seen it done again and wonder if any one else has.

BodyScape02 · 10-11-2005, 02:51 PM

did some couples have more than one color band? As in I don't know... white for newbie or virgin...pink for soft swing... red for full swap ...black for bondage?

Inquiring minds... it sounds like a neat little system..

I think there is some great advice on this thread... Spoomonkey is my hero...great peice of advice.

Carol_Danny · 10-11-2005, 04:19 PM

I would be covered in bracelets

I never liked pigeon holing Lifestyle choices since very few people are actually only one way. Most swingers we know could be considered both soft and hard, and in between. It depends on the mood of the evening and the people you are with. If someone asked me to classify my preference at the beginning of an evening, I would not know what to say. Our preferences change over time, and month to month we feel like doing different things.

Carol xoxoxo

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10-11-2005, 02:18 PM	#16 (permalink)
indy2some Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Indianapolis Status: Couple	Re: How Soon Do You Reveal All? Its funny that the first "swing" party we went to handed out different colored bracelets to indicate your swinging preferences. Althought at the time I'm not sure we even knew our preferences. It did, however, make matching up with people you had just met easier and avoided some awkward questions. In restrospect, I think it was probably a pretty good idea. We never seen it done again and wonder if any one else has.

10-11-2005, 02:51 PM	#17 (permalink)
BodyScape02 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board	Re: How Soon Do You Reveal All? did some couples have more than one color band? As in I don't know... white for newbie or virgin...pink for soft swing... red for full swap ...black for bondage? Inquiring minds... it sounds like a neat little system.. I think there is some great advice on this thread... Spoomonkey is my hero...great peice of advice.

10-11-2005, 04:19 PM	#18 (permalink)
Carol_Danny Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Montreal, QC, CA Status: Couple	Re: How Soon Do You Reveal All? I would be covered in bracelets I never liked pigeon holing Lifestyle choices since very few people are actually only one way. Most swingers we know could be considered both soft and hard, and in between. It depends on the mood of the evening and the people you are with. If someone asked me to classify my preference at the beginning of an evening, I would not know what to say. Our preferences change over time, and month to month we feel like doing different things. Carol xoxoxo

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