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Forum: Boundaries & Limits In Swinging

Are there rules in swinging, and what are they?

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  1. We want to swinging, what rules should we have to prevent disaster?

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    1. Do swingers kiss when having sex? Is kissing too intimate and something that should be reserved for just your partner?

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  2. What happens when things get our control and a swinging boundary is broken?

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  3. How do swingers deal with pressure from their partner to go too far sexually to a place they aren't comfortable with?

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  4. Do swingers make good friends, or do they just want to have sex with you? What happens when sexual play develops into friendship?

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  5. Is there still room for personal preference in swinging?

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  6. What does taking one for the team mean to swingers? Does swinging always have to be equal?

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  1. Confused about the role of cuddling

    Started by Enigma346, 05-27-2013 01:47 PM
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    cuddling, preferences, rules and boundaries
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    06-03-2013, 11:00 PM Go to last post
  2. Swinging for a year... much to learn about boundaries

    Started by sbberg, 02-07-2013 04:32 PM
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    relationship issues, soft swinging
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    02-21-2013, 01:23 PM Go to last post
  3. Seeing x girlfriend solo in "unserious" way ?%#*?

    Started by twistedpretzels, 08-31-2012 11:07 AM
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    anxiety, outside dating, solo, x's
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    09-02-2012, 04:23 AM Go to last post
  4. Telling them your boundaries/no connection

    Started by Cherienickole, 06-24-2012 11:19 AM
    rules and boundaries, saying no
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    06-24-2012, 05:17 PM Go to last post
  5. Question about soft swing problems

    Started by latin2012, 05-14-2012 11:42 PM
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    blowjob, left out, new swingers, oral sex, soft swinging
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    05-16-2012, 11:12 AM Go to last post
  6. Am I Out of Line?

    Started by canuck81, 04-28-2012 10:13 PM
    breaking rules, dishonesty, playing separately, rules and boundaries
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    04-30-2012, 08:48 PM Go to last post
  7. Pushy Players...

    Started by pdxwestsideguy, 03-08-2012 09:29 PM
    pushy people
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    04-23-2012, 06:52 PM Go to last post
  8. Poll Poll: Wearing your wedding or engagement ring when swinging?

    Started by couplers, 11-17-2010 09:05 AM
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    commitment, jewelry, marriage, vows, wedding rings
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    11-26-2010, 10:35 AM Go to last post
  9. Oral sex and partner expectations

    Started by westcan, 01-17-2009 07:09 PM
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    expectations, oral sex
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    03-07-2010, 02:47 PM Go to last post
  10. When do you let the other couple know your limits?

    Started by prettylady, 08-28-2006 09:48 AM
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    common questions, rules and boundaries
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    06-02-2009, 04:33 AM Go to last post
  11. Some rules are just asking to be broken

    Started by JustAskJulie, 05-16-2009 12:02 PM
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    breaking rules, rules and boundaries
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    04-20-2009, 10:29 PM Go to last post
  12. His actions with the female make me uncomfortable...

    Started by jonelle514, 11-13-2008 01:03 PM
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    comfort level, rules and boundaries
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    12-05-2008, 07:36 PM Go to last post
  13. Couples who have no kissing rule?

    Started by JDStevie, 11-04-2008 12:13 AM
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    kissing, rules and boundaries
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    11-08-2008, 11:38 AM Go to last post
  14. Different limits for husband and wife

    Started by blinkey, 03-18-2006 11:14 AM
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    rules and boundaries
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    11-05-2008, 10:23 AM Go to last post
  15. Poll Poll: Bi-women who don't go down

    Started by mwsw4ever, 09-07-2004 01:25 PM
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    bisexuality, females, rules and boundaries
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    06-29-2008, 11:50 PM Go to last post
  16. The Difference between Rules & Boundaries

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-20-2008 04:54 PM
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    rules and boundaries, swinger terminology
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    06-26-2008, 06:27 PM Go to last post
  17. She talks more with my hubby than me

    Started by hot4you, 06-20-2008 05:34 AM
    rules and boundaries, trust
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    06-20-2008, 06:09 PM Go to last post
  18. How often do you meet up with other swingers?

    Started by michelle101, 10-07-2005 10:30 AM
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    frequency
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    06-03-2008, 03:42 PM Go to last post
  19. Unhappy When they think "NO" means "Just push harder"

    Started by knottyboi, 06-18-2007 12:55 PM
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    pushy people, saying no
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    07-01-2007, 09:49 PM Go to last post
  20. Setting boundaries on first experience

    Started by cyasoon, 05-31-2007 12:33 PM
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    rules and boundaries
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    06-09-2007, 03:32 PM Go to last post
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    10-11-2006, 01:30 PM Go to last post
  21. Question Having Boundaries = personal hangups or jealousy

    Started by dezaray, 05-24-2006 06:29 PM
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    jealousy, rules and boundaries
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    07-23-2006, 12:34 PM Go to last post
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    05-31-2006, 03:36 PM Go to last post
  22. She's moving at a different pace

    Started by runswthscissorz, 05-04-2006 02:52 PM
    different pace, frustration
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    05-20-2006, 05:35 AM Go to last post
  23. He Wants FMF, She Wants MFM - Compromise?

    Started by Paradise19, 01-09-2006 05:57 PM
    double standard
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    01-16-2006, 07:50 PM Go to last post
  24. Is it normal for things to go so well with so few rules?

    Started by NandTfromCA, 12-23-2005 01:53 PM
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    rules and boundaries
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    01-16-2006, 12:27 AM Go to last post
  25. How soon do you reveal your boundaries?

    Started by EmpyreanPleasur, 10-07-2005 07:50 PM
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    communication
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    10-11-2005, 03:19 PM Go to last post
  26. Can we have a MFM Softswing?

    Started by curiousk&s, 08-20-2005 10:30 PM
    rules and boundaries, soft swinging
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    09-26-2005, 12:06 AM Go to last post
  27. Wife's boundaries too restrictive!

    Started by stupidnewbie, 07-31-2005 10:36 PM
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    frustration, rules and boundaries
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    08-07-2005, 07:44 AM Go to last post
  28. Do Women Hold the Power When it Comes to Swinging?

    Started by TH1PG490, 08-16-2004 10:37 PM
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    control, females
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    10-03-2004, 09:26 PM Go to last post
  29. Husband doesn't agree with my boundaries

    Started by chickster, 12-12-2003 01:26 PM
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    rules and boundaries, soft swinging
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    01-15-2004, 09:00 PM Go to last post
  30. Alcohol's effect on changing boundaries

    Started by Ditto, 08-25-2003 12:03 AM
    drinking and swinging, rules and boundaries
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    08-30-2003, 07:52 PM Go to last post
  31. Can there be "fairness" in swinging?

    Started by Unregistered, 07-11-2003 11:03 AM
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    double standard, fairness, rules and boundaries
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    07-16-2003, 11:24 AM Go to last post
  32. What is considered too personal?

    Started by nc_couple_28304, 07-06-2003 07:14 PM
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    jealousy, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,839
    07-15-2003, 11:56 AM Go to last post

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