Hairy men?

LadyCleo · 10-20-2003, 09:11 PM

I was just wondering about the general feeling about men who are hairy. My husband has a hairy chest (which I love) and a hairy back (that I don't). The 1st time we went to an on-premise club, we used a hair remover to remove all the hair from his back but it made him break out.
I have been reading about shaving the genital area. We thought that it would look really funny if he had hair everywhere else but the genital region.

Is hair frowned upon? Is it ok to be hairy?

If not, any suggestions for removal (except for lazer...we cannot afford it now)

LC

Mary&Bill · 10-20-2003, 09:19 PM

Personally I don't mind men's body hair - chest, legs. But I think it's unnatural and almost creepy if they shave their genitals.

Just my opinion!

Mary

Elusive BiFem · 10-20-2003, 09:32 PM

I'm more into the natural look, myself.

Trimmed? Yes. And especially for those blessed with an abundance of body hair. But hairless? Doesn't do a thing for me.

-EBF

fun_pairTX · 10-20-2003, 09:36 PM

I have been wearing this homegrown sweater for the better part of 49 years and it isn't going anywhere. Mrs Fun happens to like it as do several of our playmates. As long as Mrs Fun is happy so am I. Will it or does it decrease our chances of hooking up? I'm sure it does on occasion. But then again we have definite tastes in playmates as well. Mrs Fun and I are just lucky as our preferences pretty much coincide. While I don't shave my genitals, I do keep them trimmed neatly. I guess our bottom line is we are what we are, if playmates like it then cool, if not, we aren't the only couple out there.

jcbicouple · 10-20-2003, 09:36 PM

My hubby is very hairy. I love it! He's all snuggly, and if I have a bad dream: I have something to hold onto (sometimes he doesn't like that though.). LOL
We have an agreement: He doesn't shave my fuzzys off his body, and I won't cut his long hair off my head!

Lorrie · 10-21-2003, 10:04 AM

I love a hairy guy, as long as it's not excesssively on the back. Hairless guys are OK too.

cwrather · 10-21-2003, 10:19 AM

My man is hairy as well. It took me a few times of sleeping with his to get used to it, but it does not bother me at all. I love him just the way he is.

Brit_Pair · 10-21-2003, 12:06 PM

It's a relief to hear that I can cofine my razor to my face.

And my nuts!

OhioCouple · 10-21-2003, 09:52 PM

I am neither turned on or turned off by body hair or the lack of. I suppose it is the person that makes the difference to me.

angihay · 10-22-2003, 07:18 AM

I think it really depends on the person as far as hair's concerned, I myself prefer a guy to be natural. Have been with a guy with a hairy back and chest it was kinda cool. Was once woth a guy who shaved the genetail area it actually seemed a little funny to me but it all worked out ok less floss after

Lorrie · 10-22-2003, 11:31 AM

Actually, the way I look at these kind of questions, of course what really matters is the person's personality. But it's what does one "prefer".

If I met the most wonderful guy in the world [which I have already met, so this is a hypothetical statement :-)], but he was very hirsute all over, I wouldn't give a damn, and still want to be with him more than anyone.

wrnakedru · 10-23-2003, 10:36 AM

And the person matters absolutely the most!!

That said: if I were offered several different versions of a favorite play partner, I would choose the one with a light amount of body hair.

Favorite play partners aren't easy to come by though, so I'd be likely to accept wooliness and all.

hotcpl4unfla · 10-23-2003, 07:41 PM

Due to genetics, I have a minimal amount of body hair.

I also shave my genitals, so it doesn't look too out of contrast to the rest of me. A buddy of mine is a hairy guy, and he shaves his schnutz. Looks a little funny, but hey.. whatever floats your boat! My wife likes the fact I am not hairy; she doesn't care for the type. But my buddy's wife loves it either way. There's no wrong answer. It's just a matter of preference from one to the other. Be happy and make the best of what you have.

2dreamyangels · 10-24-2003, 08:05 PM

I'm new to the boards and this question caught my eye. Uhm... what about the girls? It seems that most men like the women to be shaved. At least where the juicy parts are! I have a motto... if its got hair... I don't go there... i(men or women) t is just my preference and I was surprised that more men don't shave, or at least trim. My husband does shave and it always feels so smooth. Yes! I like it that way!

cpl4playmass · 10-28-2003, 02:24 PM

I'm fairly hairy but I use a hair trimmer with a #1 attachment which shortens it and makes it less thick. My girl likes it either way, but she says when it's shorter you can see my muscle definition better.

Yes I shave my shaft and balls, little buggers grow right up the sides.

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10-20-2003, 09:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
LadyCleo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 144 Location: Oregon Status: F half of married couple	Hairy men? I was just wondering about the general feeling about men who are hairy. My husband has a hairy chest (which I love) and a hairy back (that I don't). The 1st time we went to an on-premise club, we used a hair remover to remove all the hair from his back but it made him break out. I have been reading about shaving the genital area. We thought that it would look really funny if he had hair everywhere else but the genital region. Is hair frowned upon? Is it ok to be hairy? If not, any suggestions for removal (except for lazer...we cannot afford it now) LC
	__________________ A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. --Mignon McLaughlin

10-20-2003, 09:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
Mary&Bill Active Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 20 Location: CT Status: couple	i like hairy men Personally I don't mind men's body hair - chest, legs. But I think it's unnatural and almost creepy if they shave their genitals. Just my opinion! Mary

10-20-2003, 09:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Well for me it is like this................. I have been wearing this homegrown sweater for the better part of 49 years and it isn't going anywhere. Mrs Fun happens to like it as do several of our playmates. As long as Mrs Fun is happy so am I. Will it or does it decrease our chances of hooking up? I'm sure it does on occasion. But then again we have definite tastes in playmates as well. Mrs Fun and I are just lucky as our preferences pretty much coincide. While I don't shave my genitals, I do keep them trimmed neatly. I guess our bottom line is we are what we are, if playmates like it then cool, if not, we aren't the only couple out there.
	__________________ fun_pairTX

10-21-2003, 10:04 AM	#6 (permalink)
Lorrie Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 282 Location: Manhattan, NY USA Status: Cock Sucking/Cum Swallowing Expert	I love a hairy guy, as long as it's not excesssively on the back. Hairless guys are OK too.
	__________________ Lorrie Flash If it feels right--DO IT. "The unexamined life is not worth living." -- Socrates (469-399 B.C.)

10-20-2003, 09:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,398 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	I'm more into the natural look, myself. Trimmed? Yes. And especially for those blessed with an abundance of body hair. But hairless? Doesn't do a thing for me. -EBF

10-20-2003, 09:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jcbicouple	My hubby is very hairy. I love it! He's all snuggly, and if I have a bad dream: I have something to hold onto (sometimes he doesn't like that though.). LOL We have an agreement: He doesn't shave my fuzzys off his body, and I won't cut his long hair off my head!

10-21-2003, 10:19 AM	#7 (permalink)
cwrather Registered Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 8 Location: central california Status: male/female Swing Lifestyle Name:cwrather	My man is hairy as well. It took me a few times of sleeping with his to get used to it, but it does not bother me at all. I love him just the way he is.

10-21-2003, 12:06 PM	#8 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	It's a relief to hear that I can cofine my razor to my face. And my nuts!
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10-21-2003, 09:52 PM	#9 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I am neither turned on or turned off by body hair or the lack of. I suppose it is the person that makes the difference to me.
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10-22-2003, 07:18 AM	#10 (permalink)
angihay Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 124 Location: michigan Status: couple	I think it really depends on the person as far as hair's concerned, I myself prefer a guy to be natural. Have been with a guy with a hairy back and chest it was kinda cool. Was once woth a guy who shaved the genetail area it actually seemed a little funny to me but it all worked out ok less floss after

10-22-2003, 11:31 AM	#11 (permalink)
Lorrie Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 282 Location: Manhattan, NY USA Status: Cock Sucking/Cum Swallowing Expert	Actually, the way I look at these kind of questions, of course what really matters is the person's personality. But it's what does one "prefer". If I met the most wonderful guy in the world [which I have already met, so this is a hypothetical statement :-)], but he was very hirsute all over, I wouldn't give a damn, and still want to be with him more than anyone.
	__________________ Lorrie Flash If it feels right--DO IT. "The unexamined life is not worth living." -- Socrates (469-399 B.C.)

10-23-2003, 10:36 AM	#12 (permalink)
wrnakedru Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,989 Location: Bliss Status: Female	Of course, the person matters!! And the person matters absolutely the most!! That said: if I were offered several different versions of a favorite play partner, I would choose the one with a light amount of body hair. Favorite play partners aren't easy to come by though, so I'd be likely to accept wooliness and all.

10-23-2003, 07:41 PM	#13 (permalink)
hotcpl4unfla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 168 Location: Tampa, Florida USA Status: Couple	Due to genetics, I have a minimal amount of body hair. I also shave my genitals, so it doesn't look too out of contrast to the rest of me. A buddy of mine is a hairy guy, and he shaves his schnutz. Looks a little funny, but hey.. whatever floats your boat! My wife likes the fact I am not hairy; she doesn't care for the type. But my buddy's wife loves it either way. There's no wrong answer. It's just a matter of preference from one to the other. Be happy and make the best of what you have.

10-24-2003, 08:05 PM	#14 (permalink)
2dreamyangels Registered Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Colorado Status: Couple	I'm new to the boards and this question caught my eye. Uhm... what about the girls? It seems that most men like the women to be shaved. At least where the juicy parts are! I have a motto... if its got hair... I don't go there... i(men or women) t is just my preference and I was surprised that more men don't shave, or at least trim. My husband does shave and it always feels so smooth. Yes! I like it that way!

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