Insecure about breasts

[sunbuckus]

Okay, I've noticed tons of profiles where they feature the size (very ample size) of the female's bust. I know, I know...everyone is different and all are accepted. But I am getting more and more self-conscious about my small, deflated breasts because of all these large chested women! Are there any men out there that will actually be attracted to my size? Or is it true, that the majority of men prefer big breasts?

[shrevecouple]

I can promise you there will be men who like yours but be prepared Augmented Breasts are very very common with swingers. I think alot of women get worried about their breasts including me. I have DD but they aren't as perky as I'd like. I have been contemplating implants to fill them out! LOL

[AZCouple]

It isn't the size or shape of the breasts that make a woman sexy. Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes. If a woman is confident in her body, then it will show through no matter what she is or isn't wearing. It's no different than the men comparing their "size". It just boils down to the old saying. "It not what you got, it's how you use it" !

[ALilOEverything]

I'm a mom who breastfed four children and and I have small deflated breasts (36B). Never had a complaint. I probably was with guys who, if given a choice, would have picked larger breasts but they certainly weren't complaining.

Always remember, you're a total package deal, inside and out. You're more than just a pair of breasts so don't get hung up on it. Show you're confidence and they will enjoy you.

[sunbuckus]

Thanks, guys! I admit, I have been thinking about getting implants but not soon since I still have to research it and I don't have the money for it. One of the big things that bother me about the implants is how once you get them, sometime in the future you'll need more surgeries in the future to maintain them. Yuck!

Also, how do you "use" them? To me, they just kind of sit there...not like that appendage that men have.

ALilOEverything, I've also breastfed our three children, 1 year for each. I've also lost a significant amount of weight which adds to the problem of deflated boobs. Why does losing weight have to effect the one place I don't want it to?? lol

[TheRedHalf]

As a man I like all sizes. I've dated women ranging from 34b's to my wife's 36DD/38D (depending on the bra) and loved them all. As long as you come with a smile you'll be fine.

Disclaimer - I'm an ass man

[exploringRM]

I agree with others, all sizes are nice

[junkyard38]

Originally Posted by AZCouple

It isn't the size or shape of the breasts that make a woman sexy. Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes. If a woman is confident in her body, then it will show through no matter what she is or isn't wearing. It's no different than the men comparing their "size". It just boils down to the old saying. "It not what you got, it's how you use it" !

I believe you are putting to much emphasis on your breasts. I am in total agreement with AZ Couple, it is not the size, but the total package. Any woman who only puts emphasis on her breasts, in my book is just a shallow person. I admire a woman who is willing to take the time, and inconvenience of breast feeding for the child's benefit.

[JoeB]

My late wife was a 34A and Cat is 42DD. Sex with both was great. Size is just part of sex play.

[AZCouple]

How do you use them? Let me count the ways...... Sorry, couldn't pass that one up. There are several ways to use them.

Go Topless!

Play hide and seek with them. Wear something semi sheer or loose with a deep plunging neckline, or just leave some buttons undone. That way they can only be seen if you move just right.

Accent them. Wear a long necklace that dangles down between them.

Decorate them. Use non piercing nipple jewelry or chains, temporary tattoos, or use some body sparkles.

These are just a few ideas I had. They all will garner attention from the men. Anyone else that has some ideas, please add to the list!

[SW_PA_Couple]

I'll admit it. If a woman's front precedes her as she walks into a room, it is more likely to catch my eye. But this does not mean that I am not able to sincerely pay tribute to a perky size.

[oc1234]

And there are men like me who are really turned on by small breasts. And I am not alone. My best male friend, whom my wife and I play with, also prefers small breasts.

[sunbuckus]

Okay...I know it's probably a hang up of mine and if I didn't have a problem with my breasts I'd probably find a different body image problem to focus on but...what about small breasts that aren't perky? Like flat and deflated? I get this feeling that men are turned on to small breasts because they are still perky.

[sunbuckus]

Originally Posted by AZCouple

How do you use them? Let me count the ways...... Sorry, couldn't pass that one up. There are several ways to use them.

Go Topless!

Play hide and seek with them. Wear something semi sheer or loose with a deep plunging neckline, or just leave some buttons undone. That way they can only be seen if you move just right.

Accent them. Wear a long necklace that dangles down between them.

Decorate them. Use non piercing nipple jewelry or chains, temporary tattoos, or use some body sparkles.

These are just a few ideas I had. They all will garner attention from the men. Anyone else that has some ideas, please add to the list!

lol, I guess I meant in the sense that cocks get hard. The only thing that breasts do is express milk and get hard nipples.

[Palladin]

My sweetie has very, very small boobies. I love them. Over-size ones do nothing for me.

Plastic ones are simply hilarious. I live in Vegas and there are thousand of women of all ages who have made themselves look ridiculous with their retail boobs.

You are fine. There are millions of men who love you just the way you are.