Male with a Breast Job with a woman

acdg · 03-31-2010, 01:14 PM

Hallo All, I hope this ist he correct place for this question but I am at a loss as to where else to post this question.

We have a friend that is going through a sort of sex change he got brest implants so far and constantly dresses like a woman. We really do not have any problems with this just we do not know how to file him / her ? it ? what sort of confuses the problem is that he is still living with a (real not changed) woman. We assume they sill have sex etc.. where does this file them. Lesbian does not really apply since he still has a Penis, Gay does not really apply I guess, Transvestite is only the clothing I think, Bi? Shemale? He says he does not do men also.

Should I make a poll out of this? If so what options should I give?

Lesbiern, Gay, Bi, Transvestite, Confused?

We find the whole thing quite funny actually when had no real problems when he was just dressing as a woman but now that he has had a tit job we really just do not know what to think. We would really like to hear your opinions on this.

Thanks ACDG

little firefly · 03-31-2010, 02:15 PM

I have a friend like this also. He was born a straight male and has been married for several years to a bi-sexual female. He now has the breasts of a woman and dresses most of the time as a woman but still has his penis. He calls himself a straight transgender because although he does dress and have breasts like a woman he still has his "man goods" and only has a sexual interest in women.

acdg · 03-31-2010, 03:48 PM

Thanks for the quick response; I never would have guessed that he was not alone. Of course with the exception of the guy in England that has implants through a bet.

Thanks admins for moving my post to the correct category.

ANGEDKY(mr) · 03-31-2010, 08:13 PM

What's wrong with "Friend"??

bbarnsworth · 04-01-2010, 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr)

What's wrong with "Friend"??

Amen. I've often said labels are for tin cans. Categorizing people has substantial unintended effects.

Why not ask your friend how s/he wants to be thought of and addressed?

acdg · 04-03-2010, 02:51 PM

Yes that is also a good point but by the time we see him again it will have sunk in to us and not be a big deal. We also look at it like this whatever lights his fire we do not have problems with it, we accepted him dressed like a woman also. The way he looks does not affect what he is.

**fun4Ds** · 04-04-2010, 12:18 AM

I'm just curious...

Will your friend prefer to be called by a feminine name now ?

I know sometimes those named Charles, prefer to be called Charline or even Mark, prefers to be called Marsha. I'm not an expert but I think the hormones have something to do with that....

On the humorous side, file him under "a chick with a dick ?"

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03-31-2010, 01:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
acdg Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Male with a Breast Job with a woman Hallo All, I hope this ist he correct place for this question but I am at a loss as to where else to post this question. We have a friend that is going through a sort of sex change he got brest implants so far and constantly dresses like a woman. We really do not have any problems with this just we do not know how to file him / her ? it ? what sort of confuses the problem is that he is still living with a (real not changed) woman. We assume they sill have sex etc.. where does this file them. Lesbian does not really apply since he still has a Penis, Gay does not really apply I guess, Transvestite is only the clothing I think, Bi? Shemale? He says he does not do men also. Should I make a poll out of this? If so what options should I give? Lesbiern, Gay, Bi, Transvestite, Confused? We find the whole thing quite funny actually when had no real problems when he was just dressing as a woman but now that he has had a tit job we really just do not know what to think. We would really like to hear your opinions on this. Thanks ACDG

03-31-2010, 02:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
little firefly Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 135 Location: North Carolina Status: monogamous female half of a swinger male	Re: Male with a Brest Job with a woman I have a friend like this also. He was born a straight male and has been married for several years to a bi-sexual female. He now has the breasts of a woman and dresses most of the time as a woman but still has his penis. He calls himself a straight transgender because although he does dress and have breasts like a woman he still has his "man goods" and only has a sexual interest in women.

03-31-2010, 03:48 PM	#3 (permalink)
acdg Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Re: Male with a Breast Job with a woman Thanks for the quick response; I never would have guessed that he was not alone. Of course with the exception of the guy in England that has implants through a bet. Thanks admins for moving my post to the correct category.

03-31-2010, 08:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
ANGEDKY(mr) Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 309 Location: Oregon Outback Status: couple	Re: Male with a Breast Job with a woman What's wrong with "Friend"??

04-03-2010, 02:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
acdg Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Re: Male with a Breast Job with a woman Yes that is also a good point but by the time we see him again it will have sunk in to us and not be a big deal. We also look at it like this whatever lights his fire we do not have problems with it, we accepted him dressed like a woman also. The way he looks does not affect what he is.

04-04-2010, 12:18 AM	#7 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Male with a Breast Job with a woman I'm just curious... Will your friend prefer to be called by a feminine name now ? I know sometimes those named Charles, prefer to be called Charline or even Mark, prefers to be called Marsha. I'm not an expert but I think the hormones have something to do with that.... On the humorous side, file him under "a chick with a dick ?" fun4ds

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