What is the big deal with shaving?

[2neophytes]

After reading the bi girl post, I want to know what the deal is with shaving the genitalia. It seems like eveyone is doing it and expects the same from everyone else.

Why? What's wrong with pubic hair? Well besides the fact it gets in your mouth if it's way outta control!

2N

[2cute2care]

nothing is really wrong with pubic hair other than the fact that it gets in ur mouth at times or there is a certain odor it sends faster than if ur shaved. i prefer men shaved to becuase i have found going down on a guy shaved is so much better than one whom isnt for myself becuase i find myself really getting into it a lot more when i can deepthroat and not have to worry about getting hairs in my mouth. i cant speak for all women here, but getting hairs in my mouth--just not really a huge turn on here!!

i shave to out of the same respect for hubby , but from time to time a change is good. nothing wrong though, just a preference

just my two two cents, take it as u will--

2Cute

[FunCalifCple]

Why shave?... just look at some of the old pornos from the 80's when hair was in..... honestly, for us a well gromed, shaved body is a sign of personal care and sexual appeal....plus more skin exposed to sensitivity... it's the greatest for everyone around...modern sexual image...and the bjs just keep coming.......

[2neophytes]

Okay so I've done it both ways right, and that added sensitivity wears off after a while.

Plus I've heard that shaving the hair around the labia can increase a woman's risk of infection, yeast or otherwise.

2N

[2neophytes]

I just realized my post might be a bit convoluted.

Not that shaving increases the risk of infection, but rather the lack of hair increases the risk.

2N

[2cute2care]

true, theres pluses to both, like i said its just a preference. no right or wrong answer here, its just like "blondes or brunnettes" question, not that anything is wrong with the other, its just a choice of what u react to more.

[sexyRus_inMass]

I can't stand hair in my mouth - no matter where it came from. And a pubic hair stuck in your throat??? It's like a cat hucking up a fur ball - yuck.

For men, I don't care if you are shaved but at least be trimmed - shaved balls however are much more likely to be played with and licked than ones covered in hair. It just doesn't feel nice, hair is distracting. soft flesh is much more arousing.

For women, I don't need bald eagle but definitely close cropped and bikini lines shaved or waxed. That's like shaving your arm pits and legs, it goes with the territory of being a woman.

[BD2]

My hubby surprised me last night by coming to bed cleanly shaven in all the right places. . . what a turn on!

I've been shaving off and on for years and am now waxing, but we never discussed his shaving until we entered this lifestyle a few months ago. We were with another couple and they both were smooth as silk and it was a real turn on, not to mention no mouth hair for the first time ever! I mentioned to hubby that he might want to give it a try or at least a trim.

The surprise was wonderful. His comments; "A little tricky around some areas, but definitely doable." He also used my Venus razor and loved it. Highly recommended for the ladies and now the men.

Gentlemen - go for it! You're ladies will love you that much more and possibly longer !

Mrs BD

[2neophytes]

For women, I don't need bald eagle but definitely close cropped and bikini lines shaved or waxed. That's like shaving your arm pits and legs, it goes with the territory of being a woman.


That's interesting. I'm not so convinced that shaving pits and legs "goes with the territory of being a woman". Women didn't start shaving until WWII (lack of nylons), at least that's the account my grandmother gave. She remembers how insulted she felt after her boss told her she should shave. I know plenty of beautiful women that don't shave.

I'm just fascinated with this social development.

2N

[RockrcplOrlando]

I can't stand hair in my mouth - no matter where it came from. And a pubic hair stuck in your throat??? It's like a cat hucking up a fur ball - yuck.

Amen...at the very least shave your labia majora.....if you keep a patch or less on top above the "business" area...that up to you...But neither my wife or I are going to go down on a Whisker biscuit......70's bush is soooo not sexy

[good times]

I don't like hair in my mouth, so if the women likes to be licked she is liable to get a lot more of that if she is shaved. I've also noticed that hairy pussy smells and tastes like piss much more often than shaved ones do.

I'm not a minute man in the sack, it tends to take me a while, so to much hair rubs my dick raw. When I was younger and faster to get done this wasn't a problem but now days I like it shaved. I will have to say though, that the next day stubble is worse than too much hair in the sore unit department.

You ever responding to a post and have one of those, I can't believe I'm saying this moments? I just had one.

[RW1F]

Wife started shaving about 5 years ago. Oral on a nicely shaven puss is soooooooooooo much nicer. Kinda like eating those nice peeled peaches from a jar compared to the fuzzy ones off the tree. I'll eat both but I like the peeled ones better facelick

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Yes I know the general thought is that all spoomonkey's are hairy but that is just not the case. Mr Spoo shaves his smooth (which I love and let him know often) and I keep a patch on top, above the 'business' area.

I had always kept myself closely trimmed but when we got into the lifestyle and saw how nice it was to not have to stop in the middle of "oral" activities to pick hair out we both decided to go bare

Again I think it is a matter of preference but we do prefer at least a well trimmed area.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by 2neophytes

Why? What's wrong with pubic hair? Well besides the fact it gets in your mouth if it's way outta control!

2N

That's all the reason I need!

Giving oral to my husband became a whole new level of pleasure for me (and him) once he began shaving his testicles and any areas on his penis (can we use that word here ) where hair grows.

My mouth loves his perfectly smooth cock and balls. I so thoroughly enjoy running my tongue everywhere without being worried about a wiry hair trying to make its way down my throat! No more stopping in midaction to reach down my throat with my finger--gagging myself--to retrieve a nasty little hair.

As for Mr LM, he too appreciates me being clean shaven in the play area with only a small patch to tickle his nose. facelick

LM

[NightGoddess]

Maybe this is a more technical question, but what about the stubble, ladies? I shaved my pubic area once including labia for exhubby years ago....and was in agony a couple of days later with stubble! It was awful! I couldn't wait for the hair to grow out...
This is directed to the women who shave the labia (not just trim, but shave)...how do you manage to do this without the use of a mirror and lots of luck? [having shaved both men and women's genitals immediately before surgery, I know this takes time, 2 or 3 single use razors, careful attention to detail, warm water and soap] ...how often do you touch up the shave-job? Your secrets to success?
Is there any hope for women who opt to keep the hedge neatly trimmed, not shaven?
....Or are we considered hopelessly declasse'?