Douching

[planejanesusan]

I was a very promiscuous single swinger who gave it up 21 years ago for marriage and raising children but am anticipating getting back into swinging with my husband along (probably as a non-participating voyeur because of ED problems). I am trying to find out as much as I can about modern swinging so our experiences will be as enjoyable as possible and would appreciate all the help I can get..

In my college days I became extremely addicted to cunnilingus, and I need at least one orgasm that way before I am ready for PIV sex. In those days douching was very popular - in fact, after I became sexually active at sixteen my mom bought me my first syringe and taught me how to mix medically correct solutions - and I always douched before an evening of casual sex. I know douching, or at least frequent douching, is considered unnecessary and potentially harmful, and since I have seen no mention of it in this forum as a preparation for a swinging evening I assume no one here does it these days. Am I correct or is douching still a nice prep for oral sex, especially with someone new?

[fun4Ds]

Susan, as a male poster I would just like to say I find it admirable in a woman who can talk about female personal issues like this.

I can't say I have any comments as a guy on this topic. It will be interesting to see future replies.

For me in regards to the subject, Douching.... I would say to any woman.

Thank you

[planejanesusan]

Well, I guess there will be no more replies - but thank you for yours.

In my wild single days on the evening of a sex party I always douched and wore a dress or skirt with no panties at all so I knew I would be fresh for oral sex encounters, and I know the guys appreciated it, just as I always appreciated a well-circumcised penis (sorry if I offend anyone by that - it's just my preference). I fully intend to do the same when I get into swinging, even if no one else does that.

[JTcamp05]

I don't think its the best idea to disrupt your body by douching.....better to be healthy and clean....In my opnion!

[Additude]

My wife prefers to douche, not all the time however, but she is frequent enough about it that I am aware of it....and I will say, in a way, I am appreciative of it....

[realcplub2]

Let me say this, Do it, if you are comfortable with it..

We all are in search of people who are hygenic, and cleaning inside as well as out.. well, it just speaks volumes about you, and the respect you show for yourself as well as potential playmates.