Encountered Female with bad smell

forfuninny · 12-11-2006, 04:20 PM

Have been reading the site for a while and finally decided to join. We are a married couple for 5 years now (31 and 32). After talking about a threesome MFF for some time now, we decided to give it a try. We both agreed we wanted to do it with someone we did not know. Well we have been going to a local resturant for some time now, and became friendly with one of the women who work there. After talking about it, we decided to ask her about going out for a drink. To make a long story short, things went well and we decided to do it. Since we are new to this, my question is, as things started we both noticed, my husband and I, that the other women had a odor down there. Well what is the correct thing to do in that situation??? We both kinda went along with it, but it kinda wierded us both out alot. Has thing ever happend to anyone else and what did you do?? Thanks for the info...

Cpl2share · 12-11-2006, 05:00 PM

Odor? To sound crude, youneed to be more specific. All women (and men to a certain degree) have an odor down there. Some times it is a bad smell, sometimes good. It could be that it was new to you as a "virgin" female, and different to your hubby. Be that as it may, womens smell changes with what stage of thier cycle they are in, and also thier arousal. Like I said, it could just be a different (new) smell to you both.

ohash01 · 12-11-2006, 05:38 PM

You said she works at that restaurant...did you take her home straight from work. Especially if she is a waitress or bartender and has spent the night running around and sweating, that could cause a little unpleasantness. Or it could just be the fact that it's "new". You two have been together (and I'm assuming only with each other intimately) for 5 years. If it was BAD then I'd say proceed with caution. No one wants to be with someone "icky". But if it was just different, well, everyone is different.

richdon03 · 12-11-2006, 07:37 PM

Also, be aware that diet plays a role in the way a person smells. If she ate garlic or onions a few hours before the meeting that could have had an effect. This is new to you all as it is to us. There are things that you have to think about that didn't really matter before.

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forfuninny · 12-11-2006, 08:12 PM

thanks for the reply back. As for the "odor", well there was a smell down there that just didnt smell right, which we both agreed on. Just did not smell good. As for her coming right out, well as far as we know, she went home and showered and met us out, thats what she told us. My husband has been with other women before we got married,he and he said he never ran into that problem before. Thanks again for the input.

lookingfornow · 12-12-2006, 03:20 PM

This is why we like to start our play dates with a group shower!

BradAndJanet · 12-12-2006, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lookingfornow

This is why we like to start our play dates with a group shower!

That is some 'rite good' advice.

If you want round 2, give that a try, forfuninny. If you want round 2, that is.

-B

aahours1 · 12-13-2006, 11:08 AM

Like the others had said. The smell could be alot of different things. I had a lady one time that smelled, but it was her Vinigar and water solution for douching. Maybe it is her douche she is using. Have your ever concidered that theory? Also diets/smoking and laundry soap DOES play a role in what you smell like. Don't cut her off yet. Maybe get into talking about sanitation somehow and bring up what you use , that you and your husbamd finds certain smell that do not agree with you guys.

forfuninny · 12-13-2006, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lookingfornow

This is why we like to start our play dates with a group shower!

Thanks for the advice. We have talked about this, and I think we are gonna try that first the next time. We have plans with her this weekend. Thanks again.

cplndixie · 02-20-2009, 07:21 PM

Mr cpl here,
I dated a lady once who had a body odor down there. After some reserch I realised that in addition to some of the posts here, some people have medical conditions that cause this. I actually knew another lady once who used to shower twice each day even sometimes going home at lunch to shower on stressfull days because of harmone or some other medical reason that was beyond her control.

2plus2fun · 02-21-2009, 05:29 PM

Alot of women have bacterial infections and don't even know it.

curioussnk · 02-21-2009, 11:48 PM

As a female I was very intrigued by this post. Obviously this issue can be as important to us as the "keeping it up" subject with men.

I know that I notice a difference in my normal "odor" depending on my activity, time of year, etc. I am also aware that other women will not smell exactly the same as me and hubby and I will probably notice it quicker just because it is "new". Well we played with some friends this weekend and the next day we both brought up the subject that we noticed an odor. Well, honestly we called it "stank"...which sounds terrible...but it really did stank. We have played with this couple before a few years ago and do not remember encountering this situation.

We had all been out at a bar for most of the night and I would have expected somewhat of a "musky" smell but in my womanly opinion I think this was something more. Now this friend of mine has an IUD in place so there is no monthly cycle for her...but I believe this could actually play a part also as this is interferring with normal healthy bacteria in that area that are essential for the natural cleaning process. She is also currently trying out a bit of a diet so that could play a role in it as well.

But here is the kicker, after talking about it a lot more, Hubby mentioned that he smelt the same smell on my shoulder. I asked him which one and when he told me I realized that is the one she had been kissing and licking while we were sitting on the couch together before playing. He looked confused until I told him that the first thing I had noticed was her breath...it seems as though both ends had the same issue going on.

Glad to read see that we have this thread going on. I am not sure I feel it is necessary to bring it up to her at this point. However, we will play with them again..at that point if there is still an issue I may figure out a way to discuss as she is a very good friend of mine and will expect it. Hoping, at this point, that it was a fluke!

swinger5 · 02-23-2009, 07:46 PM

All I can say to these posts is G....ross. We have had this happen with women and the fishy bacterial infection order and I about want to hurl right there. One occasion (it had happened once before), playtime was stopped for me, since I have a very sensitive nose..I did mention it and was told that was always "strong" and forgot to douch.....NOT, we had been with them on and off for 5 years and never ever a problem. We are friends with them to this day after 9 years, but we dont swing anymore together. That turned me off for life.

I can say out of 10 women, 6 have had that smell. I do believe some smell different, but if its fish it isn't normal.

**BiloxiCouple** · 02-24-2009, 05:33 PM

Take a fan and put it at one end of the bed. Blows the smell away. Stay upwind. Do not cross the smell line.

Problem temporarily solved.

**two4youinswva** · 02-24-2009, 08:08 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Take a fan and put it at one end of the bed. Blows the smell away. Stay upwind. Do not cross the smell line.

Problem temporarily solved.

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12-11-2006, 04:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
forfuninny Registered Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 3 Location: New York Status: Couple	Encountered Female with bad smell Have been reading the site for a while and finally decided to join. We are a married couple for 5 years now (31 and 32). After talking about a threesome MFF for some time now, we decided to give it a try. We both agreed we wanted to do it with someone we did not know. Well we have been going to a local resturant for some time now, and became friendly with one of the women who work there. After talking about it, we decided to ask her about going out for a drink. To make a long story short, things went well and we decided to do it. Since we are new to this, my question is, as things started we both noticed, my husband and I, that the other women had a odor down there. Well what is the correct thing to do in that situation??? We both kinda went along with it, but it kinda wierded us both out alot. Has thing ever happend to anyone else and what did you do?? Thanks for the info...

12-11-2006, 05:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
Cpl2share Is it too cold for beer? Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 335 Location: Way up north. Status: Couple	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... Odor? To sound crude, youneed to be more specific. All women (and men to a certain degree) have an odor down there. Some times it is a bad smell, sometimes good. It could be that it was new to you as a "virgin" female, and different to your hubby. Be that as it may, womens smell changes with what stage of thier cycle they are in, and also thier arousal. Like I said, it could just be a different (new) smell to you both.

12-11-2006, 05:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... You said she works at that restaurant...did you take her home straight from work. Especially if she is a waitress or bartender and has spent the night running around and sweating, that could cause a little unpleasantness. Or it could just be the fact that it's "new". You two have been together (and I'm assuming only with each other intimately) for 5 years. If it was BAD then I'd say proceed with caution. No one wants to be with someone "icky". But if it was just different, well, everyone is different.

12-11-2006, 07:37 PM	#4 (permalink)
richdon03 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 55 Location: Northeastern US Status: Couple	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... Also, be aware that diet plays a role in the way a person smells. If she ate garlic or onions a few hours before the meeting that could have had an effect. This is new to you all as it is to us. There are things that you have to think about that didn't really matter before. to the board.

12-11-2006, 08:12 PM	#5 (permalink)
forfuninny Registered Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 3 Location: New York Status: Couple	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... thanks for the reply back. As for the "odor", well there was a smell down there that just didnt smell right, which we both agreed on. Just did not smell good. As for her coming right out, well as far as we know, she went home and showered and met us out, thats what she told us. My husband has been with other women before we got married,he and he said he never ran into that problem before. Thanks again for the input.

12-12-2006, 03:20 PM	#6 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 175 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lookingfornow	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... This is why we like to start our play dates with a group shower!

12-13-2006, 11:08 AM	#8 (permalink)
aahours1 Club Host Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 66 Location: Michigan Status: Couple M-F Swing Lifestyle Name:aahours1	Re: Need Some Adivce....First timers here.... Like the others had said. The smell could be alot of different things. I had a lady one time that smelled, but it was her Vinigar and water solution for douching. Maybe it is her douche she is using. Have your ever concidered that theory? Also diets/smoking and laundry soap DOES play a role in what you smell like. Don't cut her off yet. Maybe get into talking about sanitation somehow and bring up what you use , that you and your husbamd finds certain smell that do not agree with you guys.

02-20-2009, 07:21 PM	#10 (permalink)
cplndixie Registered Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 9 Location: Louisiana Status: couple	Re: Encountered Female with bad smell Mr cpl here, I dated a lady once who had a body odor down there. After some reserch I realised that in addition to some of the posts here, some people have medical conditions that cause this. I actually knew another lady once who used to shower twice each day even sometimes going home at lunch to shower on stressfull days because of harmone or some other medical reason that was beyond her control.

02-21-2009, 05:29 PM	#11 (permalink)
2plus2fun Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 62 Location: Huntersville, NC Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:shawn_and_sharon	Re: Encountered Female with bad smell Alot of women have bacterial infections and don't even know it.

02-21-2009, 11:48 PM	#12 (permalink)
curioussnk Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 30 Location: Alabama Status: Couple	Re: Encountered Female with bad smell As a female I was very intrigued by this post. Obviously this issue can be as important to us as the "keeping it up" subject with men. I know that I notice a difference in my normal "odor" depending on my activity, time of year, etc. I am also aware that other women will not smell exactly the same as me and hubby and I will probably notice it quicker just because it is "new". Well we played with some friends this weekend and the next day we both brought up the subject that we noticed an odor. Well, honestly we called it "stank"...which sounds terrible...but it really did stank. We have played with this couple before a few years ago and do not remember encountering this situation. We had all been out at a bar for most of the night and I would have expected somewhat of a "musky" smell but in my womanly opinion I think this was something more. Now this friend of mine has an IUD in place so there is no monthly cycle for her...but I believe this could actually play a part also as this is interferring with normal healthy bacteria in that area that are essential for the natural cleaning process. She is also currently trying out a bit of a diet so that could play a role in it as well. But here is the kicker, after talking about it a lot more, Hubby mentioned that he smelt the same smell on my shoulder. I asked him which one and when he told me I realized that is the one she had been kissing and licking while we were sitting on the couch together before playing. He looked confused until I told him that the first thing I had noticed was her breath...it seems as though both ends had the same issue going on. Glad to read see that we have this thread going on. I am not sure I feel it is necessary to bring it up to her at this point. However, we will play with them again..at that point if there is still an issue I may figure out a way to discuss as she is a very good friend of mine and will expect it. Hoping, at this point, that it was a fluke!

02-23-2009, 07:46 PM	#13 (permalink)
swinger5 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 29 Location: tampa	Re: Encountered Female with bad smell All I can say to these posts is G....ross. We have had this happen with women and the fishy bacterial infection order and I about want to hurl right there. One occasion (it had happened once before), playtime was stopped for me, since I have a very sensitive nose..I did mention it and was told that was always "strong" and forgot to douch.....NOT, we had been with them on and off for 5 years and never ever a problem. We are friends with them to this day after 9 years, but we dont swing anymore together. That turned me off for life. I can say out of 10 women, 6 have had that smell. I do believe some smell different, but if its fish it isn't normal.

02-24-2009, 05:33 PM	#14 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple I wish I may Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3,502 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Encountered Female with bad smell Take a fan and put it at one end of the bed. Blows the smell away. Stay upwind. Do not cross the smell line. Problem temporarily solved. __________________ You'll be judged by how you treat your family and more importantly, strangers.

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