Shave before play? WHEN should you do it?

LICouple4u · 08-14-2006, 03:19 PM

I tried to help hubby with his shaving this weekend and it appears I hurt him

Any recommendations to help him recover? I was thinking one of those over the counter cortisone creams. Not sure what he'll think of me using my Dove antiperspirant on his nether regions lol

Unfortunately the razor burn ends up making sex painful (we were lucky - our date cancelled the last minute this weekend), so I want to fix this asap... Yes, I'm selfish lol Of course I want him to not be uncomfortable too

rachan · 08-17-2006, 07:45 AM

I like for my men to have hair except on the cock and balls. One of my guys loves to shave me before sex though. I don't shave daily and it excites him to shave off the stubble between shavings.

Raeann

eskimo · 08-17-2006, 01:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LICouple4u

I tried to help hubby with his shaving this weekend and it appears I hurt him

Any recommendations to help him recover? I was thinking one of those over the counter cortisone creams. Not sure what he'll think of me using my Dove antiperspirant on his nether regions lol

Unfortunately the razor burn ends up making sex painful (we were lucky - our date cancelled the last minute this weekend), so I want to fix this asap... Yes, I'm selfish lol Of course I want him to not be uncomfortable too

I have had good luck using triple anti-biotic first aid cream. It clears up the red spots and stops the itch.

Q

northindycpl · 10-07-2006, 08:26 AM

A long time SB memeber Ves, gave me this hint a while back and it works better then anything I have tried!

Magic Powder! You find it for a couple of dollars in the men's grooming aisle at most drugstores like Walgreens or CVS.

Magic Powder is made for Black Mens Heads and Faces I believe, but it works magically and conditions the skin wonderfully. You mix the powder with water and apply gently to the areas that you wish to have hair removal and voila! It disappears, no abrasions no issues.

Since the areas are so sensitive, I have used the sensitive skin formula in the green can, and have not tried the other formulas on anything other then my legs.

This stuff is Awesome!

Also, Hyaluronic Syrum works well post shave for smoothness, softness and even tone. It can be expensive but you can find it online at sephoria and such.

ShellyM · 10-07-2006, 09:06 AM

I know as a woman, we get those annoying red bumps that look awful. A fellow swinger gave me a great tip: Visene! The stuff for the eyes. It causes the blood vessels to constrict very quickly and does wonders, you put it on the area immediately after shaving. It works for me.

northindycpl · 10-07-2006, 09:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShellyM

I know as a woman, we get those annoying red bumps that look awful. A fellow swinger gave me a great tip: Visene! The stuff for the eyes. It causes the blood vessels to constrict very quickly and does wonders, you put it on the area immediately after shaving. It works for me.

Visene does work and it is cheaper then Hyaluronic...

I wonder if Preparation H would work? I use it under my eyes for puffyness sometimes and it works well.

ShellyM · 10-07-2006, 09:10 AM

Hmmm, you know thats a good thought about Prep H, I don't know! I truly have no answer on that because I never thought of it before. It would be worth a try I think though, unless it is too harsh.

gatorvol64 · 10-07-2006, 08:01 PM

If you are going to shave every day, then I like my Seiko Cleancut. It works like an electric razor but runs on a C battery. I'm not sure you can nick yourself with this. Unfortunately, I can shave in the morning and have good stubble by the evening.

Creams don't really work for me either. The Seiko is really convenient to carry also. If however, I have to use a regular razor because I got lazy, I use a men's razor. Actually, I use a men's razor on my legs too.

JP51 · 10-08-2006, 08:13 AM

I shave about every day...some good tips to try. Now my wife managed to talk me into letting her WAX!!! me (yesterday)....

. I now

to all the ladies who do this. I had done her waxing before and knew it hurt...but never again...I will admit this only once in public...the ladies win the contest....wax it never going to touch my special body parts again!!

Cowgirl · 10-10-2006, 11:32 AM

Now JP51, I am surprised at you. After all of the things you have been through in your life, I am amazed that a little thing like waxing would bother you. But I give you points for admitting it to the world!

tribbles · 10-10-2006, 04:22 PM

I recently saw a memo at a local hospital about not shaving surgery areas...trim only. It said studies have shown increase in infections with shaving.

I suppose all swinging is a risk and doing something you want to do, like shaving, is worth it even if it increases your risk of catching something. Just be aware it may increase your risk.

cona2k · 11-09-2006, 05:22 AM

i always shave when i kinky night is planned

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08-14-2006, 03:19 PM	#16 (permalink)
LICouple4u Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 85 Location: Long Island, NY Status: Couple SLS Name:LiCouple4u	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? I tried to help hubby with his shaving this weekend and it appears I hurt him Any recommendations to help him recover? I was thinking one of those over the counter cortisone creams. Not sure what he'll think of me using my Dove antiperspirant on his nether regions lol Unfortunately the razor burn ends up making sex painful (we were lucky - our date cancelled the last minute this weekend), so I want to fix this asap... Yes, I'm selfish lol Of course I want him to not be uncomfortable too __________________ Mrs. LiCouple4u Just your average married couple seeking friends with benefits

08-17-2006, 07:45 AM	#17 (permalink)
rachan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 151 Location: florida Status: couple SLS Name:raekay	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? I like for my men to have hair except on the cock and balls. One of my guys loves to shave me before sex though. I don't shave daily and it excites him to shave off the stubble between shavings. Raeann

10-07-2006, 08:26 AM	#19 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM SLS Name:northindycpl	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? A long time SB memeber Ves, gave me this hint a while back and it works better then anything I have tried! Magic Powder! You find it for a couple of dollars in the men's grooming aisle at most drugstores like Walgreens or CVS. Magic Powder is made for Black Mens Heads and Faces I believe, but it works magically and conditions the skin wonderfully. You mix the powder with water and apply gently to the areas that you wish to have hair removal and voila! It disappears, no abrasions no issues. Since the areas are so sensitive, I have used the sensitive skin formula in the green can, and have not tried the other formulas on anything other then my legs. This stuff is Awesome! Also, Hyaluronic Syrum works well post shave for smoothness, softness and even tone. It can be expensive but you can find it online at sephoria and such. __________________ Mrs. Indy

10-07-2006, 09:06 AM	#20 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? I know as a woman, we get those annoying red bumps that look awful. A fellow swinger gave me a great tip: Visene! The stuff for the eyes. It causes the blood vessels to constrict very quickly and does wonders, you put it on the area immediately after shaving. It works for me. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

10-07-2006, 09:10 AM	#22 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? Hmmm, you know thats a good thought about Prep H, I don't know! I truly have no answer on that because I never thought of it before. It would be worth a try I think though, unless it is too harsh. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

10-07-2006, 08:01 PM	#23 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,342 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple & half of a quad Blog Entries: 11	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? If you are going to shave every day, then I like my Seiko Cleancut. It works like an electric razor but runs on a C battery. I'm not sure you can nick yourself with this. Unfortunately, I can shave in the morning and have good stubble by the evening. Creams don't really work for me either. The Seiko is really convenient to carry also. If however, I have to use a regular razor because I got lazy, I use a men's razor. Actually, I use a men's razor on my legs too. __________________ He is the Gator and she is the Vol.

10-08-2006, 08:13 AM	#24 (permalink)
JP51 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 175 Location: Texas Status: Couple SLS Name:jimdebra1	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? I shave about every day...some good tips to try. Now my wife managed to talk me into letting her WAX!!! me (yesterday).... . I now to all the ladies who do this. I had done her waxing before and knew it hurt...but never again...I will admit this only once in public...the ladies win the contest....wax it never going to touch my special body parts again!!

10-10-2006, 11:32 AM	#25 (permalink)
Cowgirl Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? Now JP51, I am surprised at you. After all of the things you have been through in your life, I am amazed that a little thing like waxing would bother you. But I give you points for admitting it to the world!

10-10-2006, 04:22 PM	#26 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 860 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? I recently saw a memo at a local hospital about not shaving surgery areas...trim only. It said studies have shown increase in infections with shaving. I suppose all swinging is a risk and doing something you want to do, like shaving, is worth it even if it increases your risk of catching something. Just be aware it may increase your risk. __________________ Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

11-09-2006, 05:22 AM	#27 (permalink)
cona2k Active Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 17 Location: hampshire Status: couple	Re: Shave before play? WHEN should you do it? i always shave when i kinky night is planned

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