Ugly vagina

08-31-2005, 04:06 PM

Well, you are definately NOT the only one with this problem. I do also have the same dilemma. I get maybe one a year. I was so afraid I had a disease I finally went to the dermatologist and got some cream for them. She says you can have them surgically removed but they can come back. There is no cure either, it is from shaving mostly. I will be solving my problem with laser. I have had one session, but will not notice any hair gone until about the third session. Needless to say I am very excited!! No more shaving, itches, zero!! Yahoo!!!!!!!!!! T

lovedoctor · 08-31-2005, 10:40 PM

I would talk to your Family Doctor (my bias), or a derm - but you should consider going on prophylactic antibiotics. When you shave, the hair follicle is pulled on and cut shorter than the opening of the follicle. Then when it snaps back, it brings in bacteria. End result = UBS (ugly bootie syndrome) - ha, I just made that up!

Anyway, I strongly recommend that you not shave there, and if you must, shave WITH the grain, not AGAINST it! Consider using Nair, but apply a little barrier cream to the inside of the labia on the mucous membrane area. But THE solution is probably laser, if you can afford it.

pixieandelf7 · 09-01-2005, 11:52 PM

Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem. Elf and I took a really good look at them together. It's not *as* bad as I thought, but there's room for improvement!

We bought the Neutrogena Microdermabrasion Kit. I'll update here if I see any results. I also bought Mederma, which will lighten the scars and force them to make new skin cells. I also have a glycolic peel I'll be using 3x per week.

I'm also thinking maybe I need a powder in my crack? Burt's Bees makes a calming cornstarch powder with herbs for babies. Seems gentle enough.

I will have a pretty (hairless) kitty and crack. If nothing works, I will shell out for the dermatologist.

Vespertine · 09-02-2005, 08:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pixieandelf7

I'm also thinking maybe I need a powder in my crack? Burt's Bees makes a calming cornstarch powder with herbs for babies. Seems gentle enough.

I use this before and after waxing. It works great.

Mr. Vespertine uses Burt's Bees Beeswax Moisturizing Cream after shaving his bat n'balls. He doesn't get any skin irritation and it makes his skin super soft.

lovedoctor · 09-10-2005, 11:09 PM

I hate to shed a little rain on everyone's parade when it comes to this hygiene stuff, but ladies, please consider NOT using a powder with Talc close to the vulva/vagina. Talc exposure has been linked to cervical cancer (along with HPV of certain subtypes). Also, be careful about cornstarch and the like as it can predispose you to yeastie-beasties.

Sorry!

DBL D · 09-11-2005, 11:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

...please consider NOT using a powder with Talc...

What in the world is "TALC?" I thought all powder was made from "TALC".

Male D

DBL D · 09-11-2005, 11:09 PM

OH VES??? Surrender

M.D.

pixieandelf7 · 09-12-2005, 09:35 AM

Many powders are made from talc, but the Burt's Bee's powder is cornstarch based and has calming herbs added in. I'm only using it in my heinie crack, lol.

No yeastie beasties for me.

lcjtsd · 09-12-2005, 09:53 AM

The Mrs. uses the shave cream that is made for black men and follows that with the Dove deodorant. Big improvement.

lovedoctor · 09-13-2005, 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DBL D

What in the world is "TALC?" I thought all powder was made from "TALC".

Male D

Sorry, didn't mean to drop the ball on this one. Just talcum powder is Talc...

Ditto what she said about the cornstarch as another form of powder - up above there...

I am glad to learn about using deoderant after shaving, I have never heard that before and will try it! Thank you

lovedoctor · 09-13-2005, 12:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I use this before and after waxing. It works great.

Mr. Vespertine uses Burt's Bees Beeswax Moisturizing Cream after shaving his bat n'balls. He doesn't get any skin irritation and it makes his skin super soft.

Burts Bees stuff is almost universally good, isn't it?

(I love the term "bat n' balls!" Never heard that before and it cracked me up!)

hotmicouple · 09-17-2005, 08:13 PM

do any of you notice that the occurance of these bumps happens around your period. I have noticed that when I do get them it is usually close or while I am on it. Maybe this is something hormonal also?

HappyPeople · 10-15-2005, 06:15 PM

Perhaps you could consult with an esthetician. I have a friend that does this and she seems to know quite a bit about hair/skin stuff.

Xirius · 10-16-2005, 12:33 AM

Geeze dixie, sounds like an awful ordeal to be putting yourself through. Ever think to just Ixnay on the aveshay??? Why can't you just be natural?

L&R · 10-16-2005, 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xirius

Geeze dixie, sounds like an awful ordeal to be putting yourself through. Ever think to just Ixnay on the aveshay??? Why can't you just be natural?

Well natural is 'N' in Europe, but seems to have gone out of vogue after the 1970's.

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08-31-2005, 04:06 PM	#16 (permalink)
hammerit12 Posts: n/a	Re: Ugly vagina Well, you are definately NOT the only one with this problem. I do also have the same dilemma. I get maybe one a year. I was so afraid I had a disease I finally went to the dermatologist and got some cream for them. She says you can have them surgically removed but they can come back. There is no cure either, it is from shaving mostly. I will be solving my problem with laser. I have had one session, but will not notice any hair gone until about the third session. Needless to say I am very excited!! No more shaving, itches, zero!! Yahoo!!!!!!!!!! T

08-31-2005, 10:40 PM	#17 (permalink)
lovedoctor Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 510 Location: Florida - but right now, I'm on tour! Status: M Female SLS Name:Fllovedoctor	Re: Ugly vagina I would talk to your Family Doctor (my bias), or a derm - but you should consider going on prophylactic antibiotics. When you shave, the hair follicle is pulled on and cut shorter than the opening of the follicle. Then when it snaps back, it brings in bacteria. End result = UBS (ugly bootie syndrome) - ha, I just made that up! Anyway, I strongly recommend that you not shave there, and if you must, shave WITH the grain, not AGAINST it! Consider using Nair, but apply a little barrier cream to the inside of the labia on the mucous membrane area. But THE solution is probably laser, if you can afford it. __________________ "Everyone here is wondering what it's like to be with somebody else..." ~Back 2 Good, Rob Thomas (matchbox twenty)

09-01-2005, 11:52 PM	#18 (permalink)
pixieandelf7 Active Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 26 Location: NY Status: married couple	Re: Ugly vagina Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem. Elf and I took a really good look at them together. It's not as bad as I thought, but there's room for improvement! We bought the Neutrogena Microdermabrasion Kit. I'll update here if I see any results. I also bought Mederma, which will lighten the scars and force them to make new skin cells. I also have a glycolic peel I'll be using 3x per week. I'm also thinking maybe I need a powder in my crack? Burt's Bees makes a calming cornstarch powder with herbs for babies. Seems gentle enough. I will have a pretty (hairless) kitty and crack. If nothing works, I will shell out for the dermatologist.

09-10-2005, 11:09 PM	#20 (permalink)
lovedoctor Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 510 Location: Florida - but right now, I'm on tour! Status: M Female SLS Name:Fllovedoctor	Re: Ugly vagina I hate to shed a little rain on everyone's parade when it comes to this hygiene stuff, but ladies, please consider NOT using a powder with Talc close to the vulva/vagina. Talc exposure has been linked to cervical cancer (along with HPV of certain subtypes). Also, be careful about cornstarch and the like as it can predispose you to yeastie-beasties. Sorry! __________________ "Everyone here is wondering what it's like to be with somebody else..." ~Back 2 Good, Rob Thomas (matchbox twenty)

09-11-2005, 11:09 PM	#22 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Ugly vagina OH VES??? Surrender M.D. __________________ "Just nod if you can hear me..." David Gilmour

09-12-2005, 09:35 AM	#23 (permalink)
pixieandelf7 Active Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 26 Location: NY Status: married couple	Re: Ugly vagina Many powders are made from talc, but the Burt's Bee's powder is cornstarch based and has calming herbs added in. I'm only using it in my heinie crack, lol. No yeastie beasties for me.

09-12-2005, 09:53 AM	#24 (permalink)
lcjtsd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 125 Location: NO LONGER PARTICIPATING!!! Status: Couple	Re: Ugly vagina The Mrs. uses the shave cream that is made for black men and follows that with the Dove deodorant. Big improvement.

09-17-2005, 08:13 PM	#27 (permalink)
hotmicouple Registered Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Flint, Michigan Status: couple	Re: Ugly vagina do any of you notice that the occurance of these bumps happens around your period. I have noticed that when I do get them it is usually close or while I am on it. Maybe this is something hormonal also?

10-15-2005, 06:15 PM	#28 (permalink)
HappyPeople Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 390 Location: Tampa	Re: Ugly vagina Perhaps you could consult with an esthetician. I have a friend that does this and she seems to know quite a bit about hair/skin stuff.

10-16-2005, 12:33 AM	#29 (permalink)
Xirius Registered Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: United States	Re: Ugly vagina Geeze dixie, sounds like an awful ordeal to be putting yourself through. Ever think to just Ixnay on the aveshay??? Why can't you just be natural?

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