Further Boob-Job Related Thoughts

[Miss_Piggy]

It seems to me that there are a number of women who consider getting some kind of breast surgery.

Lifts... Implants... Reductions...

For some reason or another many of us ladies have problems with our relationships with our breasts.

But everyone says, "Natural breasts are better than fake breasts." So here's what I'm wondering. What if you really don't have nice breasts? Are saggy natural breasts better than perky fakes? Is every natural breast really wonderful? Are women just suffering from low breast esteem? OR, are there women who really should consider cosmetic surgery?

[FLUSHEDUP]

Well far be it for me to chime in on this subject being male and all but I did buy my wife a boob job. Her self esteem has went through the roof. It is the best money I have ever spent. She had breastfed 2 children and she wanted a change. I never complained once, but it is something she wanted to do real bad...She said she wished she would have done it years ago...

[WildMiCouple]

I've always liked whatever the girl is happy with. If she has had implants and feels good about herself....then it definately shows in her sexuality and turns me on to no end. I'm all in favor of a woman improving her self esteem or confidence. After all, she's still the same on the inside with a boost to how she feels about herself on the outside.

In my experience, it's not too often you can feel the difference unless it's a woman that has D or DD implants when she was originally an A cup. Just trying to pack too much in there. I'm betting that most of those men that say they don't like "fake" breasts, just never had the pleasure of enjoying a woman that has them.

Tammy recently had a breast reduction/lift. She is very happy with them now. Setting up like they use to before kids . And her back aches have nearly gone away The positive outlook she has now made it worth it. Plus, she's enjoying shopping for new outfits that show off her smaller and perkier breasts

So whatever makes you happy is what it's all about

Brett (and Tammy)

[curiousagain]

A rep came through at work the other day and to be honest she mostly talked to those of us guys that were there. We were perfectly OK with that, she was cute, she was stacked, she was personable. She was giving out free pens and lights. We flirted with her, she smiled, we felt good all afternoon.

After she left, some of my female coworkers were verbally tearing her apart. "that was a crappy dye job on her hair" "I bet her legs get varicose veins after working in high heels all day" " I bet she bought those boobs of hers" A male coworker of mine turned to the group of females and said "now wait a minute, I heard y'all talking one day about your dildos and I didn't hear anybody complaining about how fake they were"

There's a moral in that somewhere, maybe "If you like the way something looks and feels, does it matter it its real or not?"

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by Miss_Piggy

What if you really don't have nice breasts? Are saggy natural breasts better than perky fakes?

This is something I wondered all the time. I have the HUGEST complex about my breasts after breastfeeding three babies, the last one for over a year. I really lost a lot of breast tissue and the texture totally changed. I loved my breast prior, they had a beautiful shape and feel, even if they were only B cup breasts. They fit my body so well.

I thought about a lift and a small augmentation. But then I realized I wouldn't be happy there either. I don't care for the look of augmented breasts, and I scar pretty bad. I decided I was going to go from one set of complaints to another so I decided it was cheapter and easier to just accept them for the way they are. I don't mind them quite so much now.

[ilnewbies]

My wife had augmentation a year and a half ago (her idea...really). She had also breastfed two babies and didn't like the way they looked. I am in the health care field, so we research the subject endlessly so we could make informed decisions. She went from a b cup to d cup using silicone implants. They look and feel real, and do not stand up when she lies on her back. We went to Hedo III one year after her surgery and many people, one of whom is a doctor, did not think they were implants at all. Her areolar scars are all but gone. She is very happy with them and I will "suffer through...lol". facelick

[DblTrouble]

This is a personal decision that has to be made by the woman for the woman. Being a woman myself and one who recently had a boob job I know what I am talking about. My hubby loved what I had before and all my friends said I look great to start with. Well I felt seriously unhappy with myself and after many years of discussion with my hubby i went for it. i went from barely a B to a small D. They look totally real.

I am posting a website here that is a great resource for any woman thinking of getting a breast enhancement, reduction or tummy tuck. Any questions you have they have answers from other women who have under gone the same thing. Hope you find this usefull.

www.breastimplants411.com (click on forum)

Dbltrouble's Lady

[PiNKFLoYD]

I've enjoyed women with A's, DD's, and everything in between, but breast size is something that's never really mattered to me. The woman behind the boobs - now that is what matters.

[Mich149]

Well, I hate to do it, but I'm going to make myself look like a pig. Let me say this first - I love myself, I love my body and every woman should be able to feel the same.

That being said - I will be totally honest and say that I would rather look at and fondle a woman who has had a very obvious (like the ones who look like they pasted gum drops to a gingerbread house) than the sliding fried egg look and feel. THat's my personal preference.

I had several "female issues" that left my chest flattened out like a used balloon. I had a FABULOUS surgeon who gave me a new set who didn't leave any scars on a Friday and I was back at work on Monday. I love them, I'd do it over and over again. They look AND feel natural. So there ARE ways to make yourself look better without the scarring and time out of work.

Just to recap - if you're saggy and you love it - that's great, but I prefer something there.