The Bread Man....
I ran into the Bread man yesterday...or more accurately, he ran into me.
I was at the dreaded Wally-World and was bending over to pull a couple of cans of soup off the shelve when I heard..."Damnnnnn ! "... I stood up, turned around and there he was. I said hi, how ya doing and what are you up to? His reply was..Staring at your ass and getting a hard-on. To which I cracked up laughing.
It was a good thing there was no one else around as our conversation was definitely not for other's ears. We stood in the aisle and talked for about 30 minutes or so. He's still very interested in learning more about this swinging thing.
The conversation evolved around to fantasies and he shared quite a few things he was wanting to try...interestingly enough, they are things that Ted and I both enjoy immensely. I told him we had experienced everything he had mentioned and he asked....is it as good in reality as it is in fantasy? I said yes, for us it was. He made me promise to tell Ted that it seemed their interest, when it came to MFM threesomes, aligned extremely well (he and Ted still haven't met each other).
His enthusiasm and level headiness about dealing with something that is new to him tickles and impresses me. He's adamant about not wanting to make any mistakes along the way. I told him to relax and remember it was suppose to be fun.
We parted company with a hug and a promise that as soon as Ted made it in on a weekend he was free, we'd all get together and see where things went.
I normally am not that interested in introducing someone to the joys of group sex...I much prefer more experienced people as there just seems to be less chance that someone will freak out on you or become overly attached. However, in this case, I find myself strangely without those reservations. I'm looking forward to him and Ted meeting and seeing if Ted sees any red flags that I might have missed or if my impressions of the Breadman are correct and he will make a good playmate.
T.
I was at the dreaded Wally-World and was bending over to pull a couple of cans of soup off the shelve when I heard..."Damnnnnn ! "... I stood up, turned around and there he was. I said hi, how ya doing and what are you up to? His reply was..Staring at your ass and getting a hard-on. To which I cracked up laughing.
It was a good thing there was no one else around as our conversation was definitely not for other's ears. We stood in the aisle and talked for about 30 minutes or so. He's still very interested in learning more about this swinging thing.
The conversation evolved around to fantasies and he shared quite a few things he was wanting to try...interestingly enough, they are things that Ted and I both enjoy immensely. I told him we had experienced everything he had mentioned and he asked....is it as good in reality as it is in fantasy? I said yes, for us it was. He made me promise to tell Ted that it seemed their interest, when it came to MFM threesomes, aligned extremely well (he and Ted still haven't met each other).
His enthusiasm and level headiness about dealing with something that is new to him tickles and impresses me. He's adamant about not wanting to make any mistakes along the way. I told him to relax and remember it was suppose to be fun.
We parted company with a hug and a promise that as soon as Ted made it in on a weekend he was free, we'd all get together and see where things went.
I normally am not that interested in introducing someone to the joys of group sex...I much prefer more experienced people as there just seems to be less chance that someone will freak out on you or become overly attached. However, in this case, I find myself strangely without those reservations. I'm looking forward to him and Ted meeting and seeing if Ted sees any red flags that I might have missed or if my impressions of the Breadman are correct and he will make a good playmate.
T.
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 |  Common sense and good communication skills go a long way, too bad they're not much more common.... |
Posted 08-01-2008 at 03:38 PM by socolais  |
| |  If anyone could show him the ropes properly it would be you two! |
| Posted 08-01-2008 at 05:01 PM by JustAskJulie |
| |  Variety, Teresa. Variety. You normally play with more experienced people and this is a different situation. I'm interested in what Ted thinks. I can't imagine you being very off base about someone. Made the dreaded trip to Wally World worth it, didn't he? |
| Posted 08-01-2008 at 06:28 PM by gatorvol64 |
| |  Socolais: I agree 100%. Julie: Thanks. Vol: We have introduced 'vanillas' to swinging before but...they were long time friends. This is definitely different in that I met the Bread Man out of the blue...he and I have been running into each other on a fairly regular basis now for about a year. I kind of feel responsible to make sure that he knows exactly what he might be getting into and that IF anything does happen he'll be okay with it. Even though there's an excitement component involved of introducing someone new...my 'mothering' instincts also kick in. If he were someone that I didn't run into all the time (as well as dealing with him as a supplier for some of the volunteer work I do though the school, which I found out after we had met that he was the one I had been writing notes to for the past few years ) I think I would feel much less responsible. I really want Ted to meet him and see if he sees the same things I do...that he (the Bread Man) can handle this lifestyle. T. |
| Posted 08-02-2008 at 11:24 AM by TNT |
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