The Bread Man and the annoying asshole...
Saw the 'Bread Man' again yesterday while I was out. We did our usual... hugs and polite conversation.
During the conversation he told me he would like to get together with Ted and I to see how things progressed (he hasn't met Ted yet).. So, I asked him if he was sure that this was something that he was interested in pursing. His feelings were that he was very comfortable around me and he couldn't imagine not being comfortable around Ted but, he still wasn't sure about the sex part but definitely wanted to meet for dinner one night.
Unfortunately, right now Ted is out of town and won't be back for a few weeks so I had to tell him it might be a couple of months before we could arrange a dinner date. He was cool with that and said it would just give him more time to build his courage up,
. He's such a sweet guy.
As to the annoying asshole...UGH!!!!!!!
I'm rarely rude to people but this one man is about to see me be extremely rude. He's a man that has been e-mailing us for a while now (on SLS)...I've told him no thank you many, many times and I've said it in no uncertain terms...hell, I don't even reply to his e-mails anymore.
We had never met him up until a couple of months ago when he was at a house party that we were also at...and, he's been at the last three parties that we've been to, so it seems we keep running into him.
NOTE: I said I didn't reply to his e-mails...we do still read them as he is a slight form of amusement for us, Ted more so than I.
His latest e-mail said...and I quote..."I want to play with teresa but just feel uncomfortable about approaching her in the house parties... what should I do? " (Notice he did not capitalize my name, a proper noun is suppose to be capitalized.)
Actually one of his better e-mails, they usually run along the lines of "I want to play with Teresa, can we meet tonight"? He NEVER speaks to me (or types to me, however you want to look at it) he always speaks to Ted as if I don't have a mind and Ted is the one that decides who I play with
OR, that Ted could tell me to play with him and I would...good grief! We have already established I have a brain, dingy though it is, I do have a mind of my own and I decide who I fuck and who I don't...Thank you very much!...UGH...
Anyway, I'm at the point that he's fixing to get a reply that says..."What part of NO don't you understand? I do NOT want to fuck you, I will NEVER fuck you. There is nothing about you that I like. NO, NO, NO!!!!!"
I won't do it, but it feels good to think about doing it Like I said, he's annoying but slightly amusing at the same time...for Ted anyway and I can put up with an annoying asshole if it makes Ted giggle.
During the conversation he told me he would like to get together with Ted and I to see how things progressed (he hasn't met Ted yet).. So, I asked him if he was sure that this was something that he was interested in pursing. His feelings were that he was very comfortable around me and he couldn't imagine not being comfortable around Ted but, he still wasn't sure about the sex part but definitely wanted to meet for dinner one night.
Unfortunately, right now Ted is out of town and won't be back for a few weeks so I had to tell him it might be a couple of months before we could arrange a dinner date. He was cool with that and said it would just give him more time to build his courage up,
. He's such a sweet guy. As to the annoying asshole...UGH!!!!!!!
I'm rarely rude to people but this one man is about to see me be extremely rude. He's a man that has been e-mailing us for a while now (on SLS)...I've told him no thank you many, many times and I've said it in no uncertain terms...hell, I don't even reply to his e-mails anymore.
We had never met him up until a couple of months ago when he was at a house party that we were also at...and, he's been at the last three parties that we've been to, so it seems we keep running into him.
NOTE: I said I didn't reply to his e-mails...we do still read them as he is a slight form of amusement for us, Ted more so than I.
His latest e-mail said...and I quote..."I want to play with teresa but just feel uncomfortable about approaching her in the house parties... what should I do? " (Notice he did not capitalize my name, a proper noun is suppose to be capitalized.)
Actually one of his better e-mails, they usually run along the lines of "I want to play with Teresa, can we meet tonight"? He NEVER speaks to me (or types to me, however you want to look at it) he always speaks to Ted as if I don't have a mind and Ted is the one that decides who I play with
OR, that Ted could tell me to play with him and I would...good grief! We have already established I have a brain, dingy though it is, I do have a mind of my own and I decide who I fuck and who I don't...Thank you very much!...UGH...Anyway, I'm at the point that he's fixing to get a reply that says..."What part of NO don't you understand? I do NOT want to fuck you, I will NEVER fuck you. There is nothing about you that I like. NO, NO, NO!!!!!"
I won't do it, but it feels good to think about doing it
Like I said, he's annoying but slightly amusing at the same time...for Ted anyway and I can put up with an annoying asshole if it makes Ted giggle.
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 |  Need some background on this "Bread Man". Did I miss that post? As for the annoying asshole, I'd have to reply to him (from YOU) and point out how much of an asshole he is and that you make the decision who you play with and it won't be him. |
Posted 01-05-2008 at 02:03 PM by JustAskJulie  |
| |  Check out this thread http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ad.php?t=37136 it's the story of the Bread Man. As to the A-hole...I've really tried to think of something/someway to respond to him that would be a total put down in a very polite way although, it would probably go right over his head. |
| Posted 01-05-2008 at 02:17 PM by TNT |
| |  Thanks for the update on Bread Man. I had wondered what became of him. As to asshole, I'd be tempted to reply back, "Teresa doesn't want to play with you, but she doesn't feel comfortable approaching you at house parties to tell you this because she probably won't tell you no politely. What should she do?" |
| Posted 01-05-2008 at 03:58 PM by rpu3 |
| |  That's a good one! |
| Posted 01-05-2008 at 04:08 PM by TNT |
| |  Anyway, I'm at the point that he's fixing to get a reply that says..."What part of NO don't you understand? I do NOT want to fuck you, I will NEVER fuck you. There is nothing about you that I like. NO, NO, NO!!!!!" Nah, no use holding back, you should tell him what you really think! Seriously, this guy evidently has some sort of disconnect and isn't going to understand/accept anything short of a direct, to the point, no room for interpretation, impolite NO. We understand what Julie is saying, and agree that it should come from you first for the obvious reasons, but it may eventually take both parts of the TNT dynamic duo driving that point home to truly get him to leave you alone since he seems to have a neanderthal thought process regarding males and females. If you tell him off yourself once and it doesn't have the desired effect, continuing to tell him off yourself may just feed the beast. |
| Posted 01-05-2008 at 04:43 PM by cplnuswing |
| | the ass holewell Teresa note the capital t he sent us one yesturday that say hey im a cpl now and she is hot yall want to fuck so he is annoyiing to all and it makes me laugh to toni wants to reply in the same way you do so maybe yall could send him a tandum email saying no thanks ass hole |
| Posted 01-10-2008 at 07:05 AM by johntoniswing |
| | Glad to know it's not just us he's bugging the piss out of...Tell Toni we'll get together and think of something to send him. |
| Posted 01-11-2008 at 06:38 PM by TNT |
| | Let him know NO dinner date as he has over stepped the mark. Would be nice if Ted could also let him know NO and no means no. When you do meet him on occasion,no more hugs,Just a verbal greeting and try to keep walking If all else fails block him delete and ignore him,may be he will lose his new found courage. Oh where is Mrs bread |
| Posted 08-21-2008 at 09:14 AM by maggoo |
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