What should one do???
Posted 12-20-2008 at 03:42 PM by hard_habit
If you have had your threesome..lets say for about four times and all the parties invovled is comfortable with it. How do you react to the next time you just dont want to go all the way, even though your mate and the other woman has practically done everything together. Is it wrong to stop them from kissing after they kissed or anal sex after that was done too. How do you retract after you have done it all?
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 |  I think that depends on WHY you want to retract. |
Posted 12-20-2008 at 07:01 PM by socolais  |
| | My man was flirting with this girl (B) and I found out about it. Now here's the thing, we have this girl (A) we got together with periodically, and I started feeling slighted because she was sending him text messages about how she miss fucking him, and before the other female he was flirting with came into his picture, I was totally cool with this girl (A) we were with. Now I want to draw back some, because I started feeling insecure because of this. What you all might say is comunicate comunicate comunicate, and I agree. I just want to know have any of you had simular or same situations. If so please share...thanks |
| Posted 12-23-2008 at 03:35 PM by hard_habit |
| | The primary rule in swinging is that "no" simply means no! - and that includes any no's from our spouse. You should feel completely comfortable calling a halt to the play and taking a break until both of you decide to go forward with this again. You've tried a few things and had some fun, but some things were less than desirable. Figure a way to fix that. If you're uncomfortable with his flirting, let him know and expect his behavior to change. Meanwhile, ask yourself if you are comfortable with your reaction to their behavior. Maybe try couple swapping to see if a change in swinging styles reduces the discomfort. I think you already knew the answer would involve plenty of communication. Good luck!!! |
| Posted 12-23-2008 at 06:22 PM by socolais |
| | Thanks for your response. We are talking more each day to get over this hump. Meanwhile we took a break from our girlfriend for a little while. |
| Posted 12-26-2008 at 08:16 PM by hard_habit |
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