Ugh, more delays....

Well we are buying a house now. We had to go with seller financing since i just started my own business, which in a way blows. But hey at least they approved us.

So my hopes of either New Years Eve, which my lady shut down, or at least in Jan, hitting a club have disappeared. But for a worthwhile adventure at least.

Finally owning our own home will be nice. It has a huge sunroom out back, two enormous living spaces, and i got 'permission' to make the basement whatever i want....hmmmm....does she really know what she just let me do?

So....

Thinking about where we are with our communication, i think its good that my lady put the brakes on the whole exploring swinging thing. I dont think either of us are ready just yet. I am certainly ready to hit a club, that dosent bother me in the least. To go have sex in public and watch others enjoying themselves, HELL YEAH, that sounds like a blast. But sharing each other, probably not just yet....

So maybe Feb. for a club. Regardless i respect my lady's wishes and now is the time to focus on getting this house bought, do some remodeling work and get moved in. Play time will have to wait....Oh well patience pays off.