Hopefully a somewhat interesting missive on the journey of exploring my own sexuality and occasionally an off topic dither. 
Hmm...not gonna happen this month...
Posted 12-02-2008 at 08:04 PM by Dienekes
Got home from my new consulting gig....was discussing the month with my lady. She decided after reviewing the website for the local swinger's club she wasnt ready for that leap afterall. no big deal, though i must admit a bit of bummer setting in.
Oh well. She is the most wonderful lady, and after talking with her i certainly understand her viewpoint.
Since i got worked up last weekend about another dick in the whole scenario...i didnt freak out or anything but got a bit jealous about the thought of having another dude in my lady.
But shit thats how its going to be at least the first few times. Jealousy on both sides. Me of her and another dude, and her of me and another lady. But to top it off, going to the club does not mean we must play with anyone else! In fact, we agreed that we would ONLY play with each other. But i understand her point, and rather than expending a ton of energy this month on having a sexy crazy night, we can go and totally enjoy each other in a fun completely non-threatening environment. It is our 15 year anniversary of dating this weekend so what better way to spend it than hanging out together and enjoying some xmas shopping etc.
The swinger's club ain't goin anywhere and i am 100% that at some point in the next few months we will go. I also bet its highly likely at that point, it will be a story to remember. My lady is slow to warm up to ideas like this, just like i am about money and such, but once warmed up, oh shit look out.
I envision a crazy time ahead for us, just maybe not this month.
Oh well, i will keep reading, learning and living the fun lovin you all are engaging in! LOL
Dienekes
Oh well. She is the most wonderful lady, and after talking with her i certainly understand her viewpoint.
Since i got worked up last weekend about another dick in the whole scenario...i didnt freak out or anything but got a bit jealous about the thought of having another dude in my lady.
But shit thats how its going to be at least the first few times. Jealousy on both sides. Me of her and another dude, and her of me and another lady. But to top it off, going to the club does not mean we must play with anyone else! In fact, we agreed that we would ONLY play with each other. But i understand her point, and rather than expending a ton of energy this month on having a sexy crazy night, we can go and totally enjoy each other in a fun completely non-threatening environment. It is our 15 year anniversary of dating this weekend so what better way to spend it than hanging out together and enjoying some xmas shopping etc.
The swinger's club ain't goin anywhere and i am 100% that at some point in the next few months we will go. I also bet its highly likely at that point, it will be a story to remember. My lady is slow to warm up to ideas like this, just like i am about money and such, but once warmed up, oh shit look out.
I envision a crazy time ahead for us, just maybe not this month.
Oh well, i will keep reading, learning and living the fun lovin you all are engaging in! LOL
Dienekes
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