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Gentlemen...Start Your ....Cameras!!

Posted 08-26-2008 at 03:16 AM by aster
Ok, i like photos of women's boobs as much as the next guy (oh, wait, actually not, lol...but they are very appealing!) Boobs are great. front boobs...side boobs....boobs in push up bras...boobs being kissed....boobs on the beach...boobs boobs boobs.

i get it, they're very stimulating. ;-)

but why are most couples' profiles so focused on boobs? 95% of all the couple's photos I've seen are of just the female....and about 80% of those are just of the boobs.

so here's a plea...bring out the men!! i don't necessarily need to see the "manhood"...but a cute butt and some broad shoulders wouldn't hurt. a face after we get to know each other? hell...show me those big hands!!

men...i'd like to see you in the profiles, stop playing so coy with me! women, i know the men are camera shy, so it's going to have to be your new mission to get them tipsy (or more) and get them in front of that camera!

bottom line: if i can't imagine myself with *both* of you, i'm much less likely to respond. i know the profiles are out there to attract other couples mostly, and maybe leaving guys out is best for that....but throw me a bone!!*

*pun totally intended, i'm lame.

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hornykat74's Avatar
I hope the guys out there are reading this and taking notice

I have a camera and love taking pics. It's something that I would like to do as part of our adventures..take pics of other couples, or my man with other couples..and not just those dick and boob shots either!

Cheers, Mrs K&T
Posted 08-28-2008 at 01:19 AM by hornykat74 hornykat74 is offline
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mixtupcpl's Avatar
Here is a little secret. I'd bet a lot of the guys arent thrilled with their body and feel it wouldnt be a positive to lead with their photo. Fact is, guys find a huge range of female body types VERY appealing and will react to nearly ANY roughly proportional female.

Many of us guys, though, tend to assume that women will really only react to a buff, stud, type guy and that a photo of joe average will just turn them off. Many of us rely on charm, intellect etc to get us "in" and those things just don't come off well in a photo

This is my reason, at least! Im a "life of the party" kind of guy who has always been able to make people extremely comfortable and get them laughing, but my wife can look hot in photos. So when a profile shot is needed, I figure thats her job. At least until the day I wake up looking like Brad Pitt
Posted 08-31-2008 at 09:31 PM by mixtupcpl mixtupcpl is offline
Updated 08-31-2008 at 09:33 PM by mixtupcpl (typo)
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aster's Avatar
Ah, well, here's a little secret for you too.

I'm ALSO interested in a wide variety of guys! of course, i like to see a little personality in the pics, if possible. guys who try to look too serious usually turn me off. a cute smile and/or playful attitude is VERY attractive!

a SECOND secret....big muscles and extremely cut guys...are a big TURN OFF. fit, sure. some muscles, I can handle. body builders...nope, sorry, not into it. if i were at a party, i might not turn it down, but it would be a lesser choice. (i like fit...not built)

health is a turn on, yes. but i'm not looking for perfection, and i'm certainly not looking for someone who spends too much time trying to reach it.
Posted 09-03-2008 at 02:08 AM by aster aster is offline
 
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