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Old 03-23-2004, 11:13 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Why is it more open minded , exceptable for a women to eat pussy and it is not as exceptable for a man to suck cock? Where and why is there a line drawn here?
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Old 03-24-2004, 12:45 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I think there are a factors that come into play.

1. It seems to me that there is a social stigma attached to man on man action. Some men fear being intimate with other men - perhaps due to societal pressure (???), fear of doing things that women are meant to do and thus being less of a man (???).

2. Women are encouraged to be affectionate with each other. Perhaps it's not such a jump for them to be a little *more* affectionate with one another.

3. A lot of men have a fantasy of seeing their woman with another woman. This fantasy is not so common among women (wanting to see their man with another man). I can see women engaging in girl on girl action in order to satisfy their partner's fantasy.

It's true that there seems to be a line there. It's perfectly acceptable for women to do other women but the same does not go for men with other men. Personally, I would like to see that line dissolved a bit. While it is not my experience that many women like the idea of seeing their man with another man, I'd love to see it

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Old 03-24-2004, 12:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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It seems obvious to me, Phone Bugs. Men are hard, muscular, hairy and yucky. Women are soft, pretty, smooth and cuddly.

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Old 03-24-2004, 01:30 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 03-24-2004, 05:26 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I'll be honest, when it comes to the fella's I'm a little homophobic. I once saw two guy's go after it at a club, now, it is not at all uncommon to see girls doing it but the club managers tossed these guy's out as soon as they noticed it. When I inquired with a similar question, I was told that if they let that stuff go on, next thing you know, the local gay community would take over the place. It sounded like they were talking from experiance, could happen, I guess.
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Women are like an expensive foreigh sports car, sleek, powerful, yet the appointments are soft and supple. Men on the other hand are like and Army Deuce and a Half. Pure utility.....I guess I'll take beauty over functionality on this one.
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Old 03-24-2004, 06:08 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I saw a film on Oscar Wilde. They showed him having hot anal sex with another guy in bed with them facing each other, sitting up. It looked pretty hot to me. It got me excited!
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I am not sure why there is a taboo - or a line in the sand, so to speak...

But for us it is simple...

I don't really want to go down on another guy...

Mrs Spoomonkey "apparently" enjoys "entertaining" another woman every now and then...

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I met a woman once who really enjoyed watching two men give oral to each other as well as fuck one another. She said she loved watching b/c it was like two animals going at it and it made her incredibly horny/hot. And she loved to instruct inexperienced men on how to suck cock....funny enough, she was a teacher..lol
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I met a woman once who really enjoyed watching two men give oral to each other as well as fuck one another. She said she loved watching b/c it was like two animals going at it and it made her incredibly horny/hot. And she loved to instruct inexperienced men on how to suck cock....funny enough, she was a teacher..lol
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Is it just me or are a lot of teachers out there just crazy (in a cool way of course)?? They are Miss perfect in the class room but outside the class room WATCH OUT!

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Is it just me or are a lot of teachers out there just crazy (in a cool way of course)?? They are Miss perfect in the class room but outside the class room WATCH OUT!

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There's been quite a lot of films with the storyline like that!
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I am inclined to side with Miss Piggy on this one. But I am not a man, and I have no idea what it is to be a man. So my opinion is only that!

So now I want to ask, if it is the case that men are big, hairy, and yucky, then why are all of us sleek, smooth, and sexy girls doing it with you guys?

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Whoops, I should change my wording...

Why do YOU think we are doing this?

sorry...

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(I'm trying to make this less rhetorical)
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We like both or all, plus love to watch and be watched. M/M is a HUGE turn on for her, as is F/F for him, but so is m/f for both. LOL Have to agree with/or maybe it's more of an answer to 2neophytes "So now I want to ask, if it is the case that men are big, hairy, and yucky, then why are all of us sleek, smooth, and sexy girls doing it with you guys?"
Guys are just as sexy as women, or women wouldn't want them. As common as bi females are in the "lifestyle", there are far more straight females out there than bi ones. When it comes to the daily grind, I'd much rather (female now) curl up into my muscular, hairy husbands arms than any female we've ever slept with, and he'd far prefer to pull my soft feminine body close to his, as opposed to any of the men.
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