The Ongoing Bisexuality Issue

ready2pla · 01-20-2004, 05:25 PM

I liked the pole and it has so many choices I am a bi-sexual male and have a wonderful wife and we swing but we have yet to find a single male that is really bi-sexual.

NAbeast · 01-20-2004, 06:19 PM

Although very new to this life style {meaning we have only met with one couple} when we have invited men they were totally for her physical pleasure, And visual stimulation for me. Speaking with bi males they prefer men but play with women. Don’t know if that is the case all around but just my understanding of the ones spoken to.

ready2pla · 01-20-2004, 06:58 PM

I guess maybe I am not Bi then because I prefer women. There is nothing I like more than having wild sex with my wife or a hot woman. It is just that I have alway's had fantasy's of the m/m sex while the wife were there. We swung with one couple that the male was bi and in the middle of a threeway he started giving me oral it was pretty erotic the wife got off on it and then It seemed I should return the favor, and since it was a long time fantasy why not the ice was broken. And if it wasn't for me then I didn't have too do it again. Now the only thing I have done is oral with a man. We do play with a straight male and no Bi-sexual thing ever happens and that is fine. We have a great time pleasuring my lady. My question is are you only Bi-sexual if you love having sex with a man as well as a woman equally? Are you saying if you prefer having sex with a man but have sex with women or your wife you are gay? What if you prefer having sex with your wife but at different times engage in m/m sex are you straight? I am confused now!!!!!!!!

jcbicouple · 01-20-2004, 07:24 PM

We'd say if you enjoy having sex (oral or otherwise) with both sexes: You are bisexual. After all: Just because you prefer intercourse over oral sex doesn't mean that you don't enjoy both....right?

dangerousfella · 01-20-2004, 10:07 PM

I consider myself bisexual. I haven't had sex with another male since I was 12, but I've always wanted to do so. My wife knows of my fantasies, but I know that she doesn't really like the idea. I guess that I'll just have to keep dreaming.

Like Woody Allen said, "Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night."

ready2pla · 01-21-2004, 06:39 AM

I do feel I am pretty lucky to have a wife that not only enjoys swinging but she also enjoys and gets very hot thinking of m/m play. I do feel relieved that she know's that I have the fantasy's of m/m play. I don't have too hide my feelings or pretend to be this homophobic straight male. Not that there is anything wrong with being totally straight. My wife is straight, and we play with a single straight male and we all have a great time. I also know if we do find another bi male to add to our play time it will be a blast because we don't have the barrier's that hold some straight males back or make them uneasy. The thing is we don't want a gay male prentending to be bi so he can have sex with a man! And we don't want a straight male prentending to be bi so he can have sex with my wife. So my question is are there any real Bi-sexual men avalible for swinging?

angihay · 01-21-2004, 06:47 AM

Ok here goes, I am a female and I find m/m action erotic but only the oral don't care to see kissing or anal. I like f/f action have done it myself kissing, oral, playing ect. however only in a swing setting wouldn't consider it 1 on 1. So i guess I'm swing-bi?

NAbeast · 01-21-2004, 05:31 PM

Listen to all the different thing being written maybe we should do away with the labels. Good sex is just that good sex. During our encounter not once did I think of doing anything with the guy that was with us. Even during the f/f action we just relished in the moment. Guess he was not into it either. But now the question is raised what if he was? What would I do in that time a place? And I know that I am straight as they come. Now I am really confusedhead bang

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ready2pla · 01-21-2004, 10:10 PM

I like how NAbeast said it great sex is great sex no matter how you cut it. So now we have kind of figured out that I am Bi I don't have a problem with that just makes play time a little more interesting. But I am like one of the other posters I would only do that in a swinging setting with my wife there I don't seem to have the urge unless she is there watching. Does that make since to you guy's? I don't seem to have any gay feelings because I don't look at a man on the street and say boy I sure would like to have sex with him. I think that f/f sex is so erotic it drives me wild just watching. I got to watch my wife on two occasions with a woman and it was so hot.

C@YWMI · 01-23-2004, 04:38 PM

I have only one word to say hedonistic This is a hedonistic lifestyle, which means self pleasure and self indulgence. My question is. If you were sexually pleased by the same sex partner in a moment of hedonistic pleasure how can you consider youreself bisexual. Maybe I'm just splitting hairs. But it is food for thought.

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View Poll Results: Thoughts on Bisexuality
I am a female and find f/f bisexual activity disgusting and just tolerate it for myself or others.	2	0.95%
I am female and do NOT find f/f bisexual activity disgusting.	37	17.62%
I am a male and find m/m bisexual activity disgusting and just tolerate it for myself and others.	22	10.48%
I am a male and do NOT find m/m bisexual activity disgusting.	54	25.71%
I am a female and find f/f bisexual activity erotic and stimulating.	68	32.38%
I am a male and find f/f bisexual activity erotic and stimulating.	97	46.19%
I am a female and don't care either way. Different strokes.	17	8.10%
I am a male and don't care either way. Different strokes.	33	15.71%
I would attend a club where male bisexual activity was allowed and/or encouraged.	65	30.95%
I would not attend a club where male bisexual activity was allowed or encouraged.	35	16.67%
I am a "straight" male and would answer an ad from a male/female bisexual couple.	34	16.19%
I am a male and would NOT answer an ad from a male/female bisexual couple.	31	14.76%
These polls never settle any issues!	28	13.33%
I am a female and find m/m bisexual activity erotic and stimulating.	31	14.76%
I am a male and find m/m bisexual activity erotic and stimulating.	39	18.57%
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C@YWMI Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 224 Location: West Michigan Status: couple	I have only one word to say hedonistic This is a hedonistic lifestyle, which means self pleasure and self indulgence. My question is. If you were sexually pleased by the same sex partner in a moment of hedonistic pleasure how can you consider youreself bisexual. Maybe I'm just splitting hairs. But it is food for thought. __________________ Nothing fails like success. Gerald Nachman

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01-20-2004, 05:25 PM	#46 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I liked the pole and it has so many choices I am a bi-sexual male and have a wonderful wife and we swing but we have yet to find a single male that is really bi-sexual.

01-20-2004, 06:19 PM	#47 (permalink)
NAbeast Registered Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 7 Location: Los Angeles CA. Status: Couple	Although very new to this life style {meaning we have only met with one couple} when we have invited men they were totally for her physical pleasure, And visual stimulation for me. Speaking with bi males they prefer men but play with women. Don’t know if that is the case all around but just my understanding of the ones spoken to.

01-20-2004, 06:58 PM	#48 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I guess maybe I am not Bi then because I prefer women. There is nothing I like more than having wild sex with my wife or a hot woman. It is just that I have alway's had fantasy's of the m/m sex while the wife were there. We swung with one couple that the male was bi and in the middle of a threeway he started giving me oral it was pretty erotic the wife got off on it and then It seemed I should return the favor, and since it was a long time fantasy why not the ice was broken. And if it wasn't for me then I didn't have too do it again. Now the only thing I have done is oral with a man. We do play with a straight male and no Bi-sexual thing ever happens and that is fine. We have a great time pleasuring my lady. My question is are you only Bi-sexual if you love having sex with a man as well as a woman equally? Are you saying if you prefer having sex with a man but have sex with women or your wife you are gay? What if you prefer having sex with your wife but at different times engage in m/m sex are you straight? I am confused now!!!!!!!!

01-20-2004, 07:24 PM	#49 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jcbicouple	We'd say if you enjoy having sex (oral or otherwise) with both sexes: You are bisexual. After all: Just because you prefer intercourse over oral sex doesn't mean that you don't enjoy both....right?

01-20-2004, 10:07 PM	#50 (permalink)
dangerousfella Registered User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Arkansas Status: M.Male	I consider myself bisexual. I haven't had sex with another male since I was 12, but I've always wanted to do so. My wife knows of my fantasies, but I know that she doesn't really like the idea. I guess that I'll just have to keep dreaming. Like Woody Allen said, "Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night."

01-21-2004, 06:39 AM	#51 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I do feel I am pretty lucky to have a wife that not only enjoys swinging but she also enjoys and gets very hot thinking of m/m play. I do feel relieved that she know's that I have the fantasy's of m/m play. I don't have too hide my feelings or pretend to be this homophobic straight male. Not that there is anything wrong with being totally straight. My wife is straight, and we play with a single straight male and we all have a great time. I also know if we do find another bi male to add to our play time it will be a blast because we don't have the barrier's that hold some straight males back or make them uneasy. The thing is we don't want a gay male prentending to be bi so he can have sex with a man! And we don't want a straight male prentending to be bi so he can have sex with my wife. So my question is are there any real Bi-sexual men avalible for swinging?

01-21-2004, 06:47 AM	#52 (permalink)
angihay Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 124 Location: michigan Status: couple	Ok here goes, I am a female and I find m/m action erotic but only the oral don't care to see kissing or anal. I like f/f action have done it myself kissing, oral, playing ect. however only in a swing setting wouldn't consider it 1 on 1. So i guess I'm swing-bi?

01-21-2004, 05:31 PM	#53 (permalink)
NAbeast Registered Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 7 Location: Los Angeles CA. Status: Couple	Listen to all the different thing being written maybe we should do away with the labels. Good sex is just that good sex. During our encounter not once did I think of doing anything with the guy that was with us. Even during the f/f action we just relished in the moment. Guess he was not into it either. But now the question is raised what if he was? What would I do in that time a place? And I know that I am straight as they come. Now I am really confusedhead bang

01-21-2004, 10:10 PM	#55 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I like how NAbeast said it great sex is great sex no matter how you cut it. So now we have kind of figured out that I am Bi I don't have a problem with that just makes play time a little more interesting. But I am like one of the other posters I would only do that in a swinging setting with my wife there I don't seem to have the urge unless she is there watching. Does that make since to you guy's? I don't seem to have any gay feelings because I don't look at a man on the street and say boy I sure would like to have sex with him. I think that f/f sex is so erotic it drives me wild just watching. I got to watch my wife on two occasions with a woman and it was so hot.