The Ongoing Bisexuality Issue

[imsnowman]

Tristan soapbox

[LadyCleo]

Only one complaint about the bevy of options, there wasn't a DEPENDS.
My answers all depend on WHO...

If it's 2 incredibly sexy men going for it, HELL YEAH! I am all into that. If it's 2 nasty fat, hairy, greasy baseball cap wearing guys missing teeth with mullets, then the answer is HELL NO. Actually, even most average looking guys would be a HELL NO too.

I was watching MTV yesterday, they unveiled Danny's (Real World New Orleans) boyfriend who was blurred during the episode because he was a military man. DAMN...he's HOT!!!! And to watch those two men kiss made me want to jump inbetween them.

As for F/F bisexuality, I'm not really into that either unless *I* am attracted to both women. That is quite rare as well.

The difference is, I rarely find watching women to be disgusting but think that I might be more disgusted by men. Bias on my part? Yeah. Sorry.

But that is not to say that I wouldn't find it hot to see my man involved in a trist with an oh so sexy Josh Duhmel (from Las Vegas on Monday nights at 9pm e/p on NBC)
Or Danny and his man, for that matter...

Have a good one!
LC

[Roxysbayou]

Originally posted by LadyCleo

If it's 2 incredibly sexy men going for it, HELL YEAH! I am all into that. If it's 2 nasty fat, hairy, greasy baseball cap wearing guys missing teeth with mullets, then the answer is HELL NO. Actually, even most average looking guys would be a HELL NO too.

This is pretty much how I feel about M/M as well, it also depends on my mood. I think it would be pretty erotic to share in a BJ with my hubby, and I am definitely looking forward to a little DPP. (I guess that doesn't count).

I am pretty much always in the mood for F/F play of any kind. And especially F/M/F with my hubby.

And I am still trying to figure out that Armadillo thing...



Roxy

[windsor4fun2]

Originally posted by LadyCleo
If it's 2 nasty fat, hairy, greasy baseball cap wearing guys missing teeth with mullets

Oh that is just a nasty visual.

Next time please post a warning so we don't rush in and read something like this unprepared.

I need to go rinse my brain now.

Jesse

[jcbicouple]

Originally posted by LadyCleo
If it's 2 nasty fat, hairy, greasy baseball cap wearing guys missing teeth with mullets, then the answer is HELL NO. LC

Eeeww! But same goes for any nasty greasy women missing teeth...they wouldn't even have to be hairy! Guess the only people we'd be interested in seeing have ANY kind of sexual relations are those we find at least somewhat attractive! I mean come on... if a nasty greasy toothless guy and a nasty greasy toothless girl were having straight sex: Would you really want to watch? Again..eeewww!

[windsor4fun2]

I wouldn't want to watch them walking down the street, let alone having sex.

Jesse

[bill&sabrina]

Originally posted by windsor4fun2

I need to go rinse my brain now.

That is the funniest damn thing I have read in quite a while. My thoughts on this are if 2 people are attractive I would find watching them have sex arousing.

Bill

[Elusive BiFem]

You know...this may have been a hair-brained poll with too many choices...and then the armadillo thing - thank you Fun_Pair for that one! ......................

but really, when you look at the answers, it's kind of interesting, isn't it?

So, Jcbicouple....you prompted this...any comments? Are the results the same as you may have anticipated? Seems to me that the m/m bisexuality issues may not be as great as I might have thought. Maybe a poll on JUST the m/m bixuality stuff...just a thought...but I ain't doin' it!!

- EBF

[Miss_Piggy]

Okay even with my studying statistics I don't really know how to make sense of these results. I suppose it's interesting that there seems to be a number of people who arent disgusted by m/m activity.

I think a poll on just m/m bisexual activity is a great idea.

Perhaps I'll go make one.

Okay I did.
M/M Tolerance Poll

~Piggy

[jcbicouple]

Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
You know...this may have been a hair-brained poll with too many choices...and then the armadillo thing - thank you Fun_Pair for that one! ......................

but really, when you look at the answers, it's kind of interesting, isn't it?

So, Jcbicouple....you prompted this...any comments? Are the results the same as you may have anticipated? Seems to me that the m/m bisexuality issues may not be as great as I might have thought. Maybe a poll on JUST the m/m bixuality stuff...just a thought...but I ain't doin' it!!

- EBF

Well, It'll be interesting to see the new poll results too. This appears to support what we see all the time. There are very few individuals or couples that seem to have a problem with both of us being bisexual, and yet when someone mentions "The lifestyle" It's like Voodoo. Everyone seems to hold a common opinion that it is just not accepted.
Starting to think that in reality it is very accepted on an individual basis (ok, been thinking it all along...but go with us here. lol) But in the clubs there are two main factors: First: A few (note we said "few"...please do not take offense if you are a single male) guys give single males a bad name because they act like immature little boys....and so the clubs do not want the place over run by single males....not that this has ANYTHING to really do with m/m sexuality, but somehow everyone seems to go there.
Secondly, because of the "voodoo" in the "lifestyle" club owners are afraid to accept it.
Now one more thought: There are two clubs we know of that have bi nights where they make sure people know that any combo is accepted, and we can tell you: People are driving from all over to get there. Really think that as clubs realize that people want bi nights...you will begin to see more and more of them. As the "fears" go away it will become obvious that this is a way to bring in more people. We think that most clubs will, likely, do just like these two and keep the "normal" nights as they are, but set aside a night or two a month for "bisexual fun" to bring in more people but keep their old ones.

[OhioCouple]

I find the results of this poll very interesting. It appears that many are 'secretly' open minded yet too afraid to admit it publicly due to the pressures of society.

I am of the opinion, if it feels good, do it...as long as you aren't violating the rights of another. Who am I to judge what does and doesn't feel right for someone else or to frown on their curiosity or preferences?

I would have no problem with Mr. O telling me "Hey, that looks so erotic, I'd love to try it", for anything between consenting adults. While it may or may not pan out to be mine or his cup of tea, how would you ever know if you didn't try it?

My .02 cents worth.

[BradAndJanet]

I agree, the results are interesting and seem to show that about half the respondents enjoy male/male bisexual activities, much more than I would have guessed, and another quarter are 'tolerant' of it.

jcbicouple, I think the idea you mentioned about clubs having 'bisexual' night is a good one. That way everyone knows what they'll likely see and those who do not want to view that kind of activity can avoid that night. There's room for everyone that way.

In the spirit of all this openness, I'll say that I've done it, I enjoyed it and although it's by no means a necessary part of any evening's activities, I'd do it again with the right guy.

-B

[NAbeast]

I can't get into m/m action. My girlfriend tell me she would not be turned on by that either. Seem off speed or something. The times when we has m/f/m play he and I never thought about doing anything to one another. Not judging just commentting

[ready2pla]

I missed this pole till now and it was well done !!!

[NAbeast]

Sorry that more people did not give writen comments. The one I did read were interesting. Seem like a few people just missed out all together<EG>