Do men participate with other men?

St. Augustine · 06-12-2003, 05:35 PM

Do men participate with the men too?

I personally have no problem with it. From what I read into the majority of the "scene", men prefer women and women usually prefer both. I'm just curious if I'm in a minority.

[posted by Mike]

alabamafuntonig · 06-12-2003, 06:25 PM

Participation is not always achieved but when I can I do . It has different levels of participation im more soft in my envolment.

M&B · 06-12-2003, 06:26 PM

4 votes, one reply.

OhioCouple · 06-12-2003, 06:41 PM

I think it really depends on what level of participation that you are inquiring about. Are you talking about oral sex, anal sex or sex which requires two men to be in to penis to penis contact (ie, dp, vaginal or anal with a woman.) Or all of the above?

I highly doubt you will see many written responses as male bi-sexuality is still very taboo and condemned even in what is supposed to be the openest of minds in a swingers club. You'll probably get more feedback through your poll as that allows the respondent to remain anonymous.

Misty&Todd · 06-13-2003, 12:37 AM

Misty says: i dont have a problem with it, i personaly am wanting to experience dp but hubby dosent want to have his penis in that close proximity with another mans penis

Roxysbayou · 06-13-2003, 02:14 AM

We would like to find a single that doesn't mind hubby participating. He's not one for watching and we REALLY want to try coochie DP.

St. Augustine · 06-13-2003, 03:29 AM

[He says] 6 - 2 in favor so far, that's encouraging. I'm not primarily attracted to males, but I think that I look at the male form as attractive as a females which is kind of rare I'm assuming.

Brit_Pair · 06-13-2003, 06:48 AM

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Originally posted by St. Augustine
Do men participate with the men too?

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Uneed_Love · 06-15-2003, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brit_Pair
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curious24 · 06-15-2003, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Roxysbayou
We would like to find a single that doesn't mind hubby participating. He's not one for watching and we REALLY want to try coochie DP.

I'm just curious how you go about finding a single to do this? Do you advertise this? Or do you go out and actively try to find it?

Brit_Pair · 06-15-2003, 01:21 PM

Seriously, it all depends on what you define as 'participation'. We've had four people on a bed, the women playing with each other, and the men playing with their own partners, and it's never been a problem. I'm not constantly thinking, "Where is he? He'd better not get too close to me . . . " And if we brush against each other, I don't leap from the bed as though I've been electrocuted.

If Mrs B wanted to try DP, I wouldn't have a problem with being in close proximity to the other male. I wouldn't relish it. I'd just accept it as part and parcel as part of that activity. If I was standing/sitting/lying right next to the other guy, one of the women in front of us alternating her attention between our cocks, I wouldn't have a problem either. I'd love to fuck Mrs B while she's orally pleasuring the other man. So at those levels, I have no problem with participating.

But would I want to be actively touched by the other man? Or touch him? Or more?

I'd sooner dunk my cock in H2SO4.

Chris&Amelia · 06-15-2003, 02:27 PM

I don't freak out if I brush up against the male half of the foursome we're playing with. Things tend to get a little... cramped at time. If I brush up against his penis, I don't freak out.

That being said, I voted "no", because I don't actively try to provide sexual pleasure to the male (i.e. touching his penis to give him pleasure, stroking his skin, or kissing him). Nor do I want any of this activity done on me.

Roxysbayou · 06-15-2003, 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by curious24
I'm just curious how you go about finding a single to do this? Do you advertise this? Or do you go out and actively try to find it?

We have not attempted to find someone, it's strictly fantasy for us at this point.

naughty A · 06-16-2003, 08:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brit_Pair
Seriously, it all depends on what you define as 'participation'.

But would I want to be actively touched by the other man? Or touch him? Or more?

I'd sooner dunk my cock in H2SO4.

I think my husband would agree with Mr. BritPair on this point... but anal has remained strictly off limits for our swinging activities so... DP is fantasy realm ONLY. and not interested in trying vaginal DP. accidental brush up... again no one freaks out...

alabamafuntonig · 06-16-2003, 11:09 AM

I can’t imagine having a DP with out “accendently brushing up” the mere word DP makes sure you do have contact.

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06-12-2003, 05:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
St. Augustine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 266 Location: St. Augustine, FL Status: Couple	Do men participate with other men? Do men participate with the men too? I personally have no problem with it. From what I read into the majority of the "scene", men prefer women and women usually prefer both. I'm just curious if I'm in a minority. [posted by Mike]

06-12-2003, 06:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	no one is realy alone Participation is not always achieved but when I can I do . It has different levels of participation im more soft in my envolment.

06-12-2003, 06:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	Interesting... 4 votes, one reply.
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06-12-2003, 06:41 PM	#4 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I think it really depends on what level of participation that you are inquiring about. Are you talking about oral sex, anal sex or sex which requires two men to be in to penis to penis contact (ie, dp, vaginal or anal with a woman.) Or all of the above? I highly doubt you will see many written responses as male bi-sexuality is still very taboo and condemned even in what is supposed to be the openest of minds in a swingers club. You'll probably get more feedback through your poll as that allows the respondent to remain anonymous.
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06-13-2003, 12:37 AM	#5 (permalink)
Misty&Todd Here to Stay Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 57 Location: Sioux City Iowa Status: Married Couple	Misty says: i dont have a problem with it, i personaly am wanting to experience dp but hubby dosent want to have his penis in that close proximity with another mans penis
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06-13-2003, 02:14 AM	#6 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat	We would like to find a single that doesn't mind hubby participating. He's not one for watching and we REALLY want to try coochie DP.
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06-13-2003, 03:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
St. Augustine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 266 Location: St. Augustine, FL Status: Couple	[He says] 6 - 2 in favor so far, that's encouraging. I'm not primarily attracted to males, but I think that I look at the male form as attractive as a females which is kind of rare I'm assuming.

06-15-2003, 01:21 PM	#11 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Seriously, it all depends on what you define as 'participation'. We've had four people on a bed, the women playing with each other, and the men playing with their own partners, and it's never been a problem. I'm not constantly thinking, "Where is he? He'd better not get too close to me . . . " And if we brush against each other, I don't leap from the bed as though I've been electrocuted. If Mrs B wanted to try DP, I wouldn't have a problem with being in close proximity to the other male. I wouldn't relish it. I'd just accept it as part and parcel as part of that activity. If I was standing/sitting/lying right next to the other guy, one of the women in front of us alternating her attention between our cocks, I wouldn't have a problem either. I'd love to fuck Mrs B while she's orally pleasuring the other man. So at those levels, I have no problem with participating. But would I want to be actively touched by the other man? Or touch him? Or more? I'd sooner dunk my cock in H2SO4.

06-15-2003, 02:27 PM	#12 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache	I don't freak out if I brush up against the male half of the foursome we're playing with. Things tend to get a little... cramped at time. If I brush up against his penis, I don't freak out. That being said, I voted "no", because I don't actively try to provide sexual pleasure to the male (i.e. touching his penis to give him pleasure, stroking his skin, or kissing him). Nor do I want any of this activity done on me.
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06-16-2003, 11:09 AM	#15 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	um honey dont let me touch that I can’t imagine having a DP with out “accendently brushing up” the mere word DP makes sure you do have contact.

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