Do men participate with other men?

[CHAMPAGNE DAVE]

I would not have any problem what so ever doing a DP even if I did brush up against, so what, let me push the envelope what would you say about a DP in the pussy ,yes both dicks in the same spot varied movment the sensation for a woman is over the top in pleasure?

Dave

[spamcatcher]

Originally posted by CHAMPAGNE DAVE
what would you say about a DP in the pussy ,yes both dicks in the same spot varied movment the sensation for a woman is over the top in pleasure?

If it turns her on, it turns me on. 'Nuff said?

[hmr]

Originally Posted by curious24

I'm just curious how you go about finding a single to do this? Do you advertise this? Or do you go out and actively try to find it?

Good question... but the truely easiest way is to list it on your profile as one of the things you enjoy. Or list it as a fantasy if you have never tried it. You would be suprised at the number of responses you receive from men with the same fantasy! Another way is to simply ask a guy, after you are in an encounter, if he has any problem bumping cocks and explain why. Most men are willing to jump at the chance (in my experience).

Roxy, it is a fantasy well worth making a reality!! Good Luck!

mrs hmr

[ionsawmill]

You know, for the swing lifestyle to be a culture in which male bisexuality is so taboo, this question sure comes up a lot. An inordinate amount, if you ask me.*

Curious, don't you think?

*Which nobody did. :p

[Spoomonkey]

I hesitate to answer this question... Mostly because I think the pro-bi-guys can be a little militant about the topic, from other threads I have read.

That said, I have no problem with contact if it is in the act, so to speak. I mean, we have tossed around the VDP scenario and it really excites both of us. Not because of the male-to-male contact, but because of the overall experience. We did enjoy an experience where I performed oral on Mrs Spoo while a single guy fucked her... Awkward - but some of the best mewling noises I've ever heard came out of my lovely wife that evening.

But - am I bi? No. Would I kiss/jerk/suck/fuck a guy? No. Do I find men attractive? No. I just enjoy playing when the idea of incidental contact isn't over-thunk...

Spoomonkey

[curious24]

ionsawmill - yes i think the question does come up a lot. honestly i don't get it.

for me if you are going to freak out cause you might touch another guy during a swinging situation then you shouldn't be swinging.. IMO you need to feel comfortable enough with your own sexuality that those triviual things like that don't make a difference. for me it's about making someone else feel good and if that means there is some contact between guys no biggie for me.. b/c i know it doesn't mean that i'm freak'n gay.. it just means that i enjoy making someone else feel really good isn't that what this is all about anyway?

[ionsawmill]

Originally Posted by curious24

i enjoy making someone else feel really good

That's bisexuality in a nutshell.

[ionsawmill]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

I hesitate to answer this question... Mostly because I think the pro-bi-guys can be a little militant about the topic, from other threads I have read.

Militant? I don't know nuthin' 'bout no militant.

Signed:
Lt. Cmdr. uh... I mean "concerned civilian"...

TH of Ionsawmill

PS: Is this about the WMD's (Willful Male Deceptions), because we're totally against those?

[curious24]

Originally Posted by ionsawmill

That's bisexuality in a nutshell.

eh well whatever.. some would say yes others would say no... doesn't really matter to me.

[HotCoupleGnS]

Originally Posted by curious24

ionsawmill - yes i think the question does come up a lot. honestly i don't get it.

for me if you are going to freak out cause you might touch another guy during a swinging situation then you shouldn't be swinging.. IMO you need to feel comfortable enough with your own sexuality that those triviual things like that don't make a difference. for me it's about making someone else feel good and if that means there is some contact between guys no biggie for me.. b/c i know it doesn't mean that i'm freak'n gay.. it just means that i enjoy making someone else feel really good isn't that what this is all about anyway?

Some guys are homophobic, some are not. While swinging is about making others feel good, it is also about what makes YOU feel good. While some people (guys & girls) don't like male/male stuff, some don't mind bumoing into each other in the act & some like male/male action, everyone has different likes & dislikes. That is what is so neat about the lifestyle. No matter what your preference is, there are others out there with them too.

[ionsawmill]

I don't think homophobia is necessarily part of it. I've known plenty of straight guys who knew they were straight and had no interest in same-sex play. Did that mean they were homophobic? I don't think so. They have gay and bi friends and don't seem uncomfortable around them. Homophobia and confident heterosexuality are two completely different things.

I think of homophobes as those who have a fear or hatred of anything gay or bisexual related; for which, a visit from the Fab Five would be grounds for violence or legal action... say a Constitutional amendment. If you're a man and don't want to have sex with men, you're straight. If you don't want to be in the same country with gays, you might be homophobic.

I just don't think homophobe is a word which should be thrown around lightly.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by ionsawmill

PS: Is this about the WMD's (Willful Male Deceptions), because we're totally against those?

No - my thing is that I've read in threads that a guy who is not afraid of a DP must be bisexual... This ascerted by a bi-male...

I don't really agree with that mindset. I am very comfortable with the errant brush or the logistical vascinities neccessary for some group acts to occur. I do not care if my business touches that of another who is trying to "share space". But - I am not bi-curious, bi-interested, bi-casual, bi-nothing...

But I have seen my comfort level be called "bisexuality". Which... Ummm... No.

Spoomonkey

[webbguy]

I really just love to make the lady cum. I have had 3somes where I licked her pussy and ass while her guy was fucking her and I loved seeing her go wild! I also had dp in her pussy and she said it was like having one big cock inside her , but our balls were hitting each other so hard we came too soon! lol She also went really wild when we sucked each others cock. She licked both of our cum off us . We are close friends, would never do this with someone else I did not know. Bye for now

[lovefest04]

We have participated in Vaginal DP and found it incredible. Frankly, I wasn't very focused on the fact that my penis was touching another penis. I was focused on the fact that we were giving it to my wife biiigggg time.

I was more interested in watching her eyes role back, her legs shudder and her pussy squirting than I was in the other man. She on the other hand, loved the idea that the two men were in close contact and the thought of it helped to get her off.

If anyone wants to try this, just email me. I can honestly say if its a fantasy of yours, its worth exploring.

I notice in a lot of the polls and threads that we (swinging community) seem to be trying to justify or at least gain knowledge that what we are doing is ok. ie others do this crazy stuff too.. see we're not so weird. For us, its about having fun, exploring taboos and enjoying our bodies with eachother and whomever we choose. At the end of the day, if it feels good......

Go on, get out there, don't worry so much about the details.

[HotMoCpl]

I've had double blow job before and actually do not consider it "bi sexual" in nature and we both had the goal to get a bj form the same woman. I also would not consider DP and being near or inadvertantly his and mine touching as bi either. If my wife says she wants two or more...she's gettin' it.

We both agree that bisexual means...having "SEX" with either men or women.