Bi women - How do you play?

[couplers]

This is Petra with my first poll. As I've posted, I was one of those women that thought I would never do anything with another woman. But I became attracted to hubby's play partner (who likewise had never done anything lezzie) and we went down that path thinking that it would stop at each of these points.

So women, how far have you gone in your girl play?

And please comment, is being bi only foreplay before you get with a guy, or can sex with a woman be satisfaction by itself?

Thanks....

[couplers]

I had a difficult time going down this path at first. When hubby began playing, I always had a great desire to take him in my mouth after he had sex with another woman even in the days when I wasn't there to watch them and it was hours later. I wanted to see what she had done to him, smell her, and get him back to me. So maybe I did have some girl desires back then. And every step of the way in my sexual relations with Clair were justified in my mind as hetero because hubby was there, from holding her breast in my hands and directing it to his mouth to spreading her lips for him to enter her to licking his cum out of her vagina. But in the end I asked, who was I kidding. Clair and I just like it between us and that was fine.


BTW - Clair and I do get together by ourselves once a week or so.

[SaSsyNsWeEt]

I think women naturally are comfortable being more "touchy-feely" with each other. From a young age we have slumber parties where we do each others hair, nails, make-up, ect. So being close to girls feels natural. When asking the question "how far will you go sexually with another woman?" you should first take into consideration that every woman feels differently about this subject. I had my first experience with another girl when I was about 9 and have been with women ever since (I am happily married to a man). I would say however that I'm not bi but more bi-comfortable, it is NOT necessary for me to be with another woman to have fun. I also find that I gravitate to the more "girly-girls" and those that are VERY bi, but to each their own!

[DiscreetDesires]

I have been bisexual as long as I can remember. I am equally attracted to both men and women.
It really bugs me sometimes that there are so many women in the lifestyle who say they are bisexual, but really are only bi-playful or bi-friendly, and you only find this out when play has already started. It is very disapointing for the real bisexuals out there. Just be honest!

Even though I am VERY bisexual, I am very girly as well. I do not posess any form of butchness, and most bisexuals are the same way.
I believe this is mostly reserved for gay women who distinguish themselves as butch, lip-stick lesbian.. that type of thing.

[femnewb4u2]

Originally Posted by DiscreetDesires

I have been bisexual as long as I can remember. I am equally attracted to both men and women.
It really bugs me sometimes that there are so many women in the lifestyle who say they are bisexual, but really are only bi-playful or bi-friendly, and you only find this out when play has already started. It is very disapointing for the real bisexuals out there. Just be honest!

This has led me to contemplate listing myself as straight. It seems way too confusing, in my experience, to understand what women in swing mean by bi - no matter how straight forward I am in asking. And I am perfectly happy playing straight. In addition - when I bring my true bi side to the encounter I now have to be sexually attracted to and maintain focus on pleasuring 3 people...my husband, the other husband and the other woman instead of 2. While I do revel in pleasuring others...almost an aphrodisiac....it can be mentally exhausting.

Time to get off this post before I get on a soap box

[shy_couple]

For me, I am bi from the waiste up. Dont mind touching, stoking, or toy play with kitty but don't like to meet face to face with her

[dr_pepper]

I have an ex who told me about the first time she got really close to another girl and she thought to herself "this is really nice". She has been bi ever since. My ex tended to be on the butch side of things and really looked for girly-girls. Said that they were hard to find.