Are Most Male Swingers Bi-sexuall?

[SheLovesTheSun]

My boyfriend wouldn't mind having more bi interaction, but in his experiences, the guys were totally straight and not interested in playing with another man.

[carrysmith]

yes in miami/soutbeach/keywest theres alottttttt of gays & 2 our surprize in the last couple of year it seems that everyguy we meet is ither 100% bisex or bi curious, thats basically becoming the normal downhere... and we do agree with u (BamaRide) about the male chastity belt in keywest, many public officals in keywest are openly gay..

[jim41537@sbcglo]

I'm a single male and I have had several experiences with the mmf wher this has ocurred.I am selectively interested if mutual with all 3 but only oral no anal. I think most men are bi and I think the prison system would support that when no females are available the latent bi sexual inhibition diminishes and thus the need to share sex with another be it female or male surfaces ou t of that need to share sex.

[Rackir]

According to some studies, the overwhelming majority of all men (and women) are at least to some degree bisexual. So from that point of view it would follow that most swingers are also bi.

However the portion of those that have ever, or will ever, engage in bisexual conduct is a MUCH smaller number. And of those the majority (it seems) are those who have tried it in the past, but have no intention on ever trying it again, making the active bisexual population even smaller still.

So even if the swinger community has a higher than average rate of male bisexuality (which wouldn't surprise me), I think it's probably far short of "most", and casual non-scientific observation seems to back that view (though I suspect there are allot out there who simply wont admit it for fear of ostracism). Certainly not enough by my count anyways! Just think, if everyone were bi, than everyone’s chances of hooking up on any given night would automatically double !

[ConnieJim]

Originally Posted by carrysmith

HELLO MY NAME IS (CARRY SMITH) IVE BEEN GOING WITH MY HUSBAND TO A GREAT/UPSCALE SWINGERS CLUB AND WE'VE DONE 8 FULL SWAPS WITH OTHER COUPLES, BUT TO OUR SURPRIZE DURING THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT, THE MALE IN THE OTHER COUPLE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH MY HUSBAND,( MY HUBBY IS 100% STRIGHT),& THERE WIVES ARE TOTTALY COOL WITH HER HUSBAND BEING BISEXUAL & ENCOURAGE HIM TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN, WE;VE NOTICED THAT THIS IS VERY COMMON AMONG THE SWINGING COUPLES IN SOUTHFLORIDA, MY QOUESTION IS, IS THIS NORMAL AMONG SWINING COUPLES EVERYWERE?...AND I HAVE ANOTHER QOUESTION AS WELL, WE;VE NOTICED THAT AMONG SWINGERS HERE IN SOUTHFLROIDA ITS NEVER, ENOUGH SEX!, AT THE CLUB THEY WILL HAVE SEX WITH 5,8,10 POEPLE/COUPLES ITS 5AM AND THERE STILL SEARCHING FOR MORE SEX,IVE COME TO THE CONCLUSTION THAT IS ITHER MOTIVIATED BY SEXDRUGS OR MENTALL ISSUES OR BOTH, IS THE NORMAL WITH SWINGERS EVERYWERE TOO?? WHAT DO U GUYS THINK ON BOTH THESE ISSUES? I WOULD REALLY APPRICIATE YOUR FEEDBACK & EXPERINCE ON THIS...THANK U VERY MCUH( CARRY)

While a large precentage of the females tend to be Bi.Here in middle TN the precent of bi men is rather low with couples in the lifestyle.

[694fun]

I think it depend on the wife, we enjoy seeing them with other women, we had one couple, that the wife was really turn on by male male contact, it made her so hot she could not stand it. So I did it, it was OK, but not what the the same as being with women

[carrysmith]

at the club we go to it is full of bi men,id say a good 80% of the men in there are bi or gay & we even have men that specifically come in looking for men, the couples/orgy room should be renamed the cockfest room..lol.....we & other memebers have noticed that the singel/bisexual men have scared off alot of good looing swinging couples.

[bitNtim]

We would agree with the 80/20 split up here in Ontario. At house parties we have found the male/male contact is rare with the exception of some touching etc. Lately we have found male bisexuality more common in our couple to couple encounters.

[wild stud]

Why is it such a big thing for a male to enjoy another male in a MMF threesome.If a female does in a MFF threesome not a big deal.I was straight 8 when we started to swing and all the males we enjoyed in a mmf threesome was also then we hooked up with a bi male. Well this made a mmf threesome a hole lot more fun for all of us. I did not have to set and play with my cock while another male fuck the wife we all got involved and touching that other male was not a big thing or him touching me. The wife also enjoyed So I guess you can say I turned bi.
But there have been a number of polls on MMF threesomes and 90 percent of the females say in a MMF threesome they prefer the males to be bi,bicoures. or at least bi friendly so what does that tell us guys. Just my two cents.

[TheLorax]

Originally Posted by wild stud

Why is it such a big thing for a male to enjoy another male in a MMF threesome..

Because, for whatever reasons, many men are not only not interested in male-male contact of any sort, many are uncomfortable with it to a degree varying from a little to "touch me and I'll punch your lights out." Why do something that turns you off?

I don't see any real issue with it. While some folks may expand their horizons while swinging, swinging isn't all about pushing those horizons either.

I am, of course, a completely bisexual male who respects guys who aren't. If some guy wants to play, or to experiment, I'm fine with it. If they don't, I don't have to play with them any more than I would with a woman who wasn't interested in me.

[carrysmith]

1 thing that doesnt make any sense to us is, yes we have realized theres alot of bisexuall men in swinging( at least in our city), but the club we go to, men on men contact sexually isnt allowed, they will actualy get kicked out 4 that...they have security staff looking for men/men contact..i was woundering is it like this in most swingers clubs or is men/men contact alllowed ??...

[slevin]

Male/Male contact isn't banished at the club we go to, but it also doesn't happen. We've never seen it at all anytime we've been there. The club owners have mentioned that they have no problem with it at all and would like to be able to let gay male couples in to party. The trouble there is they know that two straight guys would come in as "a couple" and it would be a pain to manage. They only let single guys in on particular days and keep most nights as "couples only".

[PB&J]

There's now a Toronto club that advertises Sundays as "Bi nights", to cater to the bi of either gender crowd.

[Rackir]

Originally Posted by PB&J

There's now a Toronto club that advertises Sundays as "Bi nights", to cater to the bi of either gender crowd.

Our club has a once a month "Omnisexual" night.

[realcplub2]

Originally Posted by carrysmith

1 thing that doesnt make any sense to us is, yes we have realized theres alot of bisexuall men in swinging( at least in our city), but the club we go to, men on men contact sexually isnt allowed, they will actualy get kicked out 4 that...they have security staff looking for men/men contact..i was woundering is it like this in most swingers clubs or is men/men contact alllowed ??...

Its the area you are in, Being as close to Miami as you are, its a fairly easy thing to assume thats the reason. The clubs in central florida arent that way at all..

There was a club in the indian river area, not sure if they are still there, and another in melborne.

And no, its not often allowed, in any capacity.. But what goes on in private rooms is supposed to be no ones business.