Male Bi-curious: Permissible in the Lifestyle?

[bicuriofun]

So, I've been happily married for 24 yrs.Never had sex outside of marriage. I'm looking into the Lifestyle. My wife will perform anal, enjoys dildo's, and has even inserted the dildo into me (at my request).

In the swingers Lifestyle, is it permissale to be bi-sexual, as a male, or bi-curious...whatever you want to call it??

I would not mind having a penis in my mouth, or allowing one in my backdoor. I just don't know, in a group session, if this goes over well. Have you noticed that there is this activity occurring at events?

(Beleive me, I enjoy straight sex too, just looking for more...)

Any replies are well appreciated!

[ncmd_couple]

Bicuriofun,

As your read through this particular forum, you will find that the reaction to Bi, or Bi curious men is a mixed bag. Some are strongly against it. Some are for it. Some are neutral. As a member of Swing Lifestyle I am seeing more men who are listed as Bi or Bi curious. But dive into this forum as there is a lot of discussion on this topic. There are also more threads in the archives.

S

[LikeMinds321]

Here's a recent thread I found on this subject:

Where Are All The Bi Men?

We only attend off-premise clubs. At on-premise clubs I think it would be shunned by most club members. My feeling is that bi-male sex is still something most swingers don't want to witness. I think male bi-sex is kept behind closed doors; do it at your home or a hotel, or on some occasions at private parties where guests know that bi-male sex may occur.

Keep in mind there are lots of swingers who play at homes or hotel rooms. I think there is more bi-male sex going on than swingers may think. You should be able to find a way to enjoy your bi side.

LM

[VegasLee]

There has been more and more bi-males in the lifestyle for years then most people know of or are willing to admit to.

For many years there was bi-males having sex at many of the major COUPLES ONLY CONVENTIONS put on across the country.

Yes, many look down on it and will speak bad of it but bottom line is that it is going on.

When bi man ask us about it at our club we just advise them to take it to private rooms, always be upfront with those they want to play with. Surprises like that can cause major problems. Be honest and up front and you will be surprised how much action you will get. I see it at many clubs and all the conventions.

Have fun and don't be to concerned about what a few think. As long as you respect the choices of others then you will not have a problem.