Im so horny for a Female...

[Immortal_Vixen]

Im bi and married to a wonderful guy, but we need someone to help us spice up the bedroom...I just have no luck looking for a bi chick who is willing to do threesomes with us. Any ideas how I can find one? I wanna fuck some pussy so bad, and I know he wants to join in on that...I just wanna make him a happy guy lol

[fun4Ds]

Immortal_Vixen, where are you looking ? I have looked on swinglifestyle and cant find your profile you have linked under your avatar here.

Honestly, give us an example of what you want from this female. How much time or resorces do you have to offer.

Are you hoping for a reply from a woman here ?

[Immortal_Vixen]

Well, this will be our 2nd 3some if we ever get it....First one wasnt that great, all I want really is a girl who knows how to please my husband and I, in return we will please her. Seeing how im not an expert at this, I dont really know all that you do in a threesome really so an experiance girl would be great. I dont know if there will be ne one on here in our area who would be interested, but I would really like to get in touch with one.

[fun4Ds]

Ok, first I would like to talk about a few important issues at this point.

This is a discussion board about the swinging lifestyle. Who we are and how we feel. Where we have been and how we got here. At first, the way you entered here as a new member, would only get your thoughts sent to the personals. I think you deserve more than that, but you have to work with us as well. At this point, your repeating what you want. There is more to it than that....

Take some time and read over the many posts here in the various forums. Especially the getting started threads. The people who have taken time to post their ideas were not in vain. I feel you are missing so much. Read allot..... Then, take time to consider where your questions belong. Julie, and we as mods, can help with how to use the board anytime.

Your wanting the same thing many do. We on the other hand, can tell you its about understanding more than what you know now, first as a couple and then consider the woman you may find some day. We cant hook you up, but we can help by showing you the road to your own path. Single women or even couples are not going to just come running because of what you want. It doesn't work like that.

I mean think about it, if you were a woman in the lifestyle would you respond to yourself with as little information as you have offered here ? Like I say look at the getting started, use a few of the personals like we do. www.swinglifestyle and swingerzonecentral are a few we use if you follow this link or use the menu bar above. At this point, I wouldn't suggest going to a club with as little as we can see you understand about how things work.

Everything starts with you as a couple and how you present yourselves.

[Immortal_Vixen]

Thank you

[JustAskJulie]

Single females for threesomes are called "unicorns" for a reason. They are rare indeed and for some mythical creatures. Everyone wants one. If your hubby can accept just being there to watch you will find it much easier to quench your own thirst by finding another Bi fem who is half of a couple. It's pretty common to find couples who are pretty much just looking for a female for their female and the guys watch (or maybe join in with their own wives/girlfriends).

If you are insistent on having a threesome you will have to be very very patient as you wait for that perfect female. Most couples who do find them do so simply by luck, they encounter them in their vanilla life or at a vanilla club or strip club and the female (you) turns on her charm and invites the single female in for fun. Keep in mind that you have to be willing to give her as much as you are asking for in return, which is sounds like you want to do. You have to give the single female reason to want to go home with you, and to do that it's going to be all about letting her know what a good time YOU can give HER. If she thinks it's all about you, she's not likely to want to go home with you, what would she get out of it, afterall?

End advice is just be patient. So many couples are looking for the same thing you are, just take some comfort in knowing that you aren't alone.

[Immortal_Vixen]

yup I totally get what you mean, and me and my husband are willing to show her a good time, after all we want her to enjoy it as well... I just made a profile on swinglifestyle.com as well, so there are pictures of us and more information on there.

[LikeMinds321]

Hi Immortal Vixen! Welcome to the Board.

Your age (both 18 yo) and the age of who you will play with - 18-22 yo - will make it even harder to find a single bifem.

Most swingers are considerably older, 30-50 yo. If you take time to do a search on Swing Lifestyle by age, you'll discover this.

You are also in a unique position of being about 5 months pregnant. Some swingers love playing with a pregnant woman, others do not. Add to that you like rough sex and very kinky things...that narrows your opportunities even more.

But it's good you know exactly what you want and that you say it in your profile. I hope you find what you are seeking.

Please hang around and read the many great threads on the Swingers Board.

LM

[Immortal_Vixen]

Thank you for your reply, Im enjoying this website so far...Ppl here are great.