Watching hubby give blow job as you get your pussy eaten.

[mikeandjenn2001]

Jen would find it hot as she has expressed an interest in seeing it happen many times. I am straight though and not even willing to experiment.

[metroman]

Originally Posted by themariner

How many of you ladies would enjoy watching you man give another man a blow job as his ladie is eaten you pussy.

I don't seek other men but I'm not cock phobic either. The ladies have done it for so long that nothing is thought of it now. If we are with another couple ( we are soft swap, no intercourse but touching Ok) - I am fine with physical interaction with the female and male. Personally, I don't allow penetration either way, however, to explore bodies in this setting is fine with us - 2 on one or 3 on one - it's all good in our book. Had some good times and hope to have some more! Socially acceptable? Not likely. Acceptable for us - yes. Since this is a nonjudgemental site/group - I feel very comfortable to say a true feeling.

[dulciprajna]

Okay, so some history on me. When I was in High School, close to 20 years ago, I experimented on both sides of the fence, including trying oral w/another guy. In the end of this experimentation I determined that I was straight as I am not interested in having/receiving anal sex with another guy (and its not my thing with women either), and oral isn't as pleasurable for me as is vaginal sex.

Okay, again, close to 20 years later and my wife and I are somewhat in the lifestyle of swinging (which we ran into from the BDSM lifestyle, but that's another topic altogether). At some point in the whole swinging conversations Mrs. Dulci and I have, she suggested that she would like to see me be with another man. This really just put me in a total sweat, and at first I respectfully declined. Mrs Dulci was already aware of my "experimenting" in high school well before ever asking this.

But I had quite a bit of time to think about it. Really, it turns me on that it is a turn on for her (we are very connected in feelings and emotions), and secondly, okay, I can handle having a cock in my mouth. I am NOT interested (again) in anal, giving or receiving. I have really explored the feelings of anal penetration with my wife (buttplugs, dildos, and the like), and though it is somewhat pleasurable, I really really REALLY have to be in the right mood for it, and this is few and far between.

However, there is far more of a social stigma attached to homosexual sex in society in general (including in the swinger sub culture) than there is for lesbian sex. To bring this up in the lifestyle is very very scary because it can definitely break a hookup deal for the evening that was a sure thing beforehand.

I personally have yet to find the guy to help fill this fantasy for my wife and I. I am kinda excited about it to be honest, that I can explore this again w/the consent of my wife, and I have gotten over my social stigmas about it. If it is going to happen it will happen. If its not, it won't, and so be it. You can tell when playing w/a couple how, um, bi the male is fairly quickly. Gaydar works, imho, 90% of the time for me, and in swinging situations, I was correct both times my gaydar went off. Granted, the male was bi (not gay), but the signals were there. Unfortunately I am no where near attracted to the men in either of those situations that I would consider doing that w/them.

In one couple, they came straight out and asked because Mrs Dulci and I were talking about playing w/a buttplug we have become fond of, and dropping hints like that is fairly benign in any swinger situation. The other couple I had my suspicions and once we found them on Swing Lifestyle, this suspicion was confirmed.

Really, the main couples we don't wanna bring up the conversation with are couples whose man is a homophobe. I am not name calling here, but there are men out there that don't wanna see it, hear about it, definitely don't wanna participate in it, and do not want to be suggested to participate in it either. Its like if you ask them their orientation, they are almost offended you'd ask. I will not pass judgement on them, but I find it strange to react so harshly towards the lifestyle considering that the whole swinging lifestyle is just as taboo within the culture.

I am comfortable w/my sexuality, and I realize that as I have matured, my sexuality has also. If your real question is, "could I be bi now? I didn't think I was..." then my answer is quite frankly, yes. Things change as they mature, and our sexuality is no different.


On a side note: bi people have more options at parties. One plus to the whole bi thing which I somewhat envy...

[DAVLAC1056]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

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i must say i have had a few exps and dont knock it till you try it and if its not for you dont judge suck it fuck cum and do itagain wow i am so nasty i love my self in chicago bored peace love rock and roll

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by dulciprajna

Really, the main couples we don't wanna bring up the conversation with are couples whose man is a homophobe. I am not name calling here, but there are men out there that don't wanna see it, hear about it, definitely don't wanna participate in it, and do not want to be suggested to participate in it either. Its like if you ask them their orientation, they are almost offended you'd ask. I will not pass judgement on them, but I find it strange to react so harshly towards the lifestyle considering that the whole swinging lifestyle is just as taboo within the culture.

As one of these men let me explain.

Its not that we are really homophobes, we do not fear homosexuality, I'd guess most of us dont' care what other people do to each other. What it is, is a MAJOR turn off, it just disgusts us on a visceral level.

Honestly speaking, I fine bestiality LESS disgusting then seeing two men together, its just how I'm wired.

This is why we are so against seeing it in a club or even talking about it. It will completely put the breaks on any sexual possibilities, much like telling me you like to be peed on.

If you want to do thats fine, I really have no problem with it intellectually, I know my brain has a bias, but in casual sex that bias is all that matters.

[slevin]

Yeah I am with Chicup (on everything except the beastiality thing); I don't care what anyone wants to do, but I find it a turn off to see or consider. I don't care if someone wants to ask me if I am open to that. I will tell them I'm not, and whether we play with them or not will depend on their reaction to me declining. Hopefully this is something that is brought up very early on in the process. We had a couple ask if I was open to that wihle we were still talking online. I said no and they never made mention of it again; we met them and played a bunch of times and I never felt like he was even looking at me lustfully. No big deal really. If it was sprung on me in a play situation then it might be a different story as to whether we'd play or not. Leaving it that late is quite dishonest IMO.

In any event; not everyone who is turned off by it is homophobic

[Miss Sunshine]

so you have no physical contact with another man? like guiding his cock in your lady or DP, or be in a situation that is just sex, everyon hot and sweaty in a big ball of sex everyone touching each other? Or is it just swapping for you?

[az40scpl]

The Mrs. has a fair amount of baggage from growing up, I have managed to get her to explore alot, hence our being in the lifestyle (on the fringe, really)
She/we enjoy MFM's, and she has on several past occasions, made comments about seeing me sucking cock (she is AGGRESIVELY str8...whats up with that?!)
Enough of the background...she has a new fantasy of us 69ing while she is getting fucked, if and when this happens, I will make the attempt to go down on the guy for her, will I like or enjoy it, will she? Dont know, cant really say, but we will find out if and when it happens.

[slevin]

Originally Posted by Miss Sunshine

so you have no physical contact with another man? like guiding his cock in your lady or DP, or be in a situation that is just sex, everyon hot and sweaty in a big ball of sex everyone touching each other? Or is it just swapping for you?

Do I ever guide the guys cock into her? No, I don't touch the other guys cock. I'm not squeamish about being in close proximity and incidental contact etc. Intentional contact would make me uncomfortable.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by slevin

Do I ever guide the guys cock into her? No, I don't touch the other guys cock. I'm not squeamish about being in close proximity and incidental contact etc. Intentional contact would make me uncomfortable.

Exactly, incidental contact is one thing but I'm not handling his penis.

[Miss Behaven]

Originally Posted by slevin

Do I ever guide the guys cock into her? No, I don't touch the other guys cock. I'm not squeamish about being in close proximity and incidental contact etc. Intentional contact would make me uncomfortable.

Wouldn't bother us at all. I've gotten over the psych barrier, it's just skin.

[AskMeOk]

Originally Posted by themariner

How many of you ladies would enjoy watching you man give another man a blow job as his ladie is eaten you pussy.

When we first started swinging, we encountered this question....

We answered a profile and met a couple. He was straight and she was bi..... well, until after we met and headed to their house, then the tables turned.

He shared his bi-ness with me and she chimed in that she thought it was hot.... that what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

We were both raised absolutely positively straight.... though my wife has found that she really loves women.... I've just never found ANY attraction for men.... not homophobic in sexual situations, just not turned on by guys...

But.... in order to wrap my head around this... I asked my wife if she found it erotic for me to do another guy for her.... she was pretty much repulsed.

So.... as with 99% of things in swinging... there are divergent attitudes....there are those women that get off watching husband give head..... there are those that are repulsed by the very thought. There will be some middle ground.

Bottom line? Talk... no, COMMUNICATE with your SO....YES! If he isn't terrifically repulsed, he may accommodate your passion......

[Playman64]

I have allowed a guy to suck me, it as very very strange. I was with the couple in a motelroom. I wanted to do her in the ass, she said ok. Only after you let my hubby suck you. Another time I jacked a guy off. At parties and in 3some's I have let th hubby guide me into wife. One guy wouldn't do his wife anally butt he let me do her anally and he lubed me & her, then he held her cheeks open for me. So some limited touching doesn't bother me.

[YZF]

I discovered that I liked performing oral on another male quite by accident. I did not mind incidental contact or guiding another guy into my wife's fun parts or eating my wife's or a playmate's pussy while she was being fucked. In fact I had had cocks slip out of the ladies and bump me on the chin in such situations.

Mrs. YZF was getting tagged by a playmate doggie style while I was on my back beneath her eating her out.. The guy's wife was between my legs blowing me. His cock slipped out of the Mrs. and went right into my mouth. He went a couple of strokes before he noticed and it took me that long to get over the shock. Later when he slipped out and bumped my chin I opened my mouth and took it.

[FlaPlaya561]

Awesome Topic.....