My wife is Bi, who would have known!

[JustAskJulie]

YAY!!! This is how it's supposed to happen... it just does.. at its own pace and in its own time.

[WildFire]

Thanks Julie,

Also, next time you are heading up to Nashville let us know, would like to say hi.
Your site has been a huge help to us.

Mr and Mrs. Wildfire

[DR. HOUSE]

Well so much for being new up here. It was only my first day up here and the attacks began already.... not the kind of place we want to subscribe too.

Sorry my tactics seemed soooo out of line to all of you.

My wife loved the experience..... and she and not any of you is what that matters.

Ya know folks people are different....

Couples are different....

What might piss off one wife might excite another.

Maybe the next time someone new comes up to your site ya might want to keep that in mind.

Good luck the unsubscribed doctor.

[rpu3]

Dude, lighten up. Nobody attacked you.

It's a discussion forum. You are allowed to state your opinion or situation or experience and did so. EVERYONE else is allowed to do the same, even if they don't agree with you. Nothing happened in this thread that should make you take your marbles and go home in a huff.

Stick around, relax, and figure out a way to accept the free expression of opinion around here.

/threadjack

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by DR. HOUSE

Well so much for being new up here. It was only my first day up here and the attacks began already.... not the kind of place we want to subscribe too.

Sorry my tactics seemed soooo out of line to all of you.

My wife loved the experience..... and she and not any of you is what that matters.

Ya know folks people are different....

Couples are different....

What might piss off one wife might excite another.

Maybe the next time someone new comes up to your site ya might want to keep that in mind.

Good luck the unsubscribed doctor.

What attacks!? Just because a couple of people said that they wouldn't have been too happy if things had gone that route for them (being videotaped without warning)!? That is not an attack.

Your comment to PB&J (quoted below) was more of an attack than anything anyone said to you.

Originally Posted by DR. HOUSE

well pband J.......


Sounds to me like the crust is getting old on the bread.

Dr. House

This is an online forum (and one of the nicer ones at that), if you can't take people disagreeing with you then you probably shouldn't post on the internet (anywhere) and you are better off to unsubscribe.

[it'sso]

Once a gal gets a taste of a sweet pussy, how could they resist another lick?
Being a guy and experienced experienced in cunnilingus, I say, who can blame them?

[almostnewbies]

Only speaking for my own experiences...

I've always taken notice of hot sexy women and been curious what it would be like to be with a woman. When R and I first started relating our fantasies to each other, we both had the FMF and FMFM fantasies. Neither of us had experienced any sort of swinging, other than in our minds lol. Neither of us had been with partners who would have been open minded enough to explore those fantasies either, until now.

When we went to an on premises club and were in the sexually freeing and charged environment things just kind of happened naturally. Dancing on the dance floor led to kissing and fondling on the dance floor which led to going to the bedroom area and more exploring. It was awesome. R could barely contain himself, he was excited to be watching me with the other women.

Our profiles state that I am bi-curious, but I think that's mostly because I'm not very bi experienced. The few times we've full swapped have been with couples where the women were bi-curious and were sensual and fun times. Lucky me huh?! I'm sure I'll be changing my profile soon enough lol.

T

[almostnewbies]

Originally Posted by it'sso

Once a gal gets a taste of a sweet pussy, how could they resist another lick?
Being a guy and experienced experienced in cunnilingus, I say, who can blame them?

Personally I think it's more than that, although you are correct too. Women's bodies are softer, skin is softer, tits and nipples are typically bigger, boy I'm gettin myself worked up thinking about this!

T

[DR. HOUSE]

I have unsubscribed and for some reason you continue to send me e-mails on this issue.

As for the attack or not attack, well we came up here hopeing to find some new friends.

So I told a cute little story of my wifes first bi experience. My wife enjoyed the experience, she was happy that her hubby set the whole thing up. She felt that she probably never would have tried it otherwise and is happy that she got the chance to experience other women.

I go to debate lines when I feel like debateing issues..... we came here for a different reason.... to meet nice people....

I was not impressed....

Now please discontinue the emails to me.

[rpu3]

The Board isn't sending you e-mails on purpose. It sends e-mails because you've subscribed thread alerts or newsletters.

Two ways to stop the e-mails:

1. User CP (top menu) - scroll down you will see a list of your "subscribed threads" and the option to "unsubscribe" to any of them.

2 (TM Chicup): User CP

Edit email/password.

Change the email to something invalid.

Never see another email from SB again.


As to your reasons to leave, we've already been there and done that and only thing left to say is good luck to you on finding a place where no one ever has a different point of view than you.

[Nitati]

Women are so beautiful. I've always enjoyed looking at all different types of women. That said, with all my gawking I have never been tempted to so much as kiss another female (not even in my drunken college days) because I love men so much, and didn't get sexually aroused by the ladies. Going to the on-premise club we like didn't make me yearn for a woman's touch either (I just felt like all the girl-girl stuff was "fake" or not fake, but more for the sake of turning the men on, if that makes sense... which only served to remind me why I don't enjoy fmf or lesbian porn). I was set & settled in this knowledge too, until I actually saw a whole group of only women going at it like 6 months ago. Whoa. My mind has not been the same since. But I've still never so much as kissed a woman, lol! I guess it's a good thing my hubby doesn't have the FMF fantasy lol. Even if I do get to finally experience bi-play, I don't know that I would ever be considered fully bi. And rather than FMF I'd rather do FFM where the hubby and I completely devour & ravish the other girl. But then hey, what do I know? I've never actually tried it... yet....

[IvoryTowers]

I do wonder about the number of profiles that say the woman is bi or bi-curious. It seems out of all proportion to any other studies about female bisexuality. I guess there are a couple of options.

1. Women in swinging are bowing to pressure to present themselves and act as bi (everyone else says she's bi, so if we want to meet anyone, I'd better say that as well).

2. Women are naturally more fluid in their sexuality than labels suggest and will be aroused by a situation rather than have a set range of interests (as many of the posts here have suggested).

3. Women who get into and enjoy swinging are a self-selected population that overlaps with the bisexual population.

I honestly think it's a mix of all of these. I do know that almost every couple we've been with has advertised the woman as bi or bi curious and none has tried to do more than kiss me (and most have ignored me completely). Now maybe I'm just not attractive to them, but their men seem interested!

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by DR. HOUSE

I have unsubscribed and for some reason you continue to send me e-mails on this issue.


Now please discontinue the emails to me.

Dr. House. To unsubscribe to the thread Go to the top of the page and either:

Click Thread Tools/ Unsubscribe to thread.
Click User CP (on main menu at top), scroll down to "subscribed threads" and unsubscribe from there.

I can't do it for you, the only thing I can do for you is ensure that you aren't subscribed to future threads you may choose to participate in.

Oh and also.... in general on forums like this if you are subscribed to threads you are only notified of new posts in the thread once - until you go back to the thread again. If you don't go back you don't get notified again. See how that works?

[WildFire]

Update... Wildfire had a great night last Sat. with some swing friends at our local club. She had some nice Bi-play with the other female. She even enjoyed her first woman to woman orgasm ever while us men lavished her upper body!!!... It was a perfect night all around for everyone. Hopefully more to cum soon... She considers herself to be fully bi-compatible... it certainly adds another dimension to our nights out. What a nice surprise for me too!

Mr. Wildfire

[bharadwajk]

Hello Mr. Wildfire

I am Bharat Male 40 years from Nashville,TN. Pl join with your wife for lunch some day at Nashville downtown. Looking forward to meet you.