Bi-curious?

NymphoWind · 01-01-2009, 01:18 AM

Well the thing is my partner has this huge fantasy to watch me suck off another guy, or have another guy suck me off, while she either watches or in involved, anyway, I'm personally not attracted to males in any way, and personally if having the right guy found to join us in general, i wouldn't mind sticking me dick in him, or having him suck me off, and as far as it goes, although I find no attraction to guys, after hearing how much of a turn on it would be to my partner, I have become curious to give sucking another guys cock, but now I'm wondering how I should go about this....

I think the person I have join us has to be someone that I actually can personally feel is attractive in my mind, other then that i know things have to work up to this, i guess no one will say this is wrong, but what do you think?

SecretAsianMan · 01-01-2009, 07:51 AM

If it's something you're comfortable with - give it a try. I wouldn't judge you by what you do sexually... to each their own, I always say.

lepton34 · 01-01-2009, 08:22 AM

Try it. I am not attratced to men either but love sucking a hard cock.

IvoryTowers · 01-01-2009, 08:53 AM

Certainly you should be attracted to the man, although in some ways your wife's attraction is as important. I think that the experience will be as richly erotic as both your desires allow it to be.

And absolutely go for it. Sexuality is not "straight" or "gay" and if you know that going down on a guy will make your wife explode and will be a new and taboo for you (new and taboo are almost always the hottest things), the whole experience will probably be fantastic even if the actual sucking doesn't do anything for you.

realcplub2 · 01-01-2009, 03:02 PM

Ok, I know this is going to draw flack, but..

Its like this, if you are doing it, for your wife, or yourself, or personal pleasure, or whatever.. Its like this.. its all still your choice..

How you see yourself AFTER, is the key.. Lets face two overpowering facts.. Other than the people in the room, No one will know.. Second, Getting past your own mental hang ups is the biggest hurdle to leap.. Finding a willing participant, honestly is easier than you are telling yourself.

If you are taking the leap, be up front and honest that it MIGHT happen.. no surprises.. Any more than going out with new people only to find they have a large bag of restraints, and you and your wife in mind for future uses..

Remember, if it wasnt for TRYING the apple... Adam and Eve would still be plaing volleyball in the Garden

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-09-2009, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by realcplub2

Ok, I know this is going to draw flack, but..

Its like this, if you are doing it, for your wife, or yourself, or personal pleasure, or whatever.. Its like this.. its all still your choice..

How you see yourself AFTER, is the key.. Lets face two overpowering facts.. Other than the people in the room, No one will know.. Second, Getting past your own mental hang ups is the biggest hurdle to leap.. Finding a willing participant, honestly is easier than you are telling yourself.

If you are taking the leap, be up front and honest that it MIGHT happen.. no surprises.. Any more than going out with new people only to find they have a large bag of restraints, and you and your wife in mind for future uses..

Remember, if it wasnt for TRYING the apple... Adam and Eve would still be plaing volleyball in the Garden

Great post & points.

This is a fantasy of mine as well, but so far he hasn't gotten to the point where he's comfortable with it... and I'm not one to press the issue. If / when he gets there, he'll get there.

When he does, I would want him to be doing it not just for me, but because it was something he wanted to try, even just for curiousity's sake. And, I agree the guy should be someone that we could both deem attractive.

corynlaine · 03-12-2009, 03:23 PM

HI,

This is something we definitely want to try, as is typical I guess, I favor 2 girls and she favors 2 boys but we're both definitely interested in both options. That is why we are looking for a couple. The thing is and maybe it's my hang up
I am most decidedly NOT interested in a man who will "let" me suck him. Too much like a bdsm kind of feel to it - even if it's in my head. But it seems, at least the limited time we've been reading, that at most men are bi-curious which is to say that they will "let me"

On the other hand, for now anyway, our limits preclude full mm or f/m. Oh what to do?

SizzleinNC · 03-18-2009, 05:29 PM

I have often said to my wife how I would love to switch sides with her and feel what she is feeling making love to a man or a woman.

I find that I am getting bi curious and I would not mind a guy sucking me off, and would love to have the nerve to suck him off.

My wife loves it so there has to be something there to like.

As far as looks go, who cares, I am not looking to kiss him, just want to try bi oral.

rickmccool · 03-18-2009, 08:48 PM

My only advice is don't die curious.

eraserxx7 · 03-19-2009, 03:16 AM

I was very curious about sucking another guys cock, but did not want to be thought of as bi.

After watching other guys sucking cock at an adult book arcade theatre. I got so turned on, I decided to try one. So I did suck a guys cock and I enjoyed it. Noe it dpends on on how cleanthe guy is, the size of his cock. If your bi-curious, do it. You will be glad you did

**fun4Ds** · 03-19-2009, 07:04 AM

I'm sold on good pussy.

Always have been, always will be.....

YZF · 03-19-2009, 04:01 PM

One of the biggest turnons for Mrs. YZF and me is when we share a cock. If there is any swallowing ti be dine, I do it.

GoNatural · 03-19-2009, 07:51 PM

I have always been very open-minded. After starting my sex life, I mostly had sex with women, but explored a little with guys. I still considered myself straight at that time. Even when I started swinging I only wanted to be with straight couples and be able to fuck a MILF. I was in my lower 20's then.

After having a little swinging experience without male 2 male contact, and more one on one's with single women, I did try one on one with a guy. It was very pleasureable. I went beyond oral too. After that I was curious about bi married couples. So, during the following years I met with about 3 different M/F couples where the male was bi. It was really fun. During that time I started to realize that I was, or admit to myself, that I was bisexual. Basically, I can enjoy the physical sensations, and the mental buildup before sex, with either gender. To me, bisexual means sex with either male or female, and does not necessarily include romantic feelings. To this day I have not enjoyed kissing a guy, though I've given it a chance. I only like kissing and face to face romance with a woman. Though, a group kiss was fun because it was "adventurous" to me.

I think that curious guys should give it a try. Also, I think that curious, or bi guys that have supportive female partners that are interested in male bisexuality are SO DAM LUCKY !

I'm one of those guys that really enjoys anal stimulation. I was also very curious about what a woman felt during penetration, so that is what pushed me over the edge to explore. I had vagina envy. Only now do I enjoy oral with a guy. It used to turn me off. I just wanted my ass played with.

I still think one of the most erotic things is one woman pleasuring another. I became envious of bi females. That actually spurned me on to explore bi sex myself. Why whould women be the only ones to have fun breaking an adventurous taboo?

Currently, I'm more physically attracted to women, but I do feel physically attracted to guys once in a while.

txbigboy73 · 10-25-2009, 09:12 AM

I have been tossing the idea around for a long time to be with another man also.Have never found any that i am really attracted to yet.but i think i should say i know if it does come up i don't think i will turn it down.i just want to know how it feels and to see if i like it.

gsu22 · 12-19-2009, 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by txbigboy73

I have been tossing the idea around for a long time to be with another man also.Have never found any that i am really attracted to yet.but i think i should say i know if it does come up i don't think i will turn it down.i just want to know how it feels and to see if i like it.

I remember the first time I sucked cock....I had tossed around the idea for so long and was nervous but soooo curious about it....that was the most I had been turned on in my life...just the thought of doing something so "wrong" and when it entered my mouth I was like holy S*it lol this is awesome

....

At first I wasn't attracted to men at all, but now if I play I do prefer masculine, well built guys to suck.

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01-01-2009, 01:18 AM	#1 (permalink)
NymphoWind Make me purr... Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 73 Location: Vancouver Status: Couple	Bi-curious? Well the thing is my partner has this huge fantasy to watch me suck off another guy, or have another guy suck me off, while she either watches or in involved, anyway, I'm personally not attracted to males in any way, and personally if having the right guy found to join us in general, i wouldn't mind sticking me dick in him, or having him suck me off, and as far as it goes, although I find no attraction to guys, after hearing how much of a turn on it would be to my partner, I have become curious to give sucking another guys cock, but now I'm wondering how I should go about this.... I think the person I have join us has to be someone that I actually can personally feel is attractive in my mind, other then that i know things have to work up to this, i guess no one will say this is wrong, but what do you think?
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01-01-2009, 07:51 AM	#2 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Bi-curious? If it's something you're comfortable with - give it a try. I wouldn't judge you by what you do sexually... to each their own, I always say.
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01-01-2009, 08:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
lepton34 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Portsmouth, UK	Re: Bi-curious? Try it. I am not attratced to men either but love sucking a hard cock.

01-01-2009, 08:53 AM	#4 (permalink)
IvoryTowers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 303 Location: Philadelphia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ivorytowers	Re: Bi-curious? Certainly you should be attracted to the man, although in some ways your wife's attraction is as important. I think that the experience will be as richly erotic as both your desires allow it to be. And absolutely go for it. Sexuality is not "straight" or "gay" and if you know that going down on a guy will make your wife explode and will be a new and taboo for you (new and taboo are almost always the hottest things), the whole experience will probably be fantastic even if the actual sucking doesn't do anything for you.
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01-01-2009, 03:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
realcplub2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 806 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:putnamcocpl	Re: Bi-curious? Ok, I know this is going to draw flack, but.. Its like this, if you are doing it, for your wife, or yourself, or personal pleasure, or whatever.. Its like this.. its all still your choice.. How you see yourself AFTER, is the key.. Lets face two overpowering facts.. Other than the people in the room, No one will know.. Second, Getting past your own mental hang ups is the biggest hurdle to leap.. Finding a willing participant, honestly is easier than you are telling yourself. If you are taking the leap, be up front and honest that it MIGHT happen.. no surprises.. Any more than going out with new people only to find they have a large bag of restraints, and you and your wife in mind for future uses.. Remember, if it wasnt for TRYING the apple... Adam and Eve would still be plaing volleyball in the Garden
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03-12-2009, 03:23 PM	#7 (permalink)
corynlaine Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 53 Location: Edge of Reason Status: Couple	Re: Bi-curious? HI, This is something we definitely want to try, as is typical I guess, I favor 2 girls and she favors 2 boys but we're both definitely interested in both options. That is why we are looking for a couple. The thing is and maybe it's my hang up I am most decidedly NOT interested in a man who will "let" me suck him. Too much like a bdsm kind of feel to it - even if it's in my head. But it seems, at least the limited time we've been reading, that at most men are bi-curious which is to say that they will "let me" On the other hand, for now anyway, our limits preclude full mm or f/m. Oh what to do?

03-18-2009, 05:29 PM	#8 (permalink)
SizzleinNC Registered Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 8 Location: Goldsboro, NC Status: Couple	Re: Bi-curious? I have often said to my wife how I would love to switch sides with her and feel what she is feeling making love to a man or a woman. I find that I am getting bi curious and I would not mind a guy sucking me off, and would love to have the nerve to suck him off. My wife loves it so there has to be something there to like. As far as looks go, who cares, I am not looking to kiss him, just want to try bi oral.

03-18-2009, 08:48 PM	#9 (permalink)
rickmccool Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 38 Location: Austin, Tx.	Re: Bi-curious? My only advice is don't die curious.

03-19-2009, 03:16 AM	#10 (permalink)
eraserxx7 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Tucson Arizona Status: male	Re: Bi-curious? I was very curious about sucking another guys cock, but did not want to be thought of as bi. After watching other guys sucking cock at an adult book arcade theatre. I got so turned on, I decided to try one. So I did suck a guys cock and I enjoyed it. Noe it dpends on on how cleanthe guy is, the size of his cock. If your bi-curious, do it. You will be glad you did

03-19-2009, 07:04 AM	#11 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Bi-curious? I'm sold on good pussy. Always have been, always will be.....

03-19-2009, 04:01 PM	#12 (permalink)
YZF Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 198 Location: Texas	Re: Bi-curious? One of the biggest turnons for Mrs. YZF and me is when we share a cock. If there is any swallowing ti be dine, I do it.

03-19-2009, 07:51 PM	#13 (permalink)
GoNatural Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 201 Location: Austin, TX Status: Attatched Male	Re: Bi-curious? I have always been very open-minded. After starting my sex life, I mostly had sex with women, but explored a little with guys. I still considered myself straight at that time. Even when I started swinging I only wanted to be with straight couples and be able to fuck a MILF. I was in my lower 20's then. After having a little swinging experience without male 2 male contact, and more one on one's with single women, I did try one on one with a guy. It was very pleasureable. I went beyond oral too. After that I was curious about bi married couples. So, during the following years I met with about 3 different M/F couples where the male was bi. It was really fun. During that time I started to realize that I was, or admit to myself, that I was bisexual. Basically, I can enjoy the physical sensations, and the mental buildup before sex, with either gender. To me, bisexual means sex with either male or female, and does not necessarily include romantic feelings. To this day I have not enjoyed kissing a guy, though I've given it a chance. I only like kissing and face to face romance with a woman. Though, a group kiss was fun because it was "adventurous" to me. I think that curious guys should give it a try. Also, I think that curious, or bi guys that have supportive female partners that are interested in male bisexuality are SO DAM LUCKY ! I'm one of those guys that really enjoys anal stimulation. I was also very curious about what a woman felt during penetration, so that is what pushed me over the edge to explore. I had vagina envy. Only now do I enjoy oral with a guy. It used to turn me off. I just wanted my ass played with. I still think one of the most erotic things is one woman pleasuring another. I became envious of bi females. That actually spurned me on to explore bi sex myself. Why whould women be the only ones to have fun breaking an adventurous taboo? Currently, I'm more physically attracted to women, but I do feel physically attracted to guys once in a while.
	Last edited by GoNatural; 03-19-2009 at 08:01 PM. Reason: additional info

10-25-2009, 09:12 AM	#14 (permalink)
txbigboy73 Registered Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4 Location: A-town Texas Status: Couple	Re: Bi-curious? I have been tossing the idea around for a long time to be with another man also.Have never found any that i am really attracted to yet.but i think i should say i know if it does come up i don't think i will turn it down.i just want to know how it feels and to see if i like it.

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