Those who are bisexual - what was your first sign?

[JustAskJulie]

Ok, I think most of us have a defining point where we can say that we figured out we were bisexual. BUT, looking back (gotta love hindsite) what was the first sign that you might have been attracted to the opposite sex?


For me, looking back, I'd say it was the fact that I could check out other women with my guy friends and rate them, without ever feeling the least bit odd.

[lustylearning]

Although there were later, more obvious signals, I think I got a clue my first lifestyle night when a wonderful woman kissed me, and it felt so natural that it didn't even occur to me until the next day that it was, in fact, a woman who had kissed me

[Tracey2]

I got my first clue during high school while looking through some magazines that belonged to my boyfriend. There were some girl/girl porn scenes in one and I was absolutely blindsided by how excited I got looking at them. My boyfriend didn't even know that I had seen them and I never in a million years could have told him how I felt about them.

I was able to open up about my bisexual feelings to my husband when I was 18. Like Julie, I've always pointed out hot girls to him all through my marriage. I was still really shy about my feelings, though, really only able to enjoy them while we were in the middle of having sex. Well, it only took us 16!! years until we finally did something involving another woman and well, let's just say I'm no longer curious or shy about how I feel

[screaminggood]

In high school, there was a girl that I had sexual dreams about...kind of freaked me out at the time, but I definitely liked looking at the girls in porn as well. I think I always had the fantasies, but it wasn't until I was on top of my husband one night, and heasked me if I would ever consider being with a woman that I really acknowledged it. As soon as I had my first experience, I knew what I'd been missing!

[Playful1]

When I realized I spent more time checking out women than men and had more fantasies involving women.

[NakedInSeattle]

Funny how the word bisexual in the title caused everybody to answer the question about attraction to the "same sex" when your question asked about attraction to the "opposite sex." Did you mean to throw us a curve ball or is this a typo?

[CuriousLeo's]

Im not sure I am 'bi' but here is my two cents anyway...
I first started to become interested in cocks, and then m/m stuff while enjoying porn during my college days. Never once did I consider liking guys in H.S. And never looked at guys and could even say one was more attractive than another.
But during my single days of watching porn I started to realize I liked seeing cock and cocks cumming etc... I repressed it for years, as all good catholic macho boys should, and after big fights trying to hide the porn and thoughts from my wife, it came out, and I am very glad it did.
The weight was off my shoulders, I found out she thought it was super hot, we had previously talked about swinging, but this certainly added fuel to our fire. So here we are, broke our cherry a week ago, with swinging, and my first time with a man.

Mr. Leo

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

Funny how the word bisexual in the title caused everybody to answer the question about attraction to the "same sex" when your question asked about attraction to the "opposite sex." Did you mean to throw us a curve ball or is this a typo?

By context I'd go with typo.

[CXXC]

Mrs. CXXC had several fantasies regarding girl/girl play in her early 20's. As time passed, the desire became real and her fulfilment of this desire became a need. At long last she had her experience at 33. To make certain she was doing it for her and not jsut to please me or put on a show, she had a girl/girl activity on her own without any men in the room. She walked away from that event knowing full well that she was Bi.
To her, pleasure knows no gender.

[ShinyHappyGirl]

i first realized when i was in the 1st grade.

all through kindergarten, all of my crushes were girls. i was hopelessly into girls and didn't even realize that was "weird" until one of my teenage aunts asked me who i liked in my class. when i named a girl she said "no, who do you want to kiss?" confused, i named another girl. she laughed and said "no silly! what boy do you want to kiss! you're a girl! you like boys!" I was super confused so I just named a boy and from that point on, I never let anyone know i wanted to kiss girls.

But then in 1st grade i developed a crush on a boy and from then on, it was pretty even between boys and girls for me. i thought i was insane and unique until i learned what a bisexual was in 9th grade lol. i didn't even know how women had sex until i was in 10th grade (and i didn't do it myself until i was 18!)

[ALilOEverything]

I didn't even know if I knew the term "bisexual" when the signs first started coming around. Like ShineyHappyGirl it was at a really young age. When I started having overnights with girlfriends is when I started having those thoughts, about 3 grade. I would lay in the same bed as my girlfriend and wish like mad I could touch them and make out with them. I never had the courage too until my late teens though.

[june_sugar]

In highschool, I was part of a really progressive church that had a lot of programming for youth, so in going to a lot of youth get-togethers (sleepovers, conferences, workshops) I started to notice lesbians and bi girls and thought their relationships were very interesting... Occasionally I'd find a couple whose interactions I really liked and they'd almost become a model for something I wanted to have. I got a lot of attention from some of the lesbians at my school and youth group, which of course I liked. Later, after having some pretty decent relationships with guys I realized that I liked being with both and how different the two types of relationships could be. Now, I really like to play with couples because I get both!

[gsu22]

When I was a teen(15-16 yrs old)...playing baseball in tournaments throughout the southeast....and we'd have to share rooms with a team member at the hotels. One day after a game, me and my roommate came back after a hot day of playing baseball all day....he got in the shower first and when he came out and came into the room as I laid on my bed watching TV, he dropped his towel and had a semi-hard cock. That's when mine got rock hard haha

I later found out a teammate was gay and decided to "room" with him on a later trip....we ended up having fun and rooming from there on out for the rest of the season!

[biplayfulcouple]

Originally Posted by gsu22

When I was a teen(15-16 yrs old)...playing baseball in tournaments throughout the southeast....and we'd have to share rooms with a team member at the hotels. One day after a game, me and my roommate came back after a hot day of playing baseball all day....he got in the shower first and when he came out and came into the room as I laid on my bed watching TV, he dropped his towel and had a semi-hard cock. That's when mine got rock hard haha

I later found out a teammate was gay and decided to "room" with him on a later trip....we ended up having fun and rooming from there on out for the rest of the season!

we were in our 40's and in the LS at the time. we were hot tubbing with another couple (and very drunk) when the other wife, started doing "dares". the girls each ate each played & kissed each other other first. then the guys had to "taste cock", in order to get a sex reward, from the wives. that changed everything for me. i had no clue that i would end up liking it. especially when my wife assists and tells me what to do. its a huge turn on for both of us. crazy huh?

[YZF]

Mrs YZF here: I was always taller than all the other girls in my circle of friends so naturally I gravitated toward sports like volleyball and basketball. I was very good at basketball but I excelled at volleyball and early on that was the sport I went with.

I was 12 and at a weekend volleyball camp at Campwood. I wound up sharing a room with a girl a couple of years older than me. She was sleeping in panties and a t-shirt, I was sleeping in full jammies. I woke up in the middle of the night and she was masturbating. She had her hand down her panties and was humping it slowly. I stared at her for a while then she looked over and saw me looking at her.

I asked her what she was doing and I remember her answer. She said, "You don't know?"
Well I didn't know. But it looked enjoyable. She asked me to go over to her bed and watch.

It was not too long before we hand our hand down each other's panties and I had my first orgasm. We expirmented with eating each other that night. I was a straight up, in the closet, lipstick lesbian until my junior year in high school when I gave my first blowjob and wound up knowing I was bi then.