Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality?

***JustAskJulie*** · 11-03-2008, 11:54 AM

The other thread I just posted brought up a question in my mind. Are bisexual women more open to the idea of bisexuality among men? If you are a bi female, how do you feel about bisexuality among men? Are you ambivelent? Would you like to see it? Do you wish your man would try something? Is your man already bi-curious/ bi-sexual?

mamat2424 · 11-03-2008, 01:11 PM

hi my husbend is bi and i love i am bi we have the best of
both worlds

**LFM2** · 11-03-2008, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

The other thread I just posted brought up a question in my mind. Are bisexual women more open to the idea of bisexuality among men? If you are a bi female, how do you feel about bisexuality among men? Are you ambivelent? Would you like to see it? Do you wish your man would try something? Is your man already bi-curious/ bi-sexual?

I'm open to bisexuality among men. If Dave wanted to try something out, so be it. Personally, I could care less if he ever tried anything or not. Dave's pretty open sexually, and he'll try just about anything once. If he liked it, he'd probably do it again, and if he didn't he probably wouldn't.

Malachista · 11-03-2008, 04:22 PM

In my expiriance, I as a straight female, have more acceptance to m/m play then some hardcore bi girls I encountered

femnewb4u2 · 11-03-2008, 07:09 PM

[QUOTE=J Are bisexual women more open to the idea of bisexuality among men? If you are a bi female, how do you feel about bisexuality among men? ?[/QUOTE]

As a bi female, for me, the desire to watch two men be together in my presence is extremely erotic. I have known I am bi for 30 years. The fantasy of two men together has been within me for almost as long. Mentally, emotionally and physically I see it as an extension of pure pleasure and pleasuring. As a single female, I doubt it is something I will have the honor of sharing with a man. As to whether I am the norm or not, I can not say. Great question, Julie

Menage_a_Trois · 11-03-2008, 10:20 PM

This is Ms. Menage, I am bi and it is a HUGE turn OFF for me..........I have no desire to see it or be involved in it

..........so perhaps I'm the odd woman out....

Now while it is a turn off for me that doesn't mean I condem or thing any man who is bi or gay is horrible it's a personal choice.........doesn't make me like or dislike or think any more or less of the man...........I JUST DON'T WANT TO WATCH IT lol.........

Chicup · 11-03-2008, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Menage_a_Trois

This is Ms. Menage, I am bi and it is a HUGE turn OFF for me..........I have no desire to see it or be involved in it

..........so perhaps I'm the odd woman out....

Now while it is a turn off for me that doesn't mean I condem or thing any man who is bi or gay is horrible it's a personal choice.........doesn't make me like or dislike or think any more or less of the man...........I JUST DON'T WANT TO WATCH IT lol.........

I can speak for my wife here, shes exactly the same way. She in no way wants to watch it, ever. Complete turn off for her.

safireblues · 11-04-2008, 08:59 AM

To me, it seems like older women are so "turned off" by bisexual men. I've never encountered a woman under 35 that was "grossed out" by it. But plenty in the 40 plus category who are close to freaking out. Which makes me think it comes down to what you are accustomed to.

I am so turned on by bisexual men, it drives me crazy. And I am a bi female.

TravlParty · 11-04-2008, 10:47 AM

I'm a bi-female, and I know several bi-males. We're friends with them and their sexuality doesn't turn me on or off.

Since hubby is not interested in men at all, it's not really something that affects us. It doesn't bother him if they're in the same bed.

Chicup · 11-04-2008, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by safireblues

To me, it seems like older women are so "turned off" by bisexual men. I've never encountered a woman under 35 that was "grossed out" by it. But plenty in the 40 plus category who are close to freaking out. Which makes me think it comes down to what you are accustomed to.

I am so turned on by bisexual men, it drives me crazy. And I am a bi female.

You need to meet my wife then

Thrax · 11-04-2008, 02:59 PM

Earlier this year I was at the local club, and the bi-male subject came up while I was talking to a married bi woman and a divorced bi woman.

The married bi woman was in her late 30s and the divorced woman was just a tad over 50-y.o. The latter had recently attended a wedding where an openly gay male couple attended the reception. Neither woman cared that the guys were gay, but both said they just didn't think it "looked" right when two guys were dancing with or kissing each other, let alone going into the issue of two guys having oral or any other type of sex with each other.

Further questioning assured me that these two women had nothing against gay or bi males, it's just that the male bi thing was not their cup of tea, and neither could understand the erotic appeal of bi men to ANY women.

Hey, I just supply this information. Make of it what you will.

Thrax

**fun4Ds** · 11-04-2008, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Thrax

Hey, I just supply this information. Make of it what you will.

Interesting observation

rickmccool · 11-05-2008, 05:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by safireblues

To me, it seems like older women are so "turned off" by bisexual men. I've never encountered a woman under 35 that was "grossed out" by it. But plenty in the 40 plus category who are close to freaking out. Which makes me think it comes down to what you are accustomed to.

I am so turned on by bisexual men, it drives me crazy. And I am a bi female.

Mrs. Safireblues, I love you girl!

pervgeeks · 11-09-2008, 02:29 AM

I'm not closed to it as a bi woman, but my husband is strait, so it's not an interest for him or us as a couple. If he were into it, his pleasure would turn me on, but since it's not his thing, I really don't think much about it. If we were at a party or club and two guys were making out (or more), it wouldn't turn me on, but it wouldn't bother me either.

screaminggood · 11-10-2008, 12:27 PM

I've said it on a different thread....I'm a bi-fem and I've never seen bi-men together....I would like to watch to see if it turns me on, and I'd be accepting if my husband wanted to experiment.

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11-03-2008, 11:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? The other thread I just posted brought up a question in my mind. Are bisexual women more open to the idea of bisexuality among men? If you are a bi female, how do you feel about bisexuality among men? Are you ambivelent? Would you like to see it? Do you wish your man would try something? Is your man already bi-curious/ bi-sexual?

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mamat2424 Registered Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 4 Location: ny Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hotsex36	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? hi my husbend is bi and i love i am bi we have the best of both worlds

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Malachista Pussy on the Prowl Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 305 Location: Central Europe Status: Single Female	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? In my expiriance, I as a straight female, have more acceptance to m/m play then some hardcore bi girls I encountered

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femnewb4u2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 176 Location: Indiana/Ohio Status: Single Female in relationship Swing Lifestyle Name:femnewb4u	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? [QUOTE=J Are bisexual women more open to the idea of bisexuality among men? If you are a bi female, how do you feel about bisexuality among men? ?[/QUOTE] As a bi female, for me, the desire to watch two men be together in my presence is extremely erotic. I have known I am bi for 30 years. The fantasy of two men together has been within me for almost as long. Mentally, emotionally and physically I see it as an extension of pure pleasure and pleasuring. As a single female, I doubt it is something I will have the honor of sharing with a man. As to whether I am the norm or not, I can not say. Great question, Julie

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Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? This is Ms. Menage, I am bi and it is a HUGE turn OFF for me..........I have no desire to see it or be involved in it..........so perhaps I'm the odd woman out.... Now while it is a turn off for me that doesn't mean I condem or thing any man who is bi or gay is horrible it's a personal choice.........doesn't make me like or dislike or think any more or less of the man...........I JUST DON'T WANT TO WATCH IT lol.........
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11-04-2008, 08:59 AM	#8 (permalink)
safireblues Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 102 Location: Philadelphia Status: Married Female	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? To me, it seems like older women are so "turned off" by bisexual men. I've never encountered a woman under 35 that was "grossed out" by it. But plenty in the 40 plus category who are close to freaking out. Which makes me think it comes down to what you are accustomed to. I am so turned on by bisexual men, it drives me crazy. And I am a bi female.

11-04-2008, 10:47 AM	#9 (permalink)
TravlParty Where's the party? Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 172 Location: Paradise Status: Couple	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? I'm a bi-female, and I know several bi-males. We're friends with them and their sexuality doesn't turn me on or off. Since hubby is not interested in men at all, it's not really something that affects us. It doesn't bother him if they're in the same bed.

11-04-2008, 02:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? Earlier this year I was at the local club, and the bi-male subject came up while I was talking to a married bi woman and a divorced bi woman. The married bi woman was in her late 30s and the divorced woman was just a tad over 50-y.o. The latter had recently attended a wedding where an openly gay male couple attended the reception. Neither woman cared that the guys were gay, but both said they just didn't think it "looked" right when two guys were dancing with or kissing each other, let alone going into the issue of two guys having oral or any other type of sex with each other. Further questioning assured me that these two women had nothing against gay or bi males, it's just that the male bi thing was not their cup of tea, and neither could understand the erotic appeal of bi men to ANY women. Hey, I just supply this information. Make of it what you will. Thrax
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11-09-2008, 02:29 AM	#14 (permalink)
pervgeeks Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 150 Location: Connecticut Status: Couple	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? I'm not closed to it as a bi woman, but my husband is strait, so it's not an interest for him or us as a couple. If he were into it, his pleasure would turn me on, but since it's not his thing, I really don't think much about it. If we were at a party or club and two guys were making out (or more), it wouldn't turn me on, but it wouldn't bother me either.

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screaminggood Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 843 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: Bi- Women, are you more open to male bisexuality? I've said it on a different thread....I'm a bi-fem and I've never seen bi-men together....I would like to watch to see if it turns me on, and I'd be accepting if my husband wanted to experiment.

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