Same sex kissing?

[ViSexual]

I've been reading these threads and just had an interesting thought.

I think most of the, so-called, bi men would agree with me that kissing another man just isn't appealing.

Yet, it seems like most, if not all, bi women enjoy it.

So, ladies and gentlemen, am I correct in my thinking?

I, for one, have no desire to kiss another man and absolutely love kissing women!

[screaminggood]

I'm a bi-fem and definitely love kissing other fems. I haven't ever seen bi-men playing to know whether I'd like to watch or not...but I would like to see it sometime to know.

[herpob]

eeuuuuwww - GROSS!


It is NOT appealing to watch or think about to me, even as a pretty liberal female - eeeeeuwwww!

[herpob]

I know that might sound strange coming from me but I am a weird thinker.

Yes in the heat of sex I can see my husband being near other penises. I've seen them pretty darn close to his mouth and face, had a few guys help the ladies suck him and play around with him even anally. He doesn't know who's doing what because he was always in a 69 when it happened.

None of it bothered me a bit and was quite the turn on to be honest. He had never been or done anything with a guy for the most part, yes he has had to help stuff the other guy back in during DP, etc. Again we are in the heat of the moment and it's all about sex!

We all kiss with cum in our mouths, swapping it all around, no biggy. He is not so much into that but will oblige us ladies. He has eaten it our of many of us many times, no biggy.

But I could never imagine him kissing a guy - euuwwwww. #1 that is not a pretty sight - not attractive in the least, #2 that is not masculine at all (I like masculine men), #3 even the bisexual men in our group do not kiss. Yes I have seen them do Everything else, but they NEVER kiss other guys. You know never thought about it, I wonder why? I'll ask them all next week when we get together, I'll let you know.

I'll take it one step further, I could never see my husband doing a guy anally. Never could see him wanting to, desiring it, that is leaning a bit to far for me. I guess if it happened I'd have to be okay with it but I simply do not see it happening, he likes the ladies WAAAY to Much!


GREAT post BTW - You really got me going on this one now - can't wait to ask the men in our group.

[ViSexual]

Hey Herpob,

Let us know what your survey reveals. And, let us know what it induces too!

Sounds like you're part of a very interesting group there in Atlanta!

[JustMrsJ]

I don't mind kissing females. I just cannot think about going down on a female. My husband kissing another man will really make me cringe.

[JustMrsJ]

PS. and I know my husband will agree with me about that.

[NakedInSeattle]

It takes all kinds and tastes to make this swinging world go 'round. As for us, it's all good. We don't like labels and rules that get between consenting adults having fun. As with anything or anybody - if you don't like it, don't do it and of course, if you do like it, GO FOR IT.

[VANudistcpl]

We have talked about and that is just not right...... Ms Nudist loves kissing the girls but would be turned off by two men kissing.

[sweet_tna]

I like kissing other women, but I know Mr. Sweet is not the least bit interested in kissing a guy. Would it bug me to see two other men kissing? No, but it wouldn't turn me on, either.

=)

[intuition897]

I've actually never seen it myself, but I think I would probably be really intrigued by it. I really can't speak for Mr. intuition as to whether or not he'd actually like to do it. It's just never come up.

[PDMcCripe]

As with many issues, don't knock it until you've tried it. Intellectually, some pumbing appliances notwithstanding, what're the biological differences between the sexes? If a man (or woman) chooses to attach his(/her) lips to another person's body . . . ? Or, let's imagine it's a group in a very darkened room, and who knows who is doing what to whomever else? A man can have very soft, luscious lips; and a woman can have hard thin lips. Does that one attribute make one a more desirable sex partner than the other? We think not. But, to each their own.

[Brian and Jo]

We are both bi and we both love to kiss our bi partners.

[SecretAsianMan]

If someone's bisexual - then kissing someone of the same gender is just as much of a turn on for them as kissing someone of the opposite gender. That's sort of part of what makes them bisexual, no?

As far as the bi-curious or the heteroflexible who might indulge in some homo-erotic play from time to time in the heat of the moment - kissing might be too "intimate"... but, as usual - your mileage may vary.

[MRSfun]

I consider myself Bisexual. There are some women I dont find as good kissers, just as some men I dont consider to be good kissers. Some women I really have no desire to kiss at all, just as I do some men.

Would you think you feel less or partialy straight, because you dont want to kiss every woman you see ? I feel like your telling me I should enjoy kissing all women. Its not that way really.

Its equal in the fact that I enjoy a good kiss with men or women, the same as everyone els.