Same sex kissing?

[rdy46227]

For me, prolonged kissing (above the neck) is spiritual communication between my partner and I. Think sahasrara or the crown chakras (generally considered to be the chakra of consciousness) touching.

This requires an intimate emotional connection, which I almost never have with a casual male. Therefore, making out with a guy is transitory at best.

However, I can give/receive kissing, licking, sucking, etc. as sexually stimulation to/from a guy, especially below the waist. It's a different kind of sex.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

If someone's bisexual - then kissing someone of the same gender is just as much of a turn on for them as kissing someone of the opposite gender. That's sort of part of what makes them bisexual, no?

As far as the bi-curious or the heteroflexible who might indulge in some homo-erotic play from time to time in the heat of the moment - kissing might be too "intimate"... but, as usual - your mileage may vary.

Aha we have a winner! You mileage may vary or its intimate...

This past weekend all the men were together with 3 of us wives. So I took a survey of sorts.

Of the 8 men:
1. We have 2 men - my husband and another who can deal with the occasional male contact from the result of group sex, they can both handle cum swapping with the ladies and can handle eating us out after sex, neither say they crave it but enjoy the extracurricular while all hot and bothered and can occasionally really get into it, especially when the wives get into it.
2. 2 other husband's that have no problem with anyone performing oral on them as long as they are not watching it and are preoccupied, they can handle guys handling them as well but again as long as they personally are focusing on one of the wives.
3. The other 4 husbands in our group are bisexual, they have no problem with handling men, oral either way with men, cum, anal sex - though 2 prefer to receive more than the other to do and the last 2 do will do whatever, they love anal however with whomever doing it whenever or getting it done wherever and all 4 let the women do them any time. 4. None do oral anal with a guy but with the ladies it is an entirely different story. I love these hubbies.
5. And Not a one is into kissing another guy. 2 of them had it happen accidentally, 2 of them tried it intentionally, grossed them all out. The way they explained it wound up sounding like a chorus.

In a nut shell it wasn’t natural to them – they are not into men per say, just sex with multiple partners and variety. They all explained the sex is sex is sex thing pretty much the way I put it. They all love sex, a body is a body, a hole is a hole, a finger is a finger, etc. and kissing is not sex, it is sexual but it is not sex. They view it as more of a connection not an act. Sex is an act to them. For example they all love anal sex, it brings incredible orgasms for them, multiple like women instead of a simple single shooting ejaculation orgasm. They can have these with toys, machines, dolls, strap ons, and other males. It is variety, not gay, not into men, just another form of sex to them. The men want sex more often then their wives so as one of them put it, do the math, crunch the numbers, on average a normal female is into sex about 1/3-1/4 as often as the typical male. It makes sense to have more partners than the women and who are the best sex buddies (also as they put it)? Other men with the same desire in frequency. The wives are fine with it and happy that their men are getting taken care of enough (I spoke with all the wives this week about it all), it also freed some of the wives up mentally to explore females with no guilt, AND the husbands get deeper more massive richer multi-orgasms more often to boot. In addition every single wife in our group loves to watch it. There is just something about men who love raw sex for sex sake no matter what just enjoying uninhibited with regards to sex acts. So though they will do pretty much anything else – kissing other men is out. Not a desire. Not a sex act. And by the way our group does not kiss for kissing sake unless it is your spouse, we kiss when swapping, exchanging, in the middle or group sex but not what most people would consider normal one on one kissing. Oh I almost left this out. When it comes to receiving anal sex all 4 men said that men are better at controlling what is happening than a female with a strap on so the sex is a bit less scary, not failing to point out that the real thing back there feels pretty amazing. We also all agreed – (us ladies and the 4 men) that having someone cum in your backside it pretty darn HOT and feels incredible!

One of the 2 that is open to pretty much, whatever, and the most effeminate stated, “he loves women, desires women, that he will have sex with a guy but has no yearning for males. He said that sucking a guy gets him hard just like eating a woman (it’s the act not the visual), but the sight of woman does and a guy does not. He says he sees the other husbands naked and it does nothing, but see them in a sex act and he’ll get hard as a rock. I asked the other men about it and the same was true for them all even my husband and the other one similar to him. They are not in the least into guys but watching other men having sex gets them turned on. My husband said when he first saw some of the other guys sucking each other along with some of the wives it turned him on – not the men sucking men but the sex act in its self. Does that make sense? Someone getting done anally is huge turn on for everyone in our group regardless of gender. Most of us are anal addicts. I do not desire females but I can turned on watching them with other women and men. Heck I even get turned on watching just women and women but I still do not want them. I’ve even had sex with other women this summer (my husband’s fantasy finally fulfilled – woot woot) but still have no hunger for females though I did enjoy it.

Anyhoo I thought it was all pretty interesting and as I keep saying for some people sex is just that, sex, give’em a willing body and they are happy all the night long!

[herpob]

Originally Posted by rdy46227

For me, prolonged kissing (above the neck) is spiritual communication between my partner and I. Think sahasrara or the crown chakras (generally considered to be the chakra of consciousness) touching.

This requires an intimate emotional connection, which I almost never have with a casual male. Therefore, making out with a guy is transitory at best.

However, I can give/receive kissing, licking, sucking, etc. as sexually stimulation to/from a guy, especially below the waist. It's a different kind of sex.

Yes the same was said by our men - Nothing above the waist. As he said above - below a man's waist is "a different kind of sex!" Our husbands' agree.

Well said!!!

Very interesting in deed. I can kiss a woman's breast, lick it, and suck it now - doesn't bother me at all, still I do not crave it, or get the hots for it, but a female's breast is pretty fun to play with I must admit. I reckon guys just aren't as much fun.

[ViSexual]

Herpob,

Well, you certainly hit all bases. Good response and very informative/

And you've certainly given me some food for thought about having anal too! Multible orgasms? Well now!

And, it sounds like you've got a really great group there in Atlanta too!

Thanks for a very good thread.

[NakedInSeattle]

Originally Posted by MRSfun

I consider myself Bisexual. There are some women I dont find as good kissers, just as some men I dont consider to be good kissers. Some women I really have no desire to kiss at all, just as I do some men.

Would you think you feel less or partialy straight, because you dont want to kiss every woman you see ? I feel like your telling me I should enjoy kissing all women. Its not that way really.

Its equal in the fact that I enjoy a good kiss with men or women, the same as everyone els.

Well said, MRSfun. It's not for or with everybody.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by ViSexual

Herpob,

Well, you certainly hit all bases. Good response and very informative/

And you've certainly given me some food for thought about having anal too! Multible orgasms? Well now!

And, it sounds like you've got a really great group there in Atlanta too!

Thanks for a very good thread.

Why thank you and very glad we could help. Best of success with it all.

[LOL_OMG]

Not hijacking the thread but responding to a few things people said about bad kissers. The only reason a man or woman would be a bad kisser would be that they cannot adapt or work with their partner. From day one Mrs. Lol and I agreed we were perfect for each other in the kissing dept. as well as other areas. Taking that a step further no two people are alike and different partners will take a bit of adaptation. Perhaps it's just me but if I detect my new partner and I are not exactly on the same page I will go for the neck a bit, lightly, then go back for more kissing. I think one bit of advice is never try and ram your tongue down anyones throat, have seen it done by others and the reaction from their partner is usually not good. Getting back to the post, Mrs. Lol loves kissing women, and touching there bodies, but she does not consider herself bi and does not want to perform oral sex on a women. Myself, I could not kiss a guy, nor much more than what may occur within a mass tangle of bodies.

Mr Omg

[HotMrsJane]

herpob...thanks for your input on your group. Excellent.

No male male kissing here. Doesn't turn me on, or him. However, H giving
a guy a nice BJ before the guy fucks me...does. He only does it if "I" ask
him to. He is not at all attracted to men and would not kiss them. He will
also let another guy suck him...a mouth is a mouth when it comes to his cock

[riprat]

Our "teachers" told us that they reserved kissing for themselves, never kissing another than their mate. We adopted that for us as well, but with one exception, D is free to kiss another female if she wants to. She and the other lady were giving me a blowjob at the same time,and the male said "Why don't you ladies just go ahead and kiss each other", so they did. So far, it has only happened one time, and she said it was different. Myself, I have no desire to kiss another male, period.