Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men?

Chicup · 08-27-2008, 12:21 AM

I'm open minded.

Most people seem to equate open minded with 'willing to do anything once' or even just being plain naive.

When I say I'm open minded it means I can think about it, imagine it and decide if its for me.

So have I had gay fantasies, no, not in the way people typically think of it. I imagine it as an intellectual exercise, I think about if I'd like to do it. When it comes to gay sex the answer has always been no, its something I have no desire to act out.

Given the perfect time.
The perfect opportunity.
The perfect discretion, as in it would NEVER be known.

I'd still have no desire.

Interestingly its this same thought process which made me think about swinging as something I'd might like to be involved in.

celtic239 · 08-27-2008, 12:29 AM

In one word - No

interested-05 · 08-28-2008, 04:17 PM

seriously, dicks are an unattractive, ugly piece of equipment. I need a nice pair of tits, a wet pussy and a sexy feminine personality to get a lift in life. I don't see what it is that makes women desire us guys, but I'm very happy they do.

Pensacolapair · 08-28-2008, 05:32 PM

"Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men?"

This is a trick question, right?

It begs the question - "if a guy is fantasizing and getting aroused about sex with another guy.... um... is he in fact straight?"

lovinher · 08-28-2008, 11:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

I'm open minded.

Most people seem to equate open minded with 'willing to do anything once' or even just being plain naive.

When I say I'm open minded it means I can think about it, imagine it and decide if its for me.

So have I had gay fantasies, no, not in the way people typically think of it. I imagine it as an intellectual exercise, I think about if I'd like to do it. When it comes to gay sex the answer has always been no, its something I have no desire to act out.

Given the perfect time.
The perfect opportunity.
The perfect discretion, as in it would NEVER be known.

I'd still have no desire.

Interestingly its this same thought process which made me think about swinging as something I'd might like to be involved in.

Couldn't have said it any better than that.
I can't even watch gay porn but I think every male has at least wondered what it would be like. When I wonder, I smack myself in the head.

Vjklander · 08-29-2008, 04:02 AM

Ron White has a great routine about latent gayness. Look it up on youtube.

mixtupcpl · 08-29-2008, 07:09 PM

Definite no here. The thing with questions like these is that they always seem so loaded. Almost as if there is an agenda in place before it's asked.

It *is* possible that there are guys who are just 100% straight (a lot of them actually) and if you're bi or gay that shouldnt AT ALL make you feel threatened or make you want to question yourself or them.

Pensacola pair nailed it I think. If the guy is fantasizing about men, he is probably not straight and is likely bi but just hasnt accepted it yet. So basically "straight" guys are partially *defined* by the fact that they dont fantasize about men. Bi and gay guys do, which is totally cool for them.

realcplub2 · 08-30-2008, 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vjklander

Ron White has a great routine about latent gayness. Look it up on youtube.

Now see... Great analogy!!

**BiloxiCouple** · 08-30-2008, 10:05 AM

The only absolute answer is there is no absolutes.

amid · 08-30-2008, 12:26 PM

Said with Tongue in Cheek;
I relate this topic and a man's sexuality to the Erector set I used to play with as a boy..
Man = Bolt, Woman = Nut..
A-You can screw a bolt into a nut.. you can have two or more nuts on one bolt..
B-You can stack one nut or more on top of another.. it works well and looks good but it's not a solid structrure..
C-If you are careful you can screw a bolt into each opposing side of a nut. mfm
D-But try and try as you might you cannot put two bolts together. Can't stack 'em, can't screw 'em together.

As many times as I have given a fleeting thought to building something with two bolts I know it won't work for me so I abandon that project.

**BiloxiCouple** · 08-30-2008, 01:08 PM

Welding bolts together...

SecretAsianMan · 09-02-2008, 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Welding bolts together...

(*laughing*) ... where there's a will, there's always a way!!

Although I would probably run screaming if someone were to pull out a welding torch and try to attach my bolt to ANYTHING!

fuzzymerkowitz · 09-06-2008, 01:28 PM

A man's ass or mouth could be considered a bolt.

ViSexual · 09-17-2008, 04:08 AM

I probably fantasize about 50% of the women I'm around. Seriously!

I always fantasize about women when I masturbate.

I've never seen a man and wondered what he'd look like naked.

No, I don't fantasize about men at all but I would enjoy sucking a cock in the right situation. And, for me, that right situation is during a MFM threesome.

**two4youinswva** · 09-17-2008, 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vjklander

Ron White has a great routine about latent gayness. Look it up on youtube.

Yeah, that's a pretty funny one.

Quote:

Originally Posted by amid

As many times as I have given a fleeting thought to building something with two bolts I know it won't work for me so I abandon that project.

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Welding bolts together...

Which must be how they came up with the practice called "Docking"

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08-27-2008, 12:21 AM	#16 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,442 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? I'm open minded. Most people seem to equate open minded with 'willing to do anything once' or even just being plain naive. When I say I'm open minded it means I can think about it, imagine it and decide if its for me. So have I had gay fantasies, no, not in the way people typically think of it. I imagine it as an intellectual exercise, I think about if I'd like to do it. When it comes to gay sex the answer has always been no, its something I have no desire to act out. Given the perfect time. The perfect opportunity. The perfect discretion, as in it would NEVER be known. I'd still have no desire. Interestingly its this same thought process which made me think about swinging as something I'd might like to be involved in.

08-27-2008, 12:29 AM	#17 (permalink)
celtic239 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 196 Location: new york	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? In one word - No

08-28-2008, 04:17 PM	#18 (permalink)
interested-05 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 113 Location: CT Status: couple	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? seriously, dicks are an unattractive, ugly piece of equipment. I need a nice pair of tits, a wet pussy and a sexy feminine personality to get a lift in life. I don't see what it is that makes women desire us guys, but I'm very happy they do.

08-28-2008, 05:32 PM	#19 (permalink)
Pensacolapair Educated Posterior Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 118 Location: Florida Status: Couple - He (M )posts, She (G) vetos as required Swing Lifestyle Name:MandGinSD Blog Entries: 6	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? "Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men?" This is a trick question, right? It begs the question - "if a guy is fantasizing and getting aroused about sex with another guy.... um... is he in fact straight?" __________________ "When you're up to your ass in alligators, it's hard to remember that you came to drain the swamp!"

08-29-2008, 04:02 AM	#21 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 832 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? Ron White has a great routine about latent gayness. Look it up on youtube.

08-29-2008, 07:09 PM	#22 (permalink)
mixtupcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 175 Location: Pennsylvania Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mixtupcpl	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? Definite no here. The thing with questions like these is that they always seem so loaded. Almost as if there is an agenda in place before it's asked. It is possible that there are guys who are just 100% straight (a lot of them actually) and if you're bi or gay that shouldnt AT ALL make you feel threatened or make you want to question yourself or them. Pensacola pair nailed it I think. If the guy is fantasizing about men, he is probably not straight and is likely bi but just hasnt accepted it yet. So basically "straight" guys are partially defined by the fact that they dont fantasize about men. Bi and gay guys do, which is totally cool for them.

08-30-2008, 10:05 AM	#24 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple I wish I may Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,970 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? The only absolute answer is there is no absolutes. __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

08-30-2008, 12:26 PM	#25 (permalink)
amid Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 55 Location: SE Pennsylvania Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:amid	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? Said with Tongue in Cheek; I relate this topic and a man's sexuality to the Erector set I used to play with as a boy.. Man = Bolt, Woman = Nut.. A-You can screw a bolt into a nut.. you can have two or more nuts on one bolt.. B-You can stack one nut or more on top of another.. it works well and looks good but it's not a solid structrure.. C-If you are careful you can screw a bolt into each opposing side of a nut. mfm D-But try and try as you might you cannot put two bolts together. Can't stack 'em, can't screw 'em together. As many times as I have given a fleeting thought to building something with two bolts I know it won't work for me so I abandon that project.

08-30-2008, 01:08 PM	#26 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple I wish I may Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,970 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? Welding bolts together... __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

09-06-2008, 01:28 PM	#28 (permalink)
fuzzymerkowitz Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1 Location: Bay Area Status: Couple	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? A man's ass or mouth could be considered a bolt.

09-17-2008, 04:08 AM	#29 (permalink)
ViSexual Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 187 Location: Florida Status: M. Male	Re: Do straight guys ever fantasize about other men? I probably fantasize about 50% of the women I'm around. Seriously! I always fantasize about women when I masturbate. I've never seen a man and wondered what he'd look like naked. No, I don't fantasize about men at all but I would enjoy sucking a cock in the right situation. And, for me, that right situation is during a MFM threesome.

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