do bi-fem couples full swap more than straight couples?

[gnb4u]

There was a thread on another forum where a straight couple was complaining how hard it was to find other couples for full swap opportunities. The thread was written by a straight fem and she was complaining how all the attention and play time was going to the bi-fem couples.

Since our female half is primarily straight too we have often felt left out a lot as well and I could feel some of this posters pain.

However there was another post that made me go, "hmmm?" and reconsider that assumption. It was suggested that bi-fem couples do get more play time but perhaps not more "full swap" play time. True the couples with bi-fems probably see a lot more naked play time but how much of that is spent with the girls rolling around and how much of it is spent full swapping.

Since a straight couple's objective is going to be some kind of swap (soft or full) are they really being left in the shadows of the bi-fem couples or are the full swap rates fairly similar to the bi-fem couples? In this thread it was even suggested that straight couples may actually full swap more than bi couples since a lot of the bi couples probably just girl/girl play and leave it at that.

I realize there are no true statistics to back up any of this but I would like to hear your thoughts on this. Do you think bi-fem couples "FULL SWAP" more or less or the same amount as primarily straight couples?

[des1re06]

Interesting question.

As part of a bi-fem couple, I can say that we've had no straight/straight couples contact us - ever! Even though our profile states that the FF play is not a requirement. It seems couples think we're going to try to initiate that sort of play.

There are many times that we just want a straight full swap, and tend to only find that at house parties.

As a test, I changed my status to "bi-curious", and have gotten alot more responses on SLS. I wonder if we're only in the mood for straight sex if we'd get more response if we changed our status to straight/straight?

The majority of our contact seem to want the FF sex, so we're not getting as much Full swap as we'd like. Much more soft swap; at least for us.



Mrs. D

[Ed & Bunny]

Originally Posted by des1re06

Interesting question.

As part of a bi-fem couple, I can say that we've had no straight/straight couples contact us - ever! Even though our profile states that the FF play is not a requirement. It seems couples think we're going to try to initiate that sort of play.
Mrs. D

I must say in response to this that we are a bit guilty of being hesitant to contact couples with fully bi women. It is not because we are worried about the gals being inapropriate though. It is more because after opening more than a few profiles of bi fem couples and seeing they only want single females or couples with bi women, we just dont even look in the profiles any more. With us being free members at this time it saves on our alloted looks into profiles. So unless they contact us, its not going to happen. As for playing, we have no problem as long as they have no problem with Bunny being strait.

[sweet_tna]

It may just be our experience, but of the couples we've full swapped with, most had a bi-curious female and we had little contact with each other. On most of the occasions we've played with a couple with a bi female, it was only soft swap. I think this is because those particular couples are into swinging primarily for the F/F play.

=)

[realcplub2]

I tend to think the problem is that, More often than not, the concern is that..

The straight woman is concerned about being the target of unwanted advances by the other woman..

Look folks, lets be honest.. When we are in intial talks with ANYONE, the basic ground rules are discussed.. If this is a concern.. SAY SO!

WTF.. How about this.. Suppose for the sake of arguement it wasnt the Bi issue rather it was the issue of I dunno.. ANAL SEX?!? Are you gonna leave your preferences VAGUE?

We all are SUPPOSED to respect the whole NO MEANS NO.. So lets face the issue head on.. Are you afraid a Bi Woman can't keep her hands off of the Str8 woman..

While yes being Bi adds a whole new dimension of play.. there are still PLENTY of things 2 couples can do without crossing anyones "LINES"..

[two42lovers]

We are a bi-female, straight-male couple. We've soft swaped only three or four times, but full swapped many dozens of times. We play with a lot of couples with bi females, and a lot of couples with straight females. In most cases the main course, by far, is straight sex. Either way, full swap F/M sex is definately the main event.

Now if you looked at their profiles, a lot of the women I'm calling straight are listed as bi-curious. They tend to dabble a bit with bisexuality, but at most it's a little warm up play before the main course. (Nothing wrong with that - after all, they specificially are saying they are NOT bi - only curious.)

To know how a couple plays, we look to see if they are full swap and play with solo guys. If they play MFM, (as well as FMF and MFMF) they are invariably a couple with few hang ups or jealousies. They tend to be comfortable in the lifestyle. There are LOTS of couples who won't play with solo guys who still are "get down to business" couples, but the couples who are comfortable playing with solo guys seem to always be genuine players.

[arvcpl]

My wife is mostly straight and used to be afraid of bifemales but over time the majority of our full swap experiences have been with couples with bifems and she has very rarely ever been made uncomfortable by them. There are couples out there that have actual policies against any kind of M/F swap but other than those my experience has been that if a bisexual female is properly charmed and entertained by a male she finds attractive she forgets all about the ladies.

[JustMrJ]

This was one of my wife's first fears about contacting couples or meeting people at parties. She was concerned that the BiFems would make advances, which would make her VERY uncomfortable.

She found this was not the case. All she had to do was state she was straight and they were very nice about not making advances.

She now feels to be close to several of the ladies at the parties and has given kisses good night and such, which she thought she would find a turn off. They are not making a pass at her so much as just being good people.

I think it's a combination of the fear of the Straight Females and the profiles that are looking for lots of F/F play that turn away a lot of full swap play.

[Cottman Ave]

Like most of you, the majority of our partners are fem bi male straight
If I said that right, this lingo is new to us.
The ff entertainment I found is more for my benefit than bryans as its becoming more apparant he is enjoying me with men a lot more.

We have yet to find a straight straight cpl out of the 4 gatherings we attended/hosted

[theflamekasters]

the mrs is very bi passive, she wont make the first move on a woman, and is very picky about the woman she will play with, we have never had a problem with a bi-fem cpl not wanting to play with us becuase of that. We have a couple of couples that the girls want to play with the mrs and it just hasnt happened yet! We play with a single girl that truely likes cock and pussy equally and that is fun for both of us!!

We do stay away from cpls on sls that say girl MUST be bi!
But to answer the question, i dont see why a str8 cpl should have any trouble finding people to play with