Couples with BiFemales - have you ever....

[JustAskJulie]

I can't imagine this happening with a couple with a straight female, as the main erason behind it is that both the male and female are attracted to females... so couples with bi-fems have you had a situation where you were both so attracted to the female half of a couple that you "took one for the team" (or came close to doing so) in regards to the guy just to be with the girl.

A couple of weeks ago we were at a social and we saw the cutest thing (the girl) and we were both a bit in lust... even moreso after I met her. But even before I had met her we had discounted them because of the guy, then after meeting her I thought well maybe I can get past the little thing that was turning me off on the guy... but then he turned into an ass saying several things that just left "WTF?" floating around in my head. We both continued down this rabbit trail way longer than we normally would have given the guys comments and actions, because we were so hot for his wife.

[good times]

Well, I can understand how you can't imagine it happening with a straight woman, but it can.

We know a couple that the male just does not do it for Mrs. GT (personality sucks). Over a period of years we became friends with this couple, and the female half of the couple is an unbelievably sweet person, and she wanted to play with me. So, after many attempts by the female of the couple approaching Mrs. GT for us to swap with them, one night, Mrs. GT took one for the team, not for me, but because she just really liked her as a friend to much to refuse.

Will we be going their again sweetie? "HELL NO, not unless you invent a way for me to remove my brain and wash the memory off!".

[screaminggood]

Yes, we've done it once but it didn't work out very well. What worked better was to end up with us two sharing the fem and the other man watching.

[gnb4u]

Have not experienced exactly what you are describing but I (male half) have been on the other end as the male who someone would have been taking one for the team with and it was not pleasant.

My wife is a beautiful and sexy woman and there is a very bi couple that we know and the female half has always had a crush on mrs gnb. She is also a beautiful and sexy woman but is primarily interested in women and if what she says is true has never really played with a male. Anyway one night she tried hitting on mrs gnb for the umpteeth time and finally started directing her attentions to me and began asking me if she could do some things with my wife and what she would have to do to be with her.

To make a long story short she offered me a blow job if I would do what I could to help get mrs gnb into bed with her. I realize many guys would do anything for a blow job but I was hurt and offended on several different levels and in different ways by that.

#1. My wife is her own person and not some ho and I am not her pimp. If she wants to get it on with some chick that is her business and not some deal for me to broker.

#2. It offensive to me that she thinks so little of both of us that a BJ to me is going to make me make my wife do something she doesn't want.

#3. I am not some admission price to be paid for some gal to be with my wife.

#4. She must have thought I was so desparate for sex that I would prostitute my wife out for a BJ. I may be a red blooded american male but there are women out there that want to be with me for me and appreciate me as a person and not just some price to be paid or something to be endured so they can be with my wife.

#5. I was hurt that she would openly admit that she had no sincere interest in me but would do darn near anything to be with my wife. talk about feeling like last week's garbage.

#6. I had my reservations about her prior to this but really lost a lot of respect for her that she would "take one for the team" and prostitute herself just to be with my wife.

#7. I found this disrespectfull to my wife as well in that she thought my wife was some kind of ho that I could order around and make her do things because I got a BJ out of the deal.


So I guess the moral to my story is it sucks to be on the receiving end of taking one for the team as well. I know it is easy to assume that all men will do anything to get everyone naked in bed and don't care how they get there but that is not always the case. I found this to be offensive and hurtfull. You really aren't doing anyone any favors if you are willing to take one for the team to be with a hot chick and you may very well end up burning some bridges and pissing people off if you try.

[des1re06]

Taking one for the team - no, we never have.

The only situation we can think of was when I wasn't attracted to him at all. She was a gorgeous flight attendant, and he was just not my type. I simply pulled her aside said, "look, we're both attracted to you, but I am not attracted to your hubby. Let us know if you're able to play without him." It turned out she was, and did. He was cool with watching, and then had wild sex with her after we were finished. All were happy!

You never know unless you ask. It may sound "mean" to some, but you'd be surprised how many couples are in it for the lady's pleasure.

And btw, I have been on the other side of the coin, and hubby is fine watching too. Just be honest with us, and no one has to "take one for the team". Hubby looked at this and said, "hmm, I get a BJ, get to watch two hot women have sex, and I get my wife after. Sign me up!"

Simple and honest. That's how we roll.

Mrs. D

[gnb4u]

Originally Posted by des1re06

You never know unless you ask. It may sound "mean" to some, but you'd be surprised how many couples are in it for the lady's pleasure.

Hubby looked at this and said, "hmm, I get a BJ, get to watch two hot women have sex, and I get my wife after. Sign me up!"

Simple and honest. That's how we roll.

Mrs. D

In many ways I wish I could see it that way but I don't. I am sure I could get a lot of BJs that way but that is not what either of us signed up for. My wife is not all that bi and doesn't get into it and I really don't get into watching chicks having sex that much. If she got off on it and got all hot and horny from it that may be one thing, but she really doesn't. And even if she did, I am not her handler and don't want to be an admission price for someone to have to pay.