Trying to end the bi type confusion in ads

kycpl4bifem · 03-16-2003, 01:06 PM

It seems that every time I look through swinger ads on our favorite sites I see new ever more confusing labels for bi people. I my favorite was the lady who labeled herself "Quervo bi" and explained she was only bi when she drank taquilla.:p I'm still waiting to see one labeled werebi= only bi during the full moon.

In an attempt to end all the silly labels I would like to offer the following 4 as "standard bi labels". I think they will fit most bi people and cut down on all the confusion. Let me know what you think.

1. Bisexual=
Sexualy attracted to and capable of loving/ being in love with both men and women.
Tip: may lean more to one or the other for a full time mate.

2. Sexualy Bi=
Attracted/loving only the opposite sex but as long as it feels good they don't care which sex is doing oral on them at the moment.
TIP: They are not really bi just very horny and will often not give as good as they get.

3. Social Bi=
Doesn't even like being with same sex but does it either for their partner who likes to watch or to fit in with a group.
Tip: YOU ARE STR8. Stop this silly behavior now. Doing things to get people to like you is something you should have out grown by now. It is no fun playing with someone who is just going through the motions. If you are doing it so your spouce can watch; grow a backbone and tell him if he wants to see same sex action find a boyfriend!

4. Bi Curious=
Generaly either type 1 or 2 above who has not had the chance to experiment yet.
Tip: If you look at others of your sex and think they are pretty you are probably str8 and just like pretty things. If you look at someone of your sex and a strong desire to lean in and kiss them long and hard comes over you, you are probably bisexual.

Hope this helps end the silly labels. Somedays looking through the ads I think there are more labels than there are bi people.

Oh and as far as the bi after I get a few drinks people: You are not bi you are a drunk. If you pour enough booze down a frat boy hell fuck a goat but that doesn't make him a billy goat!

Everybody please let me know what you think.

FlyBiNiter · 03-16-2003, 05:49 PM

Finally !!! Someone got it right.. LOL I think you're right on target. Loved the post !!!

Fly

Bi-curious, not a drunk, has had the urge to kiss certain members of the same sex deeply and long, hates tequila, doesn't give a sh** about fitting in anymore, and has given better than she got at least once !!!

:evil:

ciscosv · 03-16-2003, 07:25 PM

You're right! There are too many damn lables. I myself would prefer a more straight forward approach.

Either you do or don't. K.I.S.S.

Flori_DAMAN · 03-16-2003, 07:34 PM

I am a heterosexualbicuriouspredominatelyhetero.

I dont care what anyone thinks.

BAAAAA.....

John

Roxysbayou · 03-17-2003, 03:30 PM

Thanks for the post, I defiantely agree. I have had several encounters with couples who claim to have a bi-sexual women. But when we get together, she seems to not be into it at all and hubby is pushing her to do it because it turns him on. I have always tended to bow out in this situation. I don't want to make these poor women anymore uncomfortable than they already are.

OhioCouple · 03-17-2003, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by kycpl4bifem

1. Bisexual=
Sexualy attracted to and capable of loving/ being in love with both men and women.
Tip: may lean more to one or the other for a full time mate.

Your posting was pretty much on target. The only thing that I can't agree with is that Bi-sexuals are capable of being "in love" with either sex. While I consider myself bi-sexual, I don't know that I could ever "love" another woman in which I would commit myself too. I enjoy the sensuality of another woman and thoroughly enjoy time spent with them, but I don't think I can fall in 'love' with them. Isn't that what separates lesbians and gay's? If it doesn't then maybe that doesn't make me bi-sexual at all.

Perhaps I am just sexual.

Lori

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-17-2003, 04:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OhioCouple
Your posting was pretty much on target. The only thing that I can't agree with is that Bi-sexuals are capable of being "in love" with either sex. While I consider myself bi-sexual, I don't know that I could ever "love" another woman in which I would commit myself too. I enjoy the sensuality of another woman and thoroughly enjoy time spent with them, but I don't think I can fall in 'love' with them. Isn't that what separates lesbians and gay's? If it doesn't then maybe that doesn't make me bi-sexual at all.

Perhaps I am just sexual.

Lori

I have to second that sentiment.

kycpl4bifem · 03-17-2003, 05:31 PM

Love to see honest open chat on a topic keep the replies coming. Guess I need to add these two also

Heterosexual=
Only loves the opposite sex

Homosexual=
Only loves the same sex (not both)

thesexmonsters · 03-17-2003, 05:32 PM

"While I consider myself bi-sexual, I don't know that I could ever "love" another woman in which I would commit myself too. I enjoy the sensuality of another woman and thoroughly enjoy time spent with them, but I don't think I can fall in 'love' with them."

Yep, me too!

I guess I would have to consider myself "sexually bi", by the above definitions. However, I do enjoy making the other girl quite happy, and I feel bad if I got more attention than I gave in any given situation.

- Mrs. Sex Monster

kycpl4bifem · 03-17-2003, 06:49 PM

Then I would say you are a very conciderate generous person sexually bi or bisexual. Wish everyone was as concerned with their partners whether they were in love or lust with them as you are.

babydragon · 03-18-2003, 06:32 AM

Cant we just say swings both ways if attracted

Sorry but I know I will never feel the same way towards a woman as I feel towards my hubby. Does that mean I am straight??

Flori_DAMAN · 03-19-2003, 02:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by babydragon
Cant we just say swings both ways if attracted

Sorry but I know I will never feel the same way towards a woman as I feel towards my hubby. Does that mean I am straight??

You are a heterolikesbibutloveshubbysexual

John

Flori_DAMAN · 03-19-2003, 02:36 AM

I am a celibate swinger so don't listen to me.

I have had NO sex in months.

None.

I coulndt even get it in a whore house.

Because they wanted me to be a BIG payer.

DAmn what am I?

babydragon · 03-19-2003, 07:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
DAmn what am I?

Horny?

lynn3 · 03-20-2003, 07:39 AM

So, I guess this means that 'flyBiNiter' is only 'bi'
when flying at night?

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03-16-2003, 01:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
kycpl4bifem Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Central Kentucky Status: Cpl	Trying to end the bi type confusion in ads It seems that every time I look through swinger ads on our favorite sites I see new ever more confusing labels for bi people. I my favorite was the lady who labeled herself "Quervo bi" and explained she was only bi when she drank taquilla.:p I'm still waiting to see one labeled werebi= only bi during the full moon. In an attempt to end all the silly labels I would like to offer the following 4 as "standard bi labels". I think they will fit most bi people and cut down on all the confusion. Let me know what you think. 1. Bisexual= Sexualy attracted to and capable of loving/ being in love with both men and women. Tip: may lean more to one or the other for a full time mate. 2. Sexualy Bi= Attracted/loving only the opposite sex but as long as it feels good they don't care which sex is doing oral on them at the moment. TIP: They are not really bi just very horny and will often not give as good as they get. 3. Social Bi= Doesn't even like being with same sex but does it either for their partner who likes to watch or to fit in with a group. Tip: YOU ARE STR8. Stop this silly behavior now. Doing things to get people to like you is something you should have out grown by now. It is no fun playing with someone who is just going through the motions. If you are doing it so your spouce can watch; grow a backbone and tell him if he wants to see same sex action find a boyfriend! 4. Bi Curious= Generaly either type 1 or 2 above who has not had the chance to experiment yet. Tip: If you look at others of your sex and think they are pretty you are probably str8 and just like pretty things. If you look at someone of your sex and a strong desire to lean in and kiss them long and hard comes over you, you are probably bisexual. Hope this helps end the silly labels. Somedays looking through the ads I think there are more labels than there are bi people. Oh and as far as the bi after I get a few drinks people: You are not bi you are a drunk. If you pour enough booze down a frat boy hell fuck a goat but that doesn't make him a billy goat! Everybody please let me know what you think.

03-16-2003, 07:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	You're right! There are too many damn lables. I myself would prefer a more straight forward approach. Either you do or don't. K.I.S.S. __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

03-17-2003, 03:30 PM	#5 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat	Thanks Thanks for the post, I defiantely agree. I have had several encounters with couples who claim to have a bi-sexual women. But when we get together, she seems to not be into it at all and hubby is pushing her to do it because it turns him on. I have always tended to bow out in this situation. I don't want to make these poor women anymore uncomfortable than they already are. __________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

03-17-2003, 05:32 PM	#9 (permalink)
thesexmonsters Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 64 Location: Central Coast, CA Status: Married Couple	Sexually Bi? "While I consider myself bi-sexual, I don't know that I could ever "love" another woman in which I would commit myself too. I enjoy the sensuality of another woman and thoroughly enjoy time spent with them, but I don't think I can fall in 'love' with them." Yep, me too! I guess I would have to consider myself "sexually bi", by the above definitions. However, I do enjoy making the other girl quite happy, and I feel bad if I got more attention than I gave in any given situation. - Mrs. Sex Monster __________________ ...We play well with others...

03-16-2003, 05:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
FlyBiNiter Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 121 Location: Oregon Status: Attached Female	Finally !!! Someone got it right.. LOL I think you're right on target. Loved the post !!! Fly Bi-curious, not a drunk, has had the urge to kiss certain members of the same sex deeply and long, hates tequila, doesn't give a sh** about fitting in anymore, and has given better than she got at least once !!! :evil:

03-16-2003, 07:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I am a heterosexualbicuriouspredominatelyhetero. I dont care what anyone thinks. BAAAAA..... John

03-17-2003, 05:31 PM	#8 (permalink)
kycpl4bifem Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Central Kentucky Status: Cpl	Love to see honest open chat on a topic keep the replies coming. Guess I need to add these two also Heterosexual= Only loves the opposite sex Homosexual= Only loves the same sex (not both)

03-17-2003, 06:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
kycpl4bifem Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Central Kentucky Status: Cpl	Then I would say you are a very conciderate generous person sexually bi or bisexual. Wish everyone was as concerned with their partners whether they were in love or lust with them as you are.

03-18-2003, 06:32 AM	#11 (permalink)
babydragon Active Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 102 Location: U.K Status: couple	Cant we just say swings both ways if attracted Sorry but I know I will never feel the same way towards a woman as I feel towards my hubby. Does that mean I am straight?? __________________ Always try things three times: 1st time to try it out. 2nd time to see if it's better. 3rd time just to recap 1st and 2nd.

03-19-2003, 02:36 AM	#13 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I am a celibate swinger so don't listen to me. I have had NO sex in months. None. I coulndt even get it in a whore house. Because they wanted me to be a BIG payer. DAmn what am I?

03-20-2003, 07:39 AM	#15 (permalink)
lynn3 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 36 Location: B'ham, AL Status: couple	So, I guess this means that 'flyBiNiter' is only 'bi' when flying at night?

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