Bi with the right woman????

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I think "bi with the right woman" is a way to warn other couples that the lady in question *might* be open to ff play, but does not consider it to be a regular/necessary component of her swing play. She might not be in the mood, or might be into the male half of the couple, but not into the female half.

In my case, I *think* that would describe me. But I'd have to have some experience to know for sure.

I'll call you in June.

[lovinher]

So if both women are bi how do you turn down the woman but not the man? Seems to me that could be awkward.

[cuzzeyesaidso]

For my wife the term means that although she's very interested in sex with other women, she won't attempt anything until she's absolutely sure the other woman is just as turned on by her. Women that are just into a little tit-sucking or touching won't do it for her. Definitely not the "right woman".

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

Say that you're bi friendly or passively bi or whatever.

Or whatever...?

So you're saying to pick a term that you feel best communicates your understanding of your sexuality and sexual interests. Yes? Is so - "bi with the right woman" fits Mrs Spoo perfectly, thank you. Why bother to change that?

Spoomonkey