Guys: What WOULD interest you in BI play?

[rdy46227]

A low key offer to play while the girl(s) are around from a male I will trust. 50/50 if it occurs before/after play starts. Encouragement from the girl(s) will really help.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Here's a question for you guys (because I really don't want to start yet another thread on this never-ending debate). Do any of you STRAIGHT guys ever enjoy having your wife (or another woman) give you a rim job or play with your ass in any way? Or would this also constitute a bisexual activity (even though it's being performed by a woman)?

I definately enjoy it when my gal plays with my ass & I love getting rimmed by her. "Bisexual" or not - I like the way it feels.

[celtic239]

Not for all the tea in China

[slevin]

I gave this kind of topic a lot of thought before we started swinging. In my mind, I was interested in Katrina being with another woman and while it was something she fantasized about she wasn't sure that she actually wanted to try it. It turns out she was mostly just nervous about it and after trying it the first time, in part to live out that fantasy and in part because she knew that it turned me on, she discovered that she really enjoyed it. So, while talking about that for her it occurred to me that perhaps it was unfair to ask that of her while being totally closed off to doing the same thing for her.

I asked myself; even though I've never been attracted to a guy nor fantasized about it, would I be open to exploring whether I'd enjoy it or not. A different situation than what Katrina went through since she did find women attractive and did fantasize about it, but I was trying to be completely open minded about it. I even took the step of watching a bit of gay porn, or bi-porn etc. The thought of the act did absolutely nothing for me, not that it grossed me out, but I was definitely not interested in doing it at all. Thankfully Katrina is completely not interested in seeing me with another guy either; dodged a bullet there.

What it came down to for me though was that while I had no attraction for other men and had no desire for man/man play the whole bi-male thing didn't really bother me much. Seeing it didn't gross me out, didn't make me uncomfortable and being near other guys during sex doesn't bother me at all...even when we're really close. Gay guys at a gay bar grabbing my ass without asking...that bothers me. Now, I did decide that if Katrina did want to see me with another guy, I'd be ok with him giving me a blowjob, and I wasn't sure if I'd be ok with fucking him. I was totally not ok with him fucking me, nor was I ok with giving him a blowjob.

Incidentally, one couple that we played with had a bi-male. They listed themselves as such in their ad and when we talked with them I was up front and let them know it didn't bother me, but that I/we had no interest in m/m play. They were cool with that and we played a bunch of times, it was totally comfortable and he never once did anything that stepped over any boundaries nor did he shy away from the natural closeness that occurs during all that fun couple play. It was fine.

Also, on the club front. The big club here in the city has no rules about m/m play; it is definitely allowed, what they don't allow is m/m couples attending the party. That has nothing to do with not being ok with bi/gay males, but is rather an unfortunate rule since they are worried that two straight guys would show up claiming to be a couple just to get into the club (which doesn't allow single men). That said, I've never seen m/m play at the club, and the owner tells me he can't recall it ever happening.

[SecretAsianMan]

I'd say at least 95% of the clubs / parties / events I've been to discourage or outright ban any type of male-male activity ... including any type of male bisexual play. Which, despite my being a straight male, I've always found a bit ... discriminating.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Here's a question for you guys (because I really don't want to start yet another thread on this never-ending debate). Do any of you STRAIGHT guys ever enjoy having your wife (or another woman) give you a rim job or play with your ass in any way?

We don't do it often, but we occasionally enjoy a little female-on-male rimming action. This can get Greg as hard as a rock even if she doesn't touch his cock, but any anal penetration is off the board.

[lb4u1952]

I Enjoy When A Woman Sticks Her Tounge On My Asshole--but I Can't Understand This Mith Of No Pentration. If Men Expect Women To Take It Up The Ass,why Cant A Woman Strap One On And Give It To A Man. I Final Anal Sex Exciting.
Len

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by lb4u1952

If Men Expect Women To Take It Up The Ass,why Cant A Woman Strap One On And Give It To A Man.

Seriously, men "expect" a woman to take it up the ass?
I think your argument contains a false assumption.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

Seriously, men "expect" a woman to take it up the ass?
I think your argument contains a false assumption.

With far too many capital letters.

I think anal in swinging is not all that common with play partners, and no one really expects it.

Now I have NO idea how the concept of a woman doing something to a mans ass would be 'gay' thats some seriously non-linear thinking if someone feels that. I have no desire to get done by a woman with a strap on, not even a little, but I'd not feel I did something gay if I did.

[theflamekasters]

Originally Posted by lb4u1952

I Enjoy When A Woman Sticks Her Tounge On My Asshole--but I Can't Understand This Mith Of No Pentration. If Men Expect Women To Take It Up The Ass,why Cant A Woman Strap One On And Give It To A Man. I Final Anal Sex Exciting.
Len

tottally agree with you on this!! I got it goo dlast night, and loved every minute of it!!! Giving and recieving!!

[bryanlee]

I say do what feels good and makes you happy. Let everyone else worry about how they decide to label you.